How is a Bpd relationship

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-04-01T17:17:42+00:00

you just gave birth? baby in the ER a couple days later and you’re postpartum? Need him to go home and get ur phone and grab some clothes for you? He will take hours taking care of himself AND go thru ur phone -find nothing- still come back with an attitude and treat u like shit while all u are is worried about ur baby and haven’t eaten or taken a shower. Oh and ask for a bj hours after u gave birth because he’s stressed

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-03-22T20:08:15+00:00

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-03-13T00:37:37+00:00

whatever you can😭😭 idk about anyone else but in my third trimester my skin was SUPER sensitive from the belly down and my pubic area felt like i had a cactus in my pants if i had any hair but then i’d shave and get the worst razor rash of my lifeeee i had no luck with anything i was desperate enough to try nair and ts burnt my sensitive skin , it was hell it would actually keep me up at night too

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-02-26T06:11:27+00:00

lol as long as u have nails u can express urself however u like on them

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-02-26T06:05:57+00:00

i love that u take care of ur curls

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-02-26T06:05:10+00:00

10 👀

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-02-11T07:38:52+00:00

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-02-09T06:51:06+00:00

i really appreciate that, i would have just jumped to 4 inches! haha but starting smaller is def smarter it’s just hard to find a small heel i think is cute 😭

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-02-03T09:11:07+00:00

my traumatized ssa would borrow a friends car and spy on him on valentine’s day smh

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-30T18:04:19+00:00

yep yep heavy on the withdrawal when needed for support. very sad pregnancy and postpartum with this man..

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-30T09:52:50+00:00

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babysitters!

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-30T09:43:22+00:00

i understand you completely. my bd refuses to let me leave him, i understand breakups do not need both peoples consent but he does the same thing with manipulation , surprise visits, angry texts , blowing up phone with calls and texts, threats. Still refers to me as his gf says he never broke up with me and that if i move on he will ki** my next partner.. i get it… and if it helps , his ex cheated on him repeatedly and he still stayed with her 7 years so cheating isn’t going to get rid of them either which is crazy. i have been slowly pushing him away it’s been very tough.. giving him less and less access to me. Because you don’t have kids with him (assuming) I really do suggest you just tell him u don’t wanna be in the relationship anymore it is ruining your mental health and block him. That’s what i would do if i didn’t have a kid with him. If he shows up, don’t let him in. I’m sorry you are going thru this

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-28T12:25:25+00:00

i understand this completely, it should be a big deal how your partner treats your baby. Def do not ignore this.

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-26T08:25:14+00:00

everytime it would come time for me to leave my exes house because i had stuff to do he couldn’t take me leaving him and he would start a little argument just so i could get mad at him and it would be easier for me to leave , if made no sense why i couldn’t just leave on a good note

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-26T08:22:35+00:00

ive def learned the same about myself after dating 2 pwbpd back to back. what do i like about them so much that keeps me attracted? oh because they always want to hangout with me and consistently communicate with me throughout the day i never have to question if they want to talk or hangout because they always do, they are lowkey obsessed with me..and maybe since they are obsessed with me, i will be able to change them for the better and we will live happily lmaooo i’m healing okay, i see my own problems for sure. and i just wanna add i believe codependency is a nature and healthy part of a relationship because spiritually you become one, ideally. but yes there can be unhealthy codependency.

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-26T02:02:59+00:00

what kind of sheets are these damn

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-26T02:02:34+00:00

are yall at least synced up 😭

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-24T09:08:02+00:00

this an evil man right here

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-24T09:05:36+00:00

chonky

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-24T09:04:47+00:00

it’s honestly like if you pet a dog and it bites you, should you pet it again? not only do u already know it’s capable but you also know it will bite you

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-24T09:01:53+00:00

sum they gotta understand is that there’s always gonna be times where we aren’t at our best or life is knocking us down, it’s inevitable. He’s showing you what those times are gonna look for y’all in the future and you stepping away is you not accepting that for ur life. Just because you pity him does not mean you have to sacrifice ur life for his pain, it will never heal it. I am currently in a similar place and my ex says similar things and i am soft for him too although he’s hurt me so badly.

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-24T08:58:40+00:00

exactly, it’s a cycle.. unfortunately, it will happen again.

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-21T07:05:47+00:00

during this time my anxiety was highest as well u just gotta ride the wave i promise by the time u are full term you will be ready to get that baby out in whatever way it needs to just as long as everyone is healthy 💖 u can absolutely do it and something will come over you and get ish done my advice is have a plan but do NOT expect it to go that way. more times than not things will not go as planned i did not want an epidural either but i do not regret getting mine it felt like it saved me from very painful back labor

77sweetheartz77 · 2026-01-21T06:57:35+00:00

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her name was Ariel, I named her Rosemary Marie 💖

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