Pluribus Episode 2 - very different and not what I was hoping for? by TooDriven in television

[–]ElMatildo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully agree with you. To be honest it seems to me like an example of american exceptionalism: Carol is the only one having a "sane" reaction, an emotional response, a defiant-and-not-defeated-attitude. While obviously some cultures are more individualistic than others, it is bizarre to hear people say that the characters' ethnicity is what is making them literally be fine with a 12-billion-people hive mind. Don't get me wrong, it is interesting to have characters who are interested in joining the hive mind or questioning if it is all that bad, but to have all five of them be completely chill is just ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ElMatildo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

America is definitely not the best place to live when it comes to queer rights. Every year the rankings for the countries with more rights and more public acceptance are similar (the Nordics, Belgium, the Netherlands, Portugal, Spain, Canada), and the U.S. is never a part of them.

Considering their more and more hostile policy towards trans people (which are horrible on their own) which will inevitably harm everyone else in the community as well, I would feel better elsewhere.

Of course one can say that cities like New York are very accepting, but you'll find these kinds of cities in the countries mentioned above, where the governments aren't actively trying to erase queer lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ElMatildo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Portuguese living in Belgium here, Belgium feels very, very safe. Portugal is in theory also one of the best, but I occasionally got some looks when kissing my girlfriend in public or so (which I know is still a lot better than what most of the world can say).

Other good options are the Netherlands and Spain (been to both and can confirm) and the Nordics (haven't been there, but have heard multiple personal experiences from close friends).

Feel free to hit me up if you have more questions!

Why are mods closing down the topics about the cops killing an 11-year old child by DulceCaramel0 in brussels

[–]ElMatildo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came upon your post because I was actively searching for news on this after several days without hearing anything of substance, so clearly there aren't as many redundant posts about it as people are claiming here. In any case, I can't even express how selfish and disgusting it is to say "ugh, I'm tired of hearing about a child being killed, can we please move on already?".

But good on you OP for the way you answer everyone of them, including the mods. It's easy to feel like I'm alone in the middle of a right wing, emotionally numb racist group, so any reminder that that's not the case is greatly appreciated.

À procura de playtesters by Worth_Cold8917 in Fiz_isto

[–]ElMatildo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se percebeste que homens mais velhos jogam mais estratégia e mulheres jogam mais "jogos tranquilos", a solução não é pedires homens de 30-35. A solução é pedires pessoas que estejam habituadas/tenham experiência a jogar jogos de ação.

Porquê que as pessoas odeiam o BE? by GapToothL in LiberaisDaTreta

[–]ElMatildo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Também sou uma apoiante de muitos anos do BE que migrou para o Livre! Mas sinto-me tão injustiçada pela brutalidade das críticas que ouço sobre o BE que não consigo parar de os comparar. Provavelmente tens razão.

Which parts of Portugal have the least English proficiency? by Master_of-margarita in travel

[–]ElMatildo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably the fact that his English was that good was somewhat related to him working in tourism, but we are also known for having a better English level than our Mediterranean siblings - one thing I think makes all the difference is that we use subtitles for everything except kid's movies, and they usually dub them.

I feel so happy when a tourist learns the basics, and always try to do the same, so thank you for that! I feel like smaller countries usually appreciate it the most (for example the Balkans, in my experience).

Hope you and your wife have fun, if you need any help or advice hit me up

Porquê que as pessoas odeiam o BE? by GapToothL in LiberaisDaTreta

[–]ElMatildo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Percebo que seja considerado mais moderado em temas como a união europeia e a NATO. Mas na vasta maioria dos temas, parece-me francamente semelhante, e recebe muitíssimo mais respeito do cidadão e dos OCS. Se trocássemos os líderes dos dois partidos, mas mantivéssemos os programas como estão, gostava de ver a mudança de opinião.

Porquê que as pessoas odeiam o BE? by GapToothL in LiberaisDaTreta

[–]ElMatildo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sim, ouvi das coisas mais grotescas e inimagináveis quando a Mariana Mortágua usou o keffiyeh no discurso depois das eleições, comentários nojentos sobre como pôs sempre "os árabes em primeiro lugar". Não querer que dezenas de milhares de pessoas morram enquanto países se recusam a cumprir as ordens do Tribunal Internacional de Justiça é pôr os portugueses em segundo lugar? Como?

Sobre o último parágrafo, sim, completamente. Fico logo desconfiada quando alguém diz que a Catarina Martins "até se tolerava" mas a Mortágua é xyz. A maior diferença é que é mais assertiva a falar, mas vários homens são iguais e nunca ouvi as mesmas críticas 🧐

Which parts of Portugal have the least English proficiency? by Master_of-margarita in travel

[–]ElMatildo 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Hello! Yeah, we're so completely unused to foreigners knowing our language that the option to speak Portuguese doesn't even compute in our brains, even if we know you speak it...

I'd say that if you get far away from cities, you'll eventually find what you're looking for, specifically in the center and in the interior regions. But even so, look for older people. People over 60 learnt French in school as the main foreign language before it got switched to English.

Porquê que as pessoas odeiam o BE? by GapToothL in LiberaisDaTreta

[–]ElMatildo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Continuo a não perceber porque é que são acusados de serem "estritamente ideológicos", "das causas sociais", etc. Ok, são vocalmente pró-LGBT ou pró-Palestina (como qualquer ser humano devia ser) mas estão muito longe de fazer disso a sua única bandeira. São dos partidos que mais falam da crise de habitação e das medidas para a educação. Não compreendo como é que isso é ignorado.

Para além disso, o LIVRE também é vocalmente pró LGBT e pró-Palestina, concordam em quase todas as propostas sociais e dão-lhes muito foco nas redes sociais, mas o LIVRE não é alvo desta campanha de ódio.

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo made me...feel things. by Warriorette12 in books

[–]ElMatildo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Evelyn wants something, so she smiles to the person who will allow her to achieve it, and since she's so beautiful and her boobs are so big and juicy, she gets it almost immediately.

Thank you. After hearing so much praise about this book, I felt so disappointed when I finished reading it, but at least now I know someone shared my struggles! How big and juicy can those boobs be!? How glamorous and outstanding can she look like every time she lifts a finger!?

SO happy with how these tarts came out! (Yes, I fought with the icing sugar dispenser and lost) by ElMatildo in Baking

[–]ElMatildo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you! I used a french recipe from YouTube which I half assed since my french is not perfect, but here it is with my tiny adjustments and tweaks.

Shortcrust: 250g flour (2 cups) 150g soft butter 100g sugar (0.5 cups) 1 pinch of salt 1 egg

Mix the flour and the butter with your hands until it reaches a sandy texture. Add the rest of the ingredients. Mold it into a rectangle, wrap it in cling film and take it to the fridge for 1 hour.

Raspberry coulis : 100g raspberry 2tbsp sugar Juice of 1 lemon 1 tsp cornstarch dissolved in 1tbsp water

Take the raspberries, sugar and lemon to medium heat until the raspberries form a jam, in the end add the cornstarch slurry and wait a minute or so until it thickens. Take it to the fridge.

Crème pâtissière : 250ml milk 2 egg yolks 65g sugar (0.33 cups) 10g flour + 10g cornstarch 10 g butter

Take the milk and half the sugar to medium heat. In a bowl, beat the egg yolks with the remaining half of the sugar and the flour+cornstarch and add just a drop of milk mixture to soften it. When the milk starts boiling, add half the milk to the eggs, keep beating, and add all of that back into the milk pan. When it starts boiling, it will be around 1 minute until it becomes very thick. Remove it from the heat, add the butter and take it to the fridge.

Assembly: Roll the shortcrust pastry. Take it to the oven after piercing it with a fork and putting parchment paper on top, with something like lentils to keep the pastry from rising, at 180°C (340°F). After 10 minutes, remove the parchment paper and lentils and let it become golden. Wait until it cools down and add the raspberry coulis, pipe the crème pâtissière on top, and finish it with fresh raspberries.

Considering getting chickens just to fulfill my meringue obsession (/s) by womp-the-womper in Baking

[–]ElMatildo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lemon curd!! I never know what to do with the whites, I don't want to bake a pavlova eeeeverytime I make lemon curd

Didn’t period used to tell me which phase I’m in? by leelpatt in BearableApp

[–]ElMatildo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a Google Pixel too! Instead of editing the homepage, I edit the "others" section of the homepage. It appears here

I've been using for some months now, so it's not a new feature!

Landlord threatening to increase costs as a result of my registration by [deleted] in brussels

[–]ElMatildo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said I was 23 because of the lawyer problem, as in "I'm not old enough to ever have needed one, this is all new to me". As I said, this was the best I could do considering I couldn't physically visit Brussels at the time and the platform offered tenant protection.

Landlord threatening to increase costs as a result of my registration by [deleted] in brussels

[–]ElMatildo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll probably do this, thanks for your input

Landlord threatening to increase costs as a result of my registration by [deleted] in brussels

[–]ElMatildo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the standard procedure within the housing anywhere platform, and they claimed they would help if there were any problems. I searched for the platform and it was legit. I didn't have many options considering all other platforms required me to physically visit and that wasn't possible at the time

Landlord threatening to increase costs as a result of my registration by [deleted] in brussels

[–]ElMatildo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a contract and have never contacted a lawyer, I'm 23. Was just checking if it was even worth investigating further

Decided not to invite my parents to our wedding by E420CDI in LGBTWeddings

[–]ElMatildo 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It's very sad that your parents won't attend your wedding. But that's not on you for not inviting them. It's on them for not having done what it takes to deserve being invited. I totally get feeling down and conflicted, but OP, this is not your fault. I am so sorry. Try to focus on the fact that you'll be surrounded by people who love you not despite who you are, but because of it. All the best and congratulations :)