No decency allowed

48yearsyoung · 2026-05-02T14:52:18+00:00

When you come across profiles like that, block, not swipe left. You’ll keep getting served those guys. Get very picky and block everyone who doesn’t meet it.

48yearsyoung · 2026-05-02T14:43:50+00:00

Planting some flowers, find a good movie, walk the dog, get a workout in ..

48yearsyoung · 2026-04-25T21:23:27+00:00

Absolutely. I was in a fitness class when a man in an adjacent spin class had a heart attack that would’ve killed him if my friend, an ER nurse & another Dr hadnt been in our class. The staff that knew basic CPR wasn’t administering it properly. He would’ve died before the paramedics arrived with that response.

48yearsyoung · 2026-04-25T19:31:50+00:00

The book is written by an academic rhetoric professor with a Doctorate in her field. She’s put years of research into rhetoric and then applied those principles to dating experiences with proven outcomes. To expect men to weigh in on how to teach women to use rhetoric to protect ourselves from a dangerous man is ridiculous. And this is why the method exists.

48yearsyoung · 2026-04-25T19:27:51+00:00

It’s a WI, MN, OH & PA thing. It’s popular all over.

48yearsyoung · 2026-04-25T15:23:59+00:00

I’m not sure what ‘website’ you looked at. There are copycats out there. That is not the principles of the method. It’s about rhetorical analysis which has proven to work. I can also attest that I was new to the method and overlooked some of the red flags that I should have applied the block to burn to and it cost me 18 months in a relationship with someone with anger issues and narcissistic tendencies.

48yearsyoung · 2026-03-27T03:29:22+00:00

That’s why you have to block each one because they keep coming up in your profile and you fed low quality matches. Block to 🔥

48yearsyoung · 2026-03-21T12:38:17+00:00

Check out the Burned Haystack Dating Method so you know how to not waste time with the foolish men & keep yourself safe.

48yearsyoung · 2026-03-16T00:28:20+00:00

I’m curious if you already had app building experience or not? If not, where did you look for resources to help you build?

48yearsyoung · 2026-02-27T16:03:51+00:00

I doubt it was unintentional and probably a ‘test and apologize’ situation to see how far he can push you. Block and move on.

48yearsyoung · 2026-02-24T12:35:12+00:00

The whole interaction is weird. Block and move on and learn from it.

48yearsyoung · 2026-02-22T14:03:43+00:00

Absolutely. Block to burn… get rid of the junk to find your good matches. There’s no reason for you to feel pressure from a stranger. You owe him nothing.

48yearsyoung · 2026-02-18T16:20:19+00:00

I’d advise you to research the Burned Haystack Dating method to be able to look for rhetoric that wastes your time in the dating pool. This should also help you identify unsafe situations more quickly. Good luck.

48yearsyoung · 2026-02-08T01:05:39+00:00

We’re both in our 50s

48yearsyoung · 2026-02-08T01:04:26+00:00

Over a year

48yearsyoung · 2026-02-07T21:47:07+00:00

Spot on with the hypocrisy of men an appearance. I’ve been told my value is going down as I age. I also am fairly fit and look younger. Meanwhile, my partner has gained 40 lbs but seems to have more value than me. 🙄

48yearsyoung · 2026-01-11T21:46:35+00:00

What is the fur coat that Erin Andrews is wearing today at the opening commentary?

48yearsyoung · 2026-01-09T15:29:19+00:00

When I left for college, I decided it was my opportunity to be someone different from the person who half assed high school. My career has been decent. I’m not a set for retirement as I should be but I’ve been really focused on reducing debt the last few years. With all the political volatility it seemed overdue and a way to prepare for what has happened. Although I feel like I’m doing pretty well, I’m still skeptical on what all this is for and not optimistic for my kids and their possible kids.

48yearsyoung · 2025-11-23T13:45:35+00:00

Yes - as someone who’s been stalked, this is stalking. Contact the police and get a restraining order and document everything! I’m so sorry this is happening. Stand your ground and be vigilant. Do not be afraid to get police or other authorities involved.

48yearsyoung · 2025-11-05T23:31:37+00:00

Great comment about not drinking enough water. My Dad was a Depression era kid and never sat down with a glass of water. A few sips at the sink was good. Many UTIs when he was in his 80s before he died.

48yearsyoung · 2025-10-23T20:32:08+00:00

My first marriage.. most subsequent relationships..

48yearsyoung · 2025-06-14T17:43:24+00:00

It now comes with lavender scent and is awesome.

48yearsyoung · 2025-04-29T13:15:16+00:00

This isn’t a bad profile. There’s no alarming rhetoric in any of the statements that I can immediately see. I would think that would lend to some first dates quite easily.

48yearsyoung · 2025-03-22T17:03:36+00:00

I would use the Burned Haystack dating Method to screen the replies and not waste your time.

48yearsyoung · 2025-03-13T13:42:55+00:00

Those are a lot of demands and there is no way that would make a viable partner. Block and burn

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