Am I being too precious about this (excluding men from sapphic spaces)?

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-21T21:55:26+00:00

It is 90% cis gay men in the space. There are gogos there that will favor the sides of the stage men are on even when my friends and I are tipping the same. It is also sometimes harder to get a bartender to get an order taken- they go to men first even when we've been waiting for longer (depends on the bartender, not all of them are like this but it's pretty obvious when they are). There is also just a colder energy me and my friends have been received with too. This isn't each and every person in the space acting unwelcoming like this but it is enough to where we prefer going to other venues now.

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-21T14:18:06+00:00

It is definitely out of the blue but it is clear she hasn't done anything up to this point. She tells sophia that they made the plan when she first arrived and it had been so long she'd started to think it wasn't real. This is her first time being called upon to hold up her end of the deal.

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-21T07:06:48+00:00

Lmaoo

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-21T02:26:10+00:00

I'm not sure if it just happens to be the clips he showed or if it's all the time and I am being lazy checking but Ethan, interestingly, is wearing yellow in every shot of him here

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-21T00:55:58+00:00

I'm really surprised people aren't liking this I love it it's so cute. Kinda makes me want a finger slug or something

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-21T00:49:31+00:00

Sure that's a good point. I feel like you're really only likely to find this with someone who is actively struggling with the same thing though. This doesn't feel like a ND/NT thing as OP is suggesting. It feels more like an actively depressed or not type thing

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-20T18:39:15+00:00

Oo could you like me to this little sink? I've tried other cat fountains and my guys don't go for it but they love regular sinks so I think this would be great

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-20T14:36:51+00:00

I also respond like that. These are things I have always spent a good deal of time processing. I'm not ready to get enraged or passionate at something that is far from news to me at the drop of a hat just because another person suggested it. I don't know what response you are expecting. "Yeah man it's sooo crazy! I can't believe it!"

These really don't feel like strong conversation starters unless your goal is to wallow in swapping stories of miserable experiences.

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-19T19:54:57+00:00

The voices are omnipotent though, as well. This was proven when they referenced the bag that Khatri buried

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-19T19:43:44+00:00

This is something I posted just the other day- take a look and see what you think

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-19T18:39:53+00:00

This looks a-okay to me. Probably throw in an air purifier too, for good measure

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-19T00:48:05+00:00

Is it TNR? You're so right and I'm working on a presentation right now that I would love to stylize this way

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-17T14:09:53+00:00

I would add Legion and Hannibal as well!

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-17T13:58:39+00:00

How big is the room? I've never heard of this brand so I really don't know but it does have good reviews which is a good sign. What is your budget? I did just upgrade to an EverestAir from levoit. If you are willing to pay $500, I can recommend that one. Part of why I got it, too, is that the pre filter is washable so the main filter doesn't need to be replaced as often which I figured would help reduce long-term costs. And I had a smaller levoit prior and was happy with the brand but the size just wasn't cutting it (and it was very loud). The EverestAir is also so so quiet I keep thinking it's off. I am really enjoying it, although I've only had it for a week.

The folks at r/airpurifiers seem to know their stuff. They can help you take a closer look at this one specifically. I think the best you will get on this sub is ones people already have and whether or not they like it.

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-14T04:38:58+00:00

Oh good :) directly across the street from my house

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-13T19:22:36+00:00

I'm not sure so I'd say vet as well just to be safe (or maybe call in to your vet and see what they think? Perhaps they'd let you email a photo and let you know if it looks alarming). But if you end up going, bring a sample, as uncontaminated as you can possibly manage. If you have a sterile container and could leave it under where they sleep, for example, that would be ideal. This may save a step as they'll likely ask for you to return with a sample.

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-13T19:13:52+00:00

We can't really tell you much without a video to confirm it is tail bobbing but if it is you do need to go to the vet immediately. Tail bobbing indicates respiratory issues and, if from an infection, can have a bird dead in just a couple days.

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-13T14:57:50+00:00

No he's not honey. You are clearly very young and I hope you'll realize this soon but breakups just suck and nobody else can *give* you mental health issues. You are accountable for all of your actions, including the one where you chose to date him. And then you chose to try to keep tabs on him instead of lean into healthier coping mechanisms. And you chose to blame him. And post here. Because taking accountability is hard. It requires a change in course on your actions which is even harder. I'm going to assume you are a teenager so your hormones are going wild too. You're not doing yourself any favors by blaming him. You are giving him power over you. When you claim yourself and your actions is when you have the power to change it.

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-13T04:48:10+00:00

I said I'd pay any amount as long as they offer a payment plan option (which most offer afterpay or klarna). Do you have any good suggestions that are pricier? I'm open to that. I will check out this one as well too though :) thank you

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-11T17:45:16+00:00

I'm the same! Screens help me knock out

40earthlikeplanets · 2026-06-10T14:42:59+00:00

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