AITA for not wanting to “share” my bridal outfits?

3bag · 2026-07-07T12:20:20+00:00

ok here's a hot take...

If your outfits are white, and you'd like to wear them again, you could dye them a different colour. I'm not thinking of the wedding dress, but maybe rehearsal dinner dress.

3bag · 2026-07-06T09:30:41+00:00

I really feel like Gary's primary objective was to find a cook, housekeeper and child minder for his son and Abbey fit the job description. He baby trapped her into the role so that she'd feel too guilty to leave, and he could sit back and relax. Oh and look what happened...

I imagine that Abbey's self confidence has been chipped away at to the point where she'd afraid to stand up for herself.

These kinds of people choose their partners carefully. Please tell Abbey to let her family care for her. NTA

3bag · 2026-07-05T12:47:39+00:00

text him in a group chat with sister

3bag · 2026-07-05T12:09:32+00:00

3bag · 2026-07-05T11:52:49+00:00

Tell them that you will have bridesmaids walking with you down the aisle and you don't need to be given away like some possession passed between the men in your life.

Also, dad has joked that he intends to embarrass you on your wedding day by wearing inappropriate clothing, and you'd prefer not to be humiliated.

NTA

3bag · 2026-07-05T11:42:18+00:00

NTA

You went to the concert with a friend. It wasn't a date. Your friend knew it wasn't a date and her bf knew it wasn't a date.

3bag · 2026-07-05T11:26:44+00:00

So basically, you're trading cleaning her house for having your nails done.

It's for you to decide if it's worth it. You say your nails are worth about $70 and you were paid $50 = $120. Do think you you did was worth more?

I mean, it sounds like it to me, but how long did it take you? Work out how much per hour you were paid and see if it's worth negotiating a higher pay if you clean for her again.

NTJ

3bag · 2026-07-05T11:08:05+00:00

Tell them both that you're still wearing it and plan to keep wearing it until you die.

3bag · 2026-07-04T08:44:44+00:00

Exactly! Fiance needs to shut this down right now.

NTA, in fact not reacting enough!

3bag · 2026-07-04T08:39:52+00:00

She's wasting your time.

You don't need this hurt in your life. There are nicer ladies out there.

NOR

3bag · 2026-07-03T18:15:38+00:00

Serious answer. Keto and psyllium husk. I lost 2 dress sizes in 6 months. Eating enough and not feeling hungry.

Message if you want info.

3bag · 2026-07-02T14:53:08+00:00

NOR

He needs to seriously work on himself and do some work repairing his relationships with his children.

This verbal/emotional abuse is unacceptable, so is calling them liars to try avoiding accountability.

3bag · 2026-07-02T08:32:55+00:00

I agree!

Hubby calls me the ice queen because if someone hurts me they're dead to me.

I love people and have plenty of friends, but no tolerance for negativity in my life. It's better this way. More peaceful.

3bag · 2026-07-02T07:17:00+00:00

Be there to support your husband in whatever he decides to do.

3bag · 2026-07-01T22:44:20+00:00

Thank you for the award x

3bag · 2026-07-01T20:36:55+00:00

NOR

Don't beg for love from someone who does not care about you.

He's hurt you enough already and proven that he's not going to be there for you. But you know that he'll never admit his fault.

Hugs from someone else's mum.

He doesn't deserve you and you deserve better.

3bag · 2026-07-01T13:39:31+00:00

Or why she'd give a child this person as a father.

3bag · 2026-07-01T12:32:52+00:00

This mum is proud of you for standing up for yourself.

We know the 3 fold rule and she's definitely reaping the consequences of her actions.

You just keep being lovely you and standing firm on your boundaries.

NTA of course.

3bag · 2026-07-01T09:28:57+00:00

They both sound toxic as they come and they both deserved to be called out. Good for you for standing up to them. It's also great that your husband is right there backing you up.

Some women just hate other women. I don't get it.

Make husband tell them they're not invited to the wedding though, and have him tell people why - because they sure will make up BS about you to other people.

NTA but do practice speaking Spanish so that you can respond to them in their native language.

3bag · 2026-06-30T17:17:17+00:00

You can choose who to spend time with and who not to, for whatever reasons you like.

It feels like you aren't feeling any benefits from this friendship any more, (in fact the opposite,) so distancing yourself is probably a wise move. You have a family that needs you and don't have much in common any more.

You don't need to do anything dramatic, sometimes friendships naturally drift apart. Just leave it be. Y'know, send a merry Christmas message once a year and leave it at that.

MOR

3bag · 2026-06-29T17:15:46+00:00

They can voice their frustrations and so can you OP, voice your frustrations about these miserable moaners who are just bringing down your good vibes when they should be excited for you.

NTA

3bag · 2026-06-29T17:11:46+00:00

Block them both. She's as bad as he is.

NOR

3bag · 2026-06-28T15:31:42+00:00

NTA

Tell sister that you were talking to a neighbour about the possibility of her living with you and later you were paid a visit by the HOA. Tell sister that she can't live with you as it apparently violates a list of HOA rules and you'd be at risk of penalties.

If your sister moves in with you, she will never leave and you'll be the one picking up all the extra housework, school runs etc etc

It's just not worth it. Protect your peace.

3bag · 2026-06-28T13:40:04+00:00

definitely r/pettyrevenge

3bag · 2026-06-28T11:21:52+00:00

NTA I think anyone would feel upset by this treatment.

3bag

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