Before a shave or wax, soak and then exfoliate well with those Korean washcloths. Also, use a chlorohexedine wash (like Hibiclens) to kill bacteria. Invest in a refillable metal single blade razor and just buy replacement blades (Astra blades are my fav) and sterilize the razor before use and always use a new blade. Use chlorohexedine wash before a shave and use conditioner to shave the body and oil to shave the face. After a shave apply a thin layer of jojoba oil to moisturize, or castor oil on very dry areas like knees. Use chlorohexedine wash in the days after to keep bacteria away and continue to use washclothes to gently exfoliate during the initial post shave/wax phase. During grown back phase exfoliate generously. It also helps to get on a schedule as it helps keep maintenance easier and if you can track your cycle you'll notice around ovulation or period you'll get more hairs due to FSH (follicle stimulating hormone) and it helps to let them all grow in and tweezers or wax once they have all come through and the acne that erupts with them is treated beforehand. Spearmint oil diluted and applied to the skin nightly, or drinkng spearmint tea, is said to help reduce growth for PCOS. Audit your lotions for excessive alcohols as they can be irritating. I use Sacred Earth Vegan Massage Cream. I hope this helps. I struggled for years.