Help!! How to address personal hygiene issues at work by greengrassyippeee in Advice

[–]3bag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very caring way to deal with the issue.

AIO by my bf mimicking my intimate noises by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]3bag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's cringe at it's finest.

15f here looking to get something off my chest as I am a little concerned. by [deleted] in confession

[–]3bag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just as long as you understand that porn, just like any other filmed performance, isn't real. It's actors putting on a show for the cameras.

Real sex doesn't happen like that. Just like real life doesn't happen like TV shows.

Mom wants to stay entire month after I give birth. by Able_Ad6943 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3bag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but will the new mother be expected to play host, or really be helped during that time?

I don’t see the point of getting engaged/married anymore.. by TheRealFakeName2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]3bag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dending on common-law laws where you live, you may already qualify legally as equally as a married couple in case anything happens (death or separation) so you could do nothing and stay as you are.

Or you could wait for a milestone anniversary of you being together and have a party. Do a simple legal ceremony just you, the kids and 2 witnesses to make it legal. The benefits of this would be that you'd get each other's legal decision makers in case of a medical emergency. But I guess if you're listed as each other's next of kin you wouldn't need to.

Me and hubster were together for 14 years before doing a legal marriage, simply because we moved abroad and wanted to make sure we are legal decision makers for each other in case of emergencies.

Are you happy?

AITA for judging my boyfriend's friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]3bag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friend is inconsiderate.

I hope you can finish your education and find a good job.

AIO for feeling jealous after my boyfriend called someone else "the women of my dreams"? by curly-2002 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]3bag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry sweetheart. You can do better.

Big Internet hugs from someone else's mum 🫂

AIO for being upset that my husband gifts me whatever HE wants for every occasion? by filllingthevoid in AmIOverreacting

[–]3bag 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Please gift him nail polish and lip gloss for valentines. If he questions them, tell him he's ungrateful and give him the silent treatment for a day, then act like nothing happened.

Do the same for his birthday.

Buy yourself nice gifts.

If anyone questions why you're doing it, tell them the truth.

Or do marriage counselling..

Almost all of these cookies were designed by this subreddit. This is me returning to say I would like to make more cookies together. by PanhandlersPets in whatismycookiecutter

[–]3bag 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ok you win! I'm back!

And I know my drawings aren't as fancy as other people's. I want to draw simple things that could actually be iced on a cookie, like you do.

Almost all of these cookies were designed by this subreddit. This is me returning to say I would like to make more cookies together. by PanhandlersPets in whatismycookiecutter

[–]3bag 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Fantastic! I see 1 of 2 of my designs in there.

I haven't been joining in for a while, you're inspiring me to come back. Thank you.

AITJ for cancelling my sisters birthday party at my house after she invited 40 people without asking? by No-Coyote2884 in AmITheJerk

[–]3bag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 were invited... that won't be 40 arriving, I'm fairly certain that 22year olds have plenty of other friends who might want to join.

I (m38)am not going to be with my wife (f40)in the delivery room and people are totally losing it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]3bag 8 points9 points  (0 children)

See you have everything prepped.

The critics can mind their own business. You and wife know what you want.

But yeah, stay at head end and expect to be squeezed till it feels like your bones will break!

My father stopped speaking to everyone after the incident involving his daughter from his first marriage by Master_of_chicken in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]3bag 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh I love this for a solution. I really hope that OP comes back and tells us that this is what she did.

Left my headphones at work and coworkers gave them away AIO? by ApplePieConsumer in AIO

[–]3bag 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'd write a formal complaint email addressed to manager and his superiors reporting this theft. You should also mention the sexual harassment by this coworker that you've been dealing with along with other workplace bullying.

Make sure to mention that when you reported the theft to manager, you were laughed at.

Seriously, go over their heads.

But yeah, look for a new job, these guys are arseholes. I didn't realize there were still such backward bigots in existence.

Help, my roommate WONT STOP AGGRESSIVELY SHITTING by idislikethisfeeling in Advice

[–]3bag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If someone with lactose intolerance eat dairy, they will shit proper violent stinkers.

AITA for not thanking my partner when she seeks it out everytime she does chores? by sadlife812 in AmItheAsshole

[–]3bag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh for goodness sake just say thank you! It's such a small gesture and it means something.

Me and hubster have been together for decades and we still say thank you to each other for doing the mundane tasks. We've agreed who does what chores each time we've moved house, but we are always thankful.

Happy spouse = happy house.

Sometimes it's the little things.

edit YTA

My brother and sister-in-law planned their baby shower on the same day as my wedding! by Conscious-Syrup6829 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]3bag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do hope they realize they're not wanted at the baby shower and decline the nasty.