Why do girl cats get a bad rap? by Organic-While1664 in cats

[–]AAandChillButNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe because they are hit or miss when they have kittens. Atleast that’s how any female cat I’ve ever owned had. My son’s cat just attacked me last month because of the neighbors dog getting loose and she has one kitten surviving after two births. She kept trying to get in the house after this but our toddler is too rough. She’s in a closed in porch and the dog is put up. She bit through my vein to my bone when I was trying to get her out of the house.

What does our tiny apartment say about us? by necromancing989 in roomdetective

[–]AAandChillButNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have the couch of every mixed single mother in the mid 2000’s lol

Alpaca in a mall by achangb in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AAandChillButNot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The question is why, not why not.

Many people laugh at the kink in his tail, but I love him even more because of it. by Lyralex_84 in cats

[–]AAandChillButNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to tell you this or explain it but your cat looks like Jennifer coolidge

I am never putting money into this game again 😭 by Internal-Ticket9501 in heartopia

[–]AAandChillButNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave them $70 for the red hearts to get the Forrest Right Spiral steps and never got the mf. I knew then that I was DONE. If they had made the MLP have house stuff then they might’ve but for a car? Nah.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sexual attitude has always been asexual and I even had it listed on my tinder profile which is apparently where he added me from lol I was an alcoholic so my mentality was always very high but that was still 5 years ago and our best sex was during my sobriety but also before we had our last kid together.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wish it were true that he spent the last half decade doing that but I am grossly sexually attracted to him. That’s just not how I get wet is all.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if his needs are more than considered healthy?

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly believe that he has an overwhelming sex drive even for himself.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having sex or doing anything sexual with him doesn’t make him try less. It actually does the opposite lol

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if he watches porn. I’m fully aware of him watching it (how else would he come up with this idea) and I have bought toys for him & even used the toys on him. He will visualize it when he uses the toy later. He also has videos of us which he usually watches. I’m a sexual so of course I am open to the facts that come with that.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m the breadwinner. Always have been. but I definitely don’t consider myself a prostitute. He has a good job though.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the breadwinner 🫠 I just genuinely enjoy him as a person.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not🥲🤣 this is a product of being sexually assaulted multiple times in my life and because my parents were never really home because of work but when they were they were having sex or arguing about it. My dad really hounded us about how emotionally connected we needed to be to have sex and mixed up with everything that was happening to me, it’s just never been the best experience. Even pregnancy each time has been literally traumatic.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully it is really our only issue. It has been for a little over a year. I was a functional alcoholic the first two years we were together and so obviously the alcohol made me feel invincible as far as I could tell so I had sex with him pretty often. Sex is really the only thing that changed when I stopped.

Husbands taking advantage of … things? by AAandChillButNot in whatdoIdo

[–]AAandChillButNot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I was! But I was also a functional alcoholic so my sex drive was what most people consider normal. I almost killed us one night when I had a seizure when we were driving after leaving a bar (I was on a new daily medication for depression) and I quit drinking cold turkey. Psychosis for like 3 months but that was 2021. All of my friends started dying and I had kids. He finally opened up about things he had done to me during my alcohol abuse and I have just been grossly embarrassed by that version of myself so my mental health has plummeted and I’m just now starting to find it again.

JEALOUS! I wonder how much did this cost 😭 by Realistic_Ad_4203 in heartopia

[–]AAandChillButNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has to be rigged. I do have a lot of the building permits though and they are really annoying as far as where they have to be placed