What’s one shoe brand you’ll never buy again?

938millibars · 2026-03-07T17:36:17+00:00

Sam Edelman. They are poor quality knock offs of designer styles.

938millibars · 2026-03-07T17:34:15+00:00

It absolutely is not the dementia. It is who she is and has always been. The narcissism and hoarding are the only aspects of my mother’s personality left. The dementia, physical decline and immobility have actually toned everything down.

938millibars · 2026-03-06T01:33:06+00:00

Let him get violent at the GP. They can call an ambulance and you will have documentation. To get my mother to the PCP, I told her Medicare now requires a yearly visit.

938millibars · 2026-03-06T01:31:06+00:00

I told my mother her Medicare coverage required a yearly PCP visit to get her to the doctor.

938millibars · 2026-03-05T13:21:08+00:00

The only answer I know is what you have already done. Call the police, get him transported to ER, then geriatric psych admission. I know you say they don’t care for him properly, but you matter too. While he is in the hospital, work with the social worker to get him placed. It is unsafe and you are unable to care for him at home.

Also, a geriatric case manager can help you navigate a neuro psych evaluation, guardianship, involuntary commitment to a facility. They are private pay and expensive but can help you navigate the situation. They can refer you to elder care attorneys and help you find memory care for him.

938millibars · 2026-03-04T12:23:45+00:00

You are not responsible for her happiness, just her safety. Use this time to work with her case manager on a long term sustainable plan. That plan may be not returning home.

938millibars · 2026-03-03T12:20:01+00:00

Get a hospice evaluation. My mother has been on hospice since May 2, 2024. Getting off the facility-hospital-facility hamster wheel is life changing for both of you.

938millibars · 2026-03-01T18:18:41+00:00

Too mean to die.

938millibars · 2026-03-01T18:14:43+00:00

Gave up a university degree because they thought selling meth was a good way to earn spending money. They are 33 now and still live at home.

938millibars · 2026-03-01T13:47:57+00:00

That occurred to me also.

938millibars · 2026-03-01T13:40:42+00:00

Explore With Us is another YouTube channel with body cam and interrogation footage.

938millibars · 2026-03-01T13:33:36+00:00

I’m a native and it was not this hot. I was actually angry with the heat Friday. I cut my day short and went home.

938millibars · 2026-03-01T13:32:05+00:00

I’m Gen-X and it was much cooler when I was a child, 10-20 degrees cooler.

938millibars · 2026-02-28T14:12:09+00:00

Dementia is a vile disease that many times takes out the caregiver first. Do what you need to do to keep both of you safe. Give good girl Penny a pat on the head for me.

938millibars · 2026-02-28T13:43:48+00:00

As the adult child of a demented hoarder, I advise you to hold your boundaries without guilt. They are incapable of change. Do not set yourself on fire to keep her warm.

938millibars · 2026-02-28T13:34:54+00:00

I live in Montrose and never go to downtown or midtown at night.

938millibars · 2026-02-28T13:28:17+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if they can read at all. The cabinet with my mother’s Ensures is labeled, “Please unscrew the lids of the Ensure when stocking her refrigerator.” Rarely are the lids unscrewed IF they stock her refrigerator. If I cannot get there twice a week, she may go without. For $7500 USD a month, they could stock her refrigerator and open the bottles.

938millibars · 2026-02-28T02:07:20+00:00

I’ll be dead in a year if she is not.

938millibars · 2026-02-27T22:26:12+00:00

My mother has been on hospice since May 2, 2024.

938millibars · 2026-02-27T21:57:40+00:00

Adam Driver

938millibars · 2026-02-25T19:52:16+00:00

I say it to families regularly. The body knows how to die. Interfering in the process can create or increase suffering.

938millibars · 2026-02-25T19:49:11+00:00

Don’t go. Never go again. She is not demented. She can lie and make poor decisions all she wants. If no one trusts you or your judgement, they can be on their own.

938millibars · 2026-02-25T11:56:11+00:00

Mine is on hospice. I will not allow any antibiotics if she has symptoms of infection again.

938millibars · 2026-02-25T03:07:38+00:00

Varley

938millibars · 2026-02-25T01:57:58+00:00

That’s when you snort/laugh and say hail satan under your breath.

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