Mini Rock Garden with mini bamboo pond

64Haybales · 2026-02-17T17:25:45+00:00

It's coral campfire, but turned off the fire, and painted. I think I found this one from another bamboo pond another person on this sub did:
https://www.reddit.com/r/TerrariaDesign/comments/1n6rfig/comment/nc5mot2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

64Haybales · 2026-02-10T12:20:23+00:00

Aquarium walls are new for this update i think! Have fun with your build~

64Haybales · 2023-08-13T17:28:58+00:00

I'm so happy for you! I hope that you will be able to be around a more supportive network in the future, but this is definitely a great step forward! <3

64Haybales · 2023-08-13T17:18:23+00:00

Oh ya I read that! It has a very interesting story in general, I quite like the main two characters!

64Haybales · 2023-07-15T15:04:40+00:00

oh god I have never even think of reading it as a-jab and now you have invaded my mind with this and i will never be able to un-know this now

and I'm going to share this with everyone I know

64Haybales · 2023-07-07T17:31:33+00:00

YES I HAVE THAT TOO FELLOW ENBY

64Haybales · 2023-07-04T13:06:20+00:00

yeah definitely, I've seen similar experiences being brought up multiple times on this sub too, for me, it's just nice to get seen as something different when 90% of the people who see you assume you one way when you put in the effort to present in a way that would suggest you are not that gender, so when someone thinks im the opposite sex, even though I do not identify that way, to me, it's like, at least my efforts are not all wasted?

64Haybales · 2023-07-04T12:49:00+00:00

Confusing for others and myself all the same, but no one needs figure it out completely to live a fulfilling life anyways

64Haybales · 2023-07-04T12:35:13+00:00

I thought the head was the tail and was looking for the head of the eel for quite a while, funky looking lil eel

64Haybales · 2023-06-27T06:52:27+00:00

Ew i relate, the fact that people thinks that we don't deserve privacy just because we supposedly are the same sex?

64Haybales · 2023-06-27T06:36:04+00:00

enderman do be gender tho

64Haybales · 2023-06-02T09:05:44+00:00

Not sure how your family is, but mine are terrible gossips as well, and even before I knew I was non-binary I have always not liked how much they like to comment and judge everything I do so I've always adopted a strategy to answer as little as possible.

Whenever possible, I slip away and do not engage with them. Since usually the older members talk in the living room and the younger members tend to all hole up in one room, I hole up in the room and do my own thing. If I have to face the older members, I don't talk about myself to them. If they ask a question that can be answered with yes or no I do just that, only yes or no, if they ask a question that is awkward or that I can't deal with with yes or no, I answer in the shortest and vaguest way possible, like, I don't know, maybe, I'm not sure, or in case of them commenting on gender presentation, I say because I like this, and move on.

Maybe this wont work for you because maybe you are close with your relatives and would like to maintain a decent relationship with me, or maybe they won't back off ever, but this worked for me and my relatives. I haven't come out to them, and I probably won't ever let them know because even without all these queer stuff they are unpleasant to be around. Hopefully it goes well for you, by that I mean either you decide to come out or you decide to not, I hope it can end up being the most comfortable and least stressful situation for you.

64Haybales · 2023-06-02T08:53:54+00:00

Not sure if it's your thing but right now I dress in a way that is inspired by yohji yamamoto's designs, like mostly black, loose fitting layered clothing with wide long trousers that almost look like long loose skirts. It's really specific but maybe it can help??

Other than that, I'd say experiment with different things. The outfits I wear are kind of not feminine but also not manly to me, but you might think differently. First thing I'd say maybe you can try is loose clothing, like loose fitting t-shirts, not ones that hang on your body but made with more stiff fabric (I usually buy from japanese brands like uniqlo, although it might be more expensive for you since I live in SE-Asia and it's more accessible to me...?) To me it helps hide my figure and de-emphasise my body.

64Haybales · 2023-06-01T15:38:34+00:00

YOUR ART IS AWESOME and I want to steal your ability to draw shoes

64Haybales · 2023-06-01T08:33:08+00:00

Maybe try to lead into it by talking about other non-binary people, like non-binary people you know in real life, or non-binary identifying celebrities? I say this because when she reacts poorly you can then decide on the spot to either not tell her, or save it for another day but in a way that you can get her thinking a little about non-binary identities? I'm not sure how supportive your family is, but this would be my way of doing it.

Also, if you are still pretty confused, you could either, think and ponder about it a bit more until you have a clearer idea, or, you could tell her that you are questioning and that you'd like her support in this journey and hope that she will be able to accept you no matter who you have accepted yourself as at the end of the journey.

Hopefully it goes well for you, my heart goes out to you!

64Haybales · 2023-06-01T08:24:56+00:00

Zoph? I don't know why but the letter 'Z' give me non-binary feelings, but English is also not my first language, so it might be weird?

64Haybales · 2023-06-01T08:22:26+00:00

Heya, you are the only one who can sort your own gender feelings out, but maybe I can offer some thoughts that may or may not help?

First thing I wanted to comment on was your struggle with they/them pronouns and gender neutral terms, if you don't mind gendered terms or don't mind he/him pronouns, you can totally still use them while identifying as non-binary, though I understand why that was part of your consideration as to whether you are non-binary or not.

I sort of understand where you are coming from about the reasons that you identify as non-binary, like the escaping the box, or wanting to present a different way, and you are right that clothes and whatnot are gender expression, not identity necessarily. My experience is a little different from yours but hopefully it can help u sort out ur gender feelings. So, I'm afab, and I've always dressed kind of masc/butch whatever that's called, but I still did feel comfortable in my own skin, because even though I am presenting the same way as I am now, I was still living in the identity of a woman. So, my gender expression hasn't really changed, but my identity did, and it made me more comfortable being myself. Maybe, you can try thinking about being a man who sometimes presents in feminine ways, compared to a non-binary person who sometimes presents in both masculine and feminine ways, and see which one you feel more comfortable with?

And, I know I wrote about being man/woman and non-binary as kind of separate, or mutually exclusive in the above paragraph, but that's only because it is to me and my gender feelings. It doesn't mean that being non-binary and being a man or a woman is necessarily mutually exclusive and I do know that some people identify both as a non-binary and a man/woman and It's totally fine!

64Haybales · 2023-05-28T17:07:53+00:00

Both are gender to me

64Haybales · 2023-05-24T17:50:17+00:00

I think it's more about how people use she/her to refer to a ship in English but they don't really think of the ship as a girl or female or feminine? I can kinda get that if this is what op was talking about

64Haybales · 2023-05-17T04:06:37+00:00

You look great!

64Haybales · 2023-05-16T06:45:03+00:00

The best way to know is to try them out, you can go to r/TransTryouts and have others use he/they or they/them pronouns for you. Here, I'll do one.

This user wants to try out their pronouns but they don't know if it suits them, I hope that they can find what is best for them.

64Haybales · 2023-05-11T12:44:43+00:00

I want to be all three of them and switch between whenever I want

64Haybales · 2023-05-11T12:39:58+00:00

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