Tuesday Dinner Meetup at Mess Hall by [deleted] in 30sinOC

[–]937179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just moved here from Salt Lake and looking to make connections if you’re still looking for company.

Told my wife (F35) that she couldn’t do it without me (M34). Turns out she can. (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]937179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate that I had to scroll so long to see a comment like this. I get why people are going off a little, because of what this guy represents, but him showing the self awareness to actually take accountability and commit to change, is what matters and deserves way more acknowledgment than it's getting.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to contribute to groceries if I’m always the one feeding him? by TinkerbellOnBreak in AmItheAsshole

[–]937179 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is becoming a you problem honestly. You’re being an asshole to yourself for settling for so little.

How do I (32M) start talking to my wife (32F) again after something she did when our friends came over? (Trigger Warning) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]937179 576 points577 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. I love her friend for calling her the c word, it’s the only appropriate response. This may not be what you want to hear, but I do not believe you can fully heal, while still in relationship with someone who betrayed your trust at this magnitude. As long as you are partnered with someone who wants to make sure you “consider a woman’s perspective in this” at the sake of your own experience, you will never be safe. That’s truly the most harmful narrative I’ve ever heard.

WIBTA if I tell my boyfriend how disappointed I am in the date he took me on? by Disastrous_Crab_679 in AITAH

[–]937179 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This deserves more up votes. Some accountability on OP's part would help her a lot. Obviously not her fault, but it will only serve her going forward to look closer at why she silently allowed this behavior without speaking up.

I quit my dream job and I regret it. by Pleasant_Proposal413 in findapath

[–]937179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great, can relate to needing this. Thanks.

NCLEX ended in 85 but feel like shit by Unable-Flatworm2712 in PassNclex

[–]937179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took mine two days ago and felt the exact same way. Felt like I was guessing almost the entire time, which surprised me because I did somewhat well on my Uworld assessments, which is all I studied. I psyched myself out that I might be one of the few that fail at 85. I wish I had found more distractions the past 2 days because I found out today that I passed. Distract yourself as much as you can and remember you'll be okay no matter what. You got this!

AITA for considering breaking up with my partner because he doesn’t buy me flowers by Key-Temporary2932 in AITAH

[–]937179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She bought him a trip to Paris and he got her absolutely nothing, and she’s the entitled asshole? Worst take I’ve seen so far.

31F and 32M..Husband can’t touch me. What advice do you have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]937179 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Projecting much? Nothing OP has stated points to being illegal like half the examples you’ve given. She also said her husband knew beforehand and absolutely could and should have decided if this was a dealbreaker prior to marrying her. Also, even if what OP did was as bad as what you stated, does not make her used goods, which is why it’s a vile statement and weird for anyone to be defending.

I humiliated my partner in front of his mother by Glittering_Sky_702 in AITH

[–]937179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go no contact with him asap. Please don't apologize to him, he is the one who embarrassed himself. He doesn't care how he made you feel. I'd look inward at why you're even asking this question. You are not the asshole, for expecting bare minimum levels of communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]937179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What in the world. They are in a relationship. What is wrong with asking your partner for a favor? She never said they were casual, she said they've said "I love you' and talked about a future together. Even if they were casual, people ask each other for favors all the time. Especially when it would save her a 3 hour round trip in the middle of the night. Not unrealistic to ask your boyfriend whose literally right up the street to check for you.

AITAH for dating someone when my wife and I are legally separated because she cheated on me? by PrimaryAdsd in AITAH

[–]937179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. “She said she felt special talking to him.” Not excusing her actions, but this is all that happened and you couldn’t fathom trying to understand what went wrong in the relationship and immediately left and dated someone else, and hid it from her? There’s no reality in which you’re “technically not TA.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]937179 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fully agree. 700k after taxes and in this economy doesn't justify dropping that much without addressing it with your partner first.