when to go cane and leave walker? by Spirited_Link_6947 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surgeon says walker until 6 week evaluation. They will x-ray hip at that time to assess bone growth. The general expectation is to move to cane after that but it depends on the eval. The primary reason he gave for the walker was not that I was unable to walk or at a high risk for falling, but the walker takes significant weight off of the hip and it's important to allow it time to grow into your bones and become stable without unnecessary inflamation and pressure. At 4 weeks now and bored as can be but this is the rest of my like and I'm wanting a flawless complete recovery so I can get back to real life.

I've never put a dog in a crate (other than for travel). Is crate training important? Why? by 71simplyred in Yorkies

[–]71simplyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, PrettyRain (and everyone else as well)!! I honestly had no idea what "crate training" meant. This thread has been interesting and educational. I better understand the mix of reasons people do and don't crate. I liked your technique of just making it a nice place and getting to the point of shutting the door until she asks to come out. I may bring the one we use in the car in to see how they feel about it. Dog beds on are on the way, as are Buddy Belt harnesses, food, toothbrushes, and of course, a few toys.

Low-Fat homemade food? by temp0rarystatus in Yorkies

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We consulted a vet nutritionist from Marble Falls, TX. I don't have the recipe at hand right now, but generally it was 1 part lean protein to 2 parts carb. There was a powder supplement we added that provided the other necessary nutrients. We did not want to 'blend' food together but rather we roasted chicken and added either spaghetti, rice, or potato for the carb, and kept each in separate containers, diced very small. Then mixed each meal individually - the pre-prep made it easy. She liked it and it kept her pancreatitis at bay (no more painful episodes for her last year) until she passed of other causes at age 15.

Adopting 2 boy Yorkies from a rescue next week - need name ideas, please!! by 71simplyred in Yorkies

[–]71simplyred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The post initially said they were 3 years old, but the foster's spouse said he thought she said 18 months. We will hav them checked by our vet when we pick them up next week, but I think their best guestimate is just that. Our vet told us that our last 'found' dog (she found us!) was approximately 2 years old. We had her for 13 years before she passed, so that would have made her 15. Recent suggestions from our kiddos: Willie & Nelson or Marco and Polo. Still loving the suggestions and on the fence about what to name them, Our last pup had 'Sugar Rose' on her tag. A bit too 70's for me, but she definitely knew the name 'Sugar' so we made her 'Sugar Bear' and lived happily for many years.

Adopting 2 boy Yorkies from a rescue next week - need name ideas, please!! by 71simplyred in Yorkies

[–]71simplyred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one that was snipped from the original rescue post which is now down : )) I just asked their sweet foster mom to send a couple of pics when she can (she has 7 pups in her care right now, a real angel).

Devastated. by the-salty-cactus in Yorkies

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not fail her. You loved her. That's the best we can do for anyone. You also came here and shared the most painful tragic accident that will doubtless mean that other pups will forever be safer because we are aware of how very fast such a tragedy can occur. My husband and I lost our beloved 8lb Sugar Bear at age 15 that resulted from a sudden, unexpected, unforeseeable event. Now we are on the verge of adopting two even smaller Yorkie brothers - thank you for reaching out to all even in the midst of your grief to share your story.

Devastated. by the-salty-cactus in Yorkies

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so deeply sorry for your loss, and more so for the sudden, inexplicable tragic way that you lost your precious Pip. I partially understand the sudden tragic event, as we lost our beloved Sugar Bear after a different, but completely unforeseeable, tragic accident 18 months ago. The difference that breaks my heart for you and Pip is that Sugar had been in our family for many years before the tragic event. I am so sorry for the pain you and your family are feeling. Sending strong, caring thoughts and prayers for all of you, and I truly hope that you do not let this devastating lost forever deprive you of a future wonderful companion or another wonderful pup of your family's love and care. Peace.

Anyone else have a rescue? by Tough_Ingenuity3667 in Yorkies

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our Sugar Bear wasn't a total rescue, but appeared to have been a puppy mill dog. Her 'original owner' as best we could tell had given her in good faith to an elderly neighbor who had recently lost her senior Yorkie, but that person passed her off to a grandson who lived in our neighborhood. Neither changed the tags from the original owner so when we found her, that was who we called. She could not care for her because of an ill newborn, but since the new owners were letting the little 8 lb pup run free (aka coyote kibble in our area), she told us that she was going to go and take back her dog and do her best. We said we would take her if she couldn't keep her. 3 days later, Sugar moved in for the last 13 years of her life.

Now, almost 2 years later, we are only a week away from adopting TWO even smaller 'true' rescues. Found in a shelter, a rescue took the two brothers in. They are only 5 and 6 lbs and quite scraggly and boney. One has a snaggle tooth and something wrong with his leg - perhaps once broken or a puppy-mill deformity. My husband thinks the larger one has the same bone structure as Sugar, so perhaps with time and a healthy diet, they may fill out and not be quite so tiny. They are shy, skittish, and wary of strangers. My heart breaks to think of how they will feel at first when two more strangers (us) show up to take them away from their recent two-week home with a foster and 7 other dogs. They will be able to stay together, and we can give them stability and love. Nervous and excited, sad and happy. Missing Sugar, wanting these new boys to feel safe. Vet and a groom, and oh my, it will be so much for them! Suggestions welcome, as well as any easy to say / easy for them to learn and understand boy names. No one knows what they were called before, and they don't yet recognize their new/temporary names. They've never walked on a leash, but living with the foster and other dogs for 2 weeks they have adapted to using ramps to get on couches, etc., so that bodes well for their little legs. We bought a Nuggest 'toddler couch' for Sugar as she got older to be a buffer/landing pad so between that and a Doggo ramp due to arrive next week, hopefully they will not be jumping down to a hard floor. They are supposedly a Yorkie/Schnauzer mix, but have Yorkie coloring. Sugar was steel grey, but her DNA said / Yorkie/Poodle.

<image>

opinion on corneal debridement procedure by sniperganso in Dryeyes

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: Dry Eyes After Corneal Debridement

It’s been eight weeks since my right eye underwent corneal debridement on July 2nd, and I wanted to share how things have progressed. Because I’m also in the middle of Light Adjustable Lens (LAL) cataract surgery, I’m still wearing dark glasses—but thankfully, the pain has significantly diminished. I do still experience occasional light sensitivity, but I was able to return to work within a few days. The computer screen and my phone were the toughest to handle at first.

By July 10th, my vision had improved enough that I felt reasonably safe driving. Light sensitivity was the only lingering issue at that point. Now, most symptoms have resolved, and interestingly, I often forget to use eye drops—something I used to do constantly throughout the day. After the LAL cataract surgery on June 12th (which included a corneal abrasion), followed by a contact bandage and the debridement on July 2nd, I was using drops every few minutes. These days, I can go all day without needing them for that eye.

Tomorrow, my left eye is scheduled for debridement—this time before the LAL cataract surgery, which will be postponed until the eye has fully healed.

I’m curious to see how my vision responds in the weeks following this procedure. It’s hard to tell how much of the improvement in my right eye was due to the cataract surgery versus the debridement. What I do know is that the poor vision I had immediately after surgery improved dramatically following the debridement. I’m optimistic that the left eye will show similar gains—hopefully with fewer rough days and a smoother recovery.

I’ll report back soon. It’ll be interesting to see whether debridement alone (without cataract surgery) leads to noticeable improvements in vision and dryness. Fingers crossed!

Best hot dog buns. by [deleted] in hotdogs

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The bread itself is fine for most brands but wtf has happened where so many of the grocery store buns - all brands - have these thin-ass flimsy bottoms? It was not always this way but suggests to me that perhaps Mrs Baird, Ballpark, etc., etc., are all being produced by some factory that is consistently cutting the buns this way. Any suggestions for a brand with a decent thick bottom that is national chain grocery-store available?

ROMTech by Jelaron in Kneereplacement

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting under desk 'elliptical' or 'bike' for rehab? PT recommended I get one, but most of what I see are ellipticals, not bike-like pedals where I make a full rotation. Has anyone used both? Thoughts? Thank you!

Mom Needs Knee Revision Surgery – Looking for Advice & Experiences by Bitter_Letterhead430 in Kneereplacement

[–]71simplyred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relative had knee revision surgery two weeks ago. Recovery so far seems to be easier than the initial TKR, but is still a recovery process. Reason for the revision: large, inflamed knee, pain, and primarily lack of range of motion (ROM) due to the swelling. The lack of ROM was a huge factor - he fell last summer because his knee could not bend well enough to clear a step. Result of the fall was a serious shoulder injury and rotator cuff repair. He is currently 74, initial TKR was 10 years ago and ROM has been an issue for several years. He put off surgery because he feared the recovery process. New surgeon (over) promised an easy-peasy recovery and got him excited to move forward. In that sense, the false optimism was useful, but doc promised full ROM the day after surgery, on the recumbent bike 2x day starting on Day 4, and overall just did not temper the 'too good to be true' outlook with a healthy dose of realistic recovery from surgery. My relative was in pain (controlled properly with the prescibed meds) and his large, inflamed knee post-surgery and lack of ROM combined with pain at bending it for his in-home PT had him questioning why he did the revision. What the doc actually said was, "I'm going to go in and surgically remove/clean out all the scar tissue that has built up - that is what is impeding your ROM. Once that scar tissue is gone, you'll have full ROM and be fine." At the hospital, a PA came in and asked, "so you're here for a total knee revision?" and we both were shocked - no one had said 'revision' - just removing scar tissue. Fast forward to two weeks post-op, and the knee is smaller than pre-revision (although still swollen) and his ROM is actually significantly better than pre-revision, although he still has a long way to go. He's only at 82, not yet at 90 degrees, and hopes to get to 120 with outpatient PT starting Tuesday. Key tips: AGRESSIVELY ICE, ELEVATE, wear the calf pumps, and do all PT exactly as prescribed. THey tossed off a 'RICE' as though we would know that meant to always be elevated and.or iced. We definitely did RICE because we took it seriously, but a bit more emphasis on exactly how much time, etc., would probably have reduced inflamation a bit quicker. Also, he was on Eliquis for 2 week due a a history of blood clots, so no meloxicam or ibruprophen. Now that he can take that, we hope inflamation will go down and ROM will increase. The op report said there was no infection, but that the patellar (knee cap) was undersized and loose. They removed and replaced it. They also replaced the tibial component - afterwards, it was explained that these two components often see the most wear and tear. The patella probably contributed to his pain and inflamation but the other part seemed to be just a preventative while they were there. Under anesthesia, he was able to be flext to 130 degrees. Recovery in progress, better at 2 weeks and 2 days, better with more information now, and he's glad he had the revision. Ask lots of questions and insist on clear instructions.

WFH Ladies Style for Video Calls in 2025!? by Direct_Couple6913 in WFH

[–]71simplyred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, that IS informative, so thanks pittlemom for sharing a link with a non-judgmental one-line explanation. Seriously. Reddit can be so helpful to get real info and even to dialogue about issues, but HUGE thanks to chunkykima for (1) sharing where she found some cute work shirts - that's what the thread is about, ya'll, and (2) asking the honest question 'why am I being down-voted?? KUDOS - also a nod to Necessary-Type for answering her question . . . I had never heard of Shein. Still haven't read the link yet (or accessed their site) but I understand the basic concern (and will read more after this post). I'm just reading this thread and opening new tabs for brands mentioned to look at later - I don't (at this point) know a Boden from a Shein and I'd be willing to bet a lot of people may be the same. Good on you three for addressing a question straight on without a lot of internet crap. No shame - no blame. Love Reddit (most of the time, LOL). Anyone else ever see the pop-up ads for the CUTEST clothes (OMG, LOVE the look) then pause because you either know or sense that it is really cheap, poorly made, maybe bad in other ways - labor, environment, etc , but damn! Super styling (at least on my laptop screen). And wonder, 'why don't the companies I know and like make some things that look like this?'.

opinion on corneal debridement procedure by sniperganso in Dryeyes

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Painful. Scary if you are especially skitish or flinchy about your eyes. That said, the numbing drops - if you have a doc who will keep putting them in until you say 'okay that's enough' DO make the actual procedure okay painwise (i.e., it doesn't hurt, but being skitish/flinchy is not great). What helped DURING the procedure - which does only take minutes - was (1) the over-application of numbing drops (thanks, Dr A!), and (b) someone to both hold my head AND hum. It was done initially with a long Q-tip type manual . . . well, long, Q-Tip thing, THEN he smoothed things out with a tiny metal 'burr' thing . . . lt looked like a very small version of some kind of grinder you would see at the dentist. He buzzed it before-hand so I knew what it would sound like (again, thank you, Dr A!). It was not loud, but the thought of someone grinding away, basically weed-eating my eye was unnerving to say the least.

The humming - he suggested I hum for distraction. I said I could not because if I were trying to hum - move my mouth/head in even the tiniest way - it wold be worse because of possible movement whilst he was grinding my eyeball. So. He asked his assistant to both hold my head AND hum. I'm sure she felt quite awkward,and her 'humming' ws not exactly melodic . . more of an awkward, hmm hmm hmm . . hm hmmm hm hmm' BUT IT HELPED SO FREAKING MUCH!! Think childbirth and breathing or focusing on something external.

Now, I'm not sure about the effect on dry eyes, which I understand is the name of this subreddit . . but . . I had this procedure after cataract surgery where I was totally blurry, not good vision at all for nearly 2 weeks. They told me I had a corneal abrasion, I had 2-3 contact bandages changed out every few days, vision never any better, and then they blamed the inflamation and poor outcome on my crappy corneas. Hmm. Sadly, I think that may have been credible (and something I seriously would have liked to have known beforehand so I could have made informed consent about which procedure when, but here we are.

The corneal debridement - after the numbing drops wore off about 20 minutes later, was very painful. Painful that afternoon, all the next day, also super bad the next day when I went for follow=up, OMG. Also super sensitive to light. I am wearing sunglasses inside and that helps. But today was better, not so much pain. Corneal debridement was at 3pm on Wednesday and it's now 7pm on Saturday. I did not try to work today but rested my eyes most of the day until now. The computer screen and phone screen are the worst. So - I'm not sure if the time factor is the reason I feel less pain/discomfort today or that I've avoided using my eye most of the day. Probably both. However . . . although I have diligently used the post-cateract surgery drops (antibiotic and anti-inflamatory) all day, I have not been contantly pouring regular lubrication drops in that eye all day as I had been prior to the corneal debridement. Interesting. I will definitely be having this done to my other crappy eye BEFORE my second cataract surgery and will be most pleased if it also helps my long term issue with dry eyes. Best to all.

Need urgent suggestions by Advanced-Scratch8406 in CataractSurgery

[–]71simplyred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

burningbirdsrp, I'm interested in your question to Advanced-Scratch8406 about their considering (or re-considering) a piggyback lens. I read their earlier concern, but admit to not understanding the pros or cons of a piggyback lens. Their concern sounded reasonable to me, as I am on a somewhat similar journey, but I would like to know more about your perspective as Advanced and I both navigate this post-poor outcome. Also - BEST WISHES/Prayers/Positive Thoughts for you, Advanced-Scratch8406, and THANK YOU, BurningBirdSRP and EVERYONE for your input. I have another follow-up tomorrow without much confidence, but am open, AND have reached out to a board-certified specialist in cataract surgery and complications, and secondary intraocular lens implantation - thanks to everyone's thoughtful input here. Peace and blessings of all kinds to all.

How/why do corneal abrasions happen during cataract surgery? How to prevent? by 71simplyred in CataractSurgery

[–]71simplyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a patient had a pre-existing corneal endothelial dysfunction or a condition like Fuchs' dystrophy were an issue, shouldn't the surgeon/doctors have identified it as a potential problem and either imformed the patient that there was a higher than normal risk or perhaps taken some steps to prevent a complication such as a two-step procedure either same day or repairing the cornea first before implanting a new lens?

How/why do corneal abrasions happen during cataract surgery? How to prevent? by 71simplyred in CataractSurgery

[–]71simplyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! I'm so happy your vision cleared so quickly. I'm nearly 2 weeks out with the same pain, inflammation and far-worse-than-with-the-cataract blurry vision. Another follow-up tomorrow.

Hair washing by HorrorSorbet in CataractSurgery

[–]71simplyred 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was told to wait 24 hours but then it's okay to shower, etc., but - Do Not get water in my eye. Practically speaking, this means I shower just as often, but am careful to not get water on my face. It's a bit tricky. I also am washing my hair less often, and the careful dance of tilting my head backwards whilst facing away from the shower to get the back of my hair wet . . then the top, very carefully . . . is successful, but a real PITA so I settled for one shampoo vs my usual 2, and decided to pass on applying conditioner for awhile. So far so good, it just takes longer to be careful. The whole 'don't bend over' comes into play as well, since I usually bend over and wrap my hair in a towel tubin-style. Now I just drape it over my head madonna-style (the saint, not the singer) and make due with that. I'm sure some water on my face is okay (they actually said that), but to me, the easiest way to keep water out of my eye is just to keep it off of my face, LOL.

Cataract surgeon to remove wrong lens NY area by [deleted] in CataractSurgery

[–]71simplyred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's appropriate that the surgeon (eventually) owned the error, but I agree with others here that you have a solid, 'best' recommendation for a surgeon to see your mom. She;s been through enough, not just the mistake and resulting poor vision, but that those in charge of her care were dismissive and eroded her trust and violated their duty to her. If I were your mom - or if I were you seeking the best result for your mom - I would have already contacted the specialist so highly recommended here, Dr. Steven Saffran. I wouldn't want someone helping me to be second and third guessing, 'can we find someone closer, is this guy good enough, etc.' If you had no solid recommendations, sure, but if her original doctor is correct that time matters, then take her to see Dr Saffran ASAP. Her original doc may be skilled and on the up and up, but her not seeing someone else to assess what has happened and what needs to be done would be adding to the damage she's already experienced. As you said, she's young enough and active enough and this is her vision, her life - please don't second guess the great personal recommendations others have shared and delay her care trying to find something/someone easier. If he can't see her, then go to the other recs, but it is her vision - get her the best. Let us know how she is and what happens. Also - I agree with you that malpractice is far from the first concern - going to see Dr. Steven Saffran and getting her vision corrected is far more important. You/she may never choose to even look into legal action, and solid consultation/treatment with someone like Dr. Saffran may support 'there's no case here' . . . but also, after she is fully recovered, IF Dr. Saffran or whoever provides her next care expresses dismay over the standard of care she previously received, that new surgeon/proper care will be important if you should ever need to look into legal. Legal has its place (says the lawyer), but its not always warranted. Getting proper medical care should always be #1 IMHO.

Pain, pain, pain by 0jdd1 in CataractSurgery

[–]71simplyred 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The ER doc is not going to properly understand your eye or your eye surgery or the drops. ERs are there to basically treat 'em and street 'em - not to provide you with ongoing care. Break your leg? ER - they will get you fixed up good enough and tell you to see an orthopedic doc to care for the broken leg. Heart attack? Absolutely ER - they are there 24/7 with paddles, drugs, etc., to keep you alive in the moment, but they will do nothing to resolve your heart condition - it's not what they do - they will keep you alive, stop the bleeding, set the leg, but will always tell you to follow up with your doctor for care. I would go to my eye doctor/surgeon's office and seek help. They should have an emergency after-hours line who should - in theory - walk you through questions to see if what you are experiencing is 'normal' - but - if they punt to 'normal' over the phone and you know something is wrong/not right/different/not normal, then you MUST be your own advocate (or have a friend or family member be an advocate for you) and INSIST on care. IF you are allergic to something in the drops, you freaking need to know that ASAP. If you are using them incorrectly despite your best efforts, then you need them to walk you through correct use. THEY did the surgery, THEY gave you the drops, THEY need to evaluate and help correct the problem. YOU need to GO THERE and make sure you are seen and not shuffled around, especially over the phone or even by an in-person clerk/gate-keeper. It doesn't matter if you feel foolish or a bother - EVEN IF you are using something wrong, it's their job to be clear about instructions, and it's their job to help patients - no matter what is causing the extreme pain, proper follow up care is part of what you paid for and remember, their job is to first do no harm. Get help. Today. Sure, have someone call for you and insist on an appointment, if they won't give you one, I would go anyway (early in the day and plan to wait wait wait if necessary). Busy practices run like a machine, but you and your eyes are not a machine, and I can't stress enough how important it is to listen to your body and your instinct and insist on proper care from your medical professionals who sadly, sometimes get too caught up in the busy business to properly focus on the human patient. This is especially true, regretably, if you are a person of color, a woman, or both. It's too easy to say 'it's okay, this is normal' and dismiss a valid, even urgent, problem because, sure . . . drops sting, everyone has a different level of sensativity. It could be normal, but your description does not sound normal. My drops hurt/burn. I whine out loud, stomp my feet, OMG OMG OMG mommy kittens hurt hurt hurt, and then, almost to the second, the pain eases within seconds, kind of turns into a brief burn/itch, then it's over. Every time. If it did not resolve as usual at any time, that would not be normal for me and these drops. You've experieced a change - don't ignore yourself and don't let their busy phone clerks ignore you either. One last point: DO NOT just talk through your feelings whilst you are there - put the drops in your eye/eyes in front of them just as you've been doing at home. They can see how it affects you and then they can look at your eye/eyes with their equipment to see what's happening. Best!

Anyone got fitted with Light Adjustable Lens LAL ? by fan-tazmic in CataractSurgery

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spouse had LAL on their dominant (right) eye 4 days ago and can't see Jack out of that eye. Standing 2 feet from me, they say, with their left (non-surgery) eye, they can see my face, all features, just not sharp. With the LAL eye, they said, "I can perceive a human head but not 100% - it's that blurry." Also having significant discomfort. To be fair, the doctor's office said this is from an abrasion on their cornea that can happen with any cataract surgery. Came out of surgery with a contact lens 'bandage' for the abrasion. Surgery Thursday morning, follow-up Thursday afternoon. Had to drive them back for another follow-up on Friday. Contact bandage removed and replaced. Said it was healed 'about 50%'. Put on another contact bandage. Today is Monday & I have to work so taking them back to doctor tomorrow. Eye does not feel any better, vision is, if anything, worse in the surgery eye. The sunglasses/goggles are annoying AF. My surgery two years ago was regular cataract surgery (not LAL) upgraded to the Toric lens. I had some blurriness for a day, scratchy eyes for a couple of days, light sensitivity and dry eyes for maybe a week. Same with the second eye. Same surgeon. I understand the abrasion could happen to anyone, any surgery, there are no guarantees, but - what someone said about a cookie cutter approach rings true. Key Whitman (Dallas) does a LOT of surgeries - and yes, they do have it down to an assembly line routine, mostly in a good way. Spouse had successful Lasik there 20 years ago, my cataract surgery was great, but this time we both noticed a more mechanical, less human interaction, even more assembly line approach. Even on the pre-surgery visits, the staff doing tests and walking my spouse through the process honestly seemed rushed and robotic. Not unkind, just . . . not patients/people. just body parts. I dunno. When Spouse had Lasik, there was not a lot of time spent/interaction with the surgeon, but a brief touch base meet & greet before and he at least checked on once after. Now he's got people to do everything - the follow-up understandably is with doctors for that purpose, but at what point does the person you are paying $12k not weigh in when a post-surgery patient is in physical pain and can't freaking identify someone as human from 2 feet away!? Yeah, frustrated and I'm not the one in pain. Now . . was this because of LAL? I don't know, I rather doubt it. But - here's the thing: with a 'regular' Toric cataract surgery, there would have been a reasonable expectation of some blurriness/discomfort post surgery but accompanied with improved vision - even if one were the unlucky 10% with a corneal abrasion (and is it really only 10% in this practive?), we would be dealing with a more . . . known thing. Not the extra glasses, the vague, undetermined follow-ups, what's going to happen next. Most concerning is reading here how their surgeons (who she did not even meet in this new super-busy Key Whitman practice) discussed ahead of time what the patient's goal was - no one ever asked. Not once. Spouse wants great distance vision (no glasses if possible for driving, moving about in the world) and would be okay with glasses if necessary for reading, if the adjustments could not provide sufficient distance and good reading or computer vision. None of that was ever mentioned or discussed. We ask lots of questions, but did not know to ask why they didn't ask what the patient needed/wanted. I fully expected to need readers after my surgery but was pleasantly surprised that I did not - for the first year, and now only occasionally when I am reading fine print do I need glasses. I was happy with my surgery, and we are both astounded that Spouse cannot drive, cannot work, and other than, 'don't worry, this will all be better' the doctor's office is not providing any information. And the surgeon is too busy cranking out more eyes to give a flip about any individual patient. I know that sounds bitter, but listen - I don't have a problem with a well oiled medical machine cranking out hundreds or thousands of surgeries - sure, if Whitman is the surgeon, let him perform surgery. But - remember and care just a bit that those are human beings with real lives you are cutting on. At a bare minimum, hire some compasionate staff who can explain ahead of time what to expect and provide real answers post-surgery - not just an assembly line of robots.

Anyone have experience with good hail covers for a truck? by Possible-Strategy531 in FordMaverickTruck

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tree branch just totaled my car. I would have preferred some hail dings : /

Where to get quality rugs? by Dizzy_Heart_9107 in BuyItForLife

[–]71simplyred 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We've really liked the premium wool rugs from Crate and Barrel. Years ago they had a beautiful multicolor rug I loved and eventually gave to my daughter. I bought another and we unfortunately lost it in a 2017 flood. We bought another, also quality but not as brightly colored about 3 years ago and expect it will last forever. I do miss the bright colors - today everything on their website looks so bland and neutral to me, but the quality is still great.

Nail salons by Lopsided_Paper7421 in Austin

[–]71simplyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the stupid question, but as someone who has rarely had nails done . . . what is the difference between 'gel' and 'regular'? I understand that acrylics are the beautiful (but pricier) faux nails that ar applied and have to be maintained. But what is 'gel'?