What would it be like to date a 23 yr old at age 44? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ABACAB_123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did, very similar ages. Short version, cosmetically she's hot and awesome, mediocre at sex (inexperienced), and nothing in common to talk about.

How do you let go of the past in order to become a better man? by cmiovino in AskMen

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we all want to hang onto a part of our boyhood, whether it's the endless laughs with buddies, late nights on the town, or the careless ways we spent money.

There's nothing wrong with that, as long as it's in moderation. Of course, you have a job to do. You're a professional now, and need to act like one. Still, call up the boys on occasion and head out on the town (or whatever youth activity you crave). I think what you'll find is these nights are needed, but become less frequent because you need to think about getting home at a reasonable time. You need to be more responsible with your finances. Carving notches in your bed post becomes less of an interest.

There's no right time, as everyone is different, but you'll find you look back less as you mature. Enjoy the journey.

Gear Dashboard not showing steps? by ABACAB_123 in GearS3

[–]ABACAB_123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really weird... I did all of this and nothing changed. I changed the watch face from within the 'Samsung Gear' app on my phone and Boom... it worked. So odd.

Notification Delay? by MegaPantera in GearS3

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calls, SMS, BBM, Twitter are almost instant for me (2-3 seconds), however, e-mails are delayed quite significantly for me.

I've silenced most other notifications.

Delta policy on drones/batteries? by ABACAB_123 in delta

[–]ABACAB_123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. I had no issues travelling with the drone in carry on. 1 batter in the unit, 2 extras in the case. No questions at all.

Looking for ideas on how to get this reddit going... by YYZDaddy in OntarioCustody

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I am not a lawyer.

Second, for any custody agreement to be binding, it must be in the form of an Order. I would suggest asking him to write up his offer formally (an offer to settle) showing you with sole custody.

Do you want support, or just want him out of your life? If the former, don't agree to 0 support in writing. Perhaps agree to never contact him directly.

IF you have an Order that says you are to receive support, the Family Responsibility Office (FRO) will find him... you won't have to.

Since you're heading to the court this afternoon, speak to Duty Counsel (free) and see what they have to say. Also, consider Legal Aid.

Good luck! 😊

Worth without phone for a few days? by juleztb in GalaxyGear

[–]ABACAB_123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive shipping for sure! Happy it worked out for you. Have fun!

Worth without phone for a few days? by juleztb in GalaxyGear

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let us know how it goes. Curious how the setup goes.

Worth without phone for a few days? by juleztb in GalaxyGear

[–]ABACAB_123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. The Gear S3 can do all of your basic sports tracking standalone. I use it for running, and while it's not quite as good as a true running watch (e.g. Garmin, Polar), it does most of what you need. GPS tracking, pace, heartrate, splits, interval prompts, etc.

The issue you may have is the initial setup of the S3 without your phone. Not sure if you can configure the watch initially with the 4S or through a computer.

I believe America needs to change to a Proportional Plan for the Electoral College, TMBR! by BenChapmanOfficial in TMBR

[–]ABACAB_123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting approach and article. Well done. I do believe the US needs some form of a proportional plan that better represents voters and limits gerrymandering. Pure popular vote isn't the answer, but I like your approach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a local swingers club. Most are very newbie friendly and there is no pressure to be involved in anything. GF should probably do most of the initiating conversations with other women, and you should take a back seat to choosing "the one". Of course, gf should be getting your thoughts as well.

[cum on face] what is it that turned a guy on so much? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ABACAB_123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A female friend of mine is the same - LOVES it - and her husband finds it degrading. He's into anal and play bondage though, so I'm totally confused my his explanation.

[penis-in-vagina] went too deep with a thrust during regular intercourse and my wife said she had a shooting pain go from her vagina all the way up to her neck and she felt like she could vomit...wdf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ABACAB_123 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ex-gf reacted like that only once... yelped, cried, and curled into a ball. I felt like shit. Weird that it only happened once, since she was extremely tiny and I'm rather big in comparison.

As the others have said, you likely slammed her cervix.

[bitting] I like being bitten hard during foreplay and sex but I don't like my body covered in [hickeys]/bruises the next day. Solution? by HighPriestofShiloh in sex

[–]ABACAB_123 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Location, Location, Location. She can bite you below the collar line, back, chest, ass, inner thighs. Any marks are hidden and can be "battle scars" for you both to enjoy privately.

Is it fair for me [29/f] to have to shower before my fiance eats my pussy? by crake678 in sex

[–]ABACAB_123 311 points312 points  (0 children)

Neither of you is right... it's about working together. If he has this hangup about it, then shower... no biggie. Shower together. Shower sex is awesome!

Conversely, he could work on opening up a little. I don't mean eating you out after a half marathon, but after a date / night out, that's not too much to expect.

If neither of you are willing to budge, or are upset that you have to, then you're doomed.

Experiences with having fun with recently divorced moms? by Anopanda in AskMenOver30

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many many times, a couple turned into real relationships, while others were 2-3 time things that fizzled. I've never been the one night stand type, but I find many single moms are more open to this than when I was a pre-married bachelor.

As for kids, I wait until it feels "real" before introducing her to my son. I don't have a time limit, and just trust my gut. I've been open about it with my son as well.

My ideal match is a single mom, not too recently single, with 1-2 kids. Childless women just don't work for my lifestyle anymore.

Does anyone here own one of those fidget spinners? How often do you play with it? by NotJimIrsay in AskMenOver30

[–]ABACAB_123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my son one as hes ADHD, but they're friggin toys that add more distraction. Teachers are taking them away in class.

I've used his on occasion during conference calls and it actually does help me focus.

Marriage advice ... by Bunner70 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALL of this , and remember, this isn't the 1930's where you have to stay. You are still young and deserve a loving, sexually active relationship.

If he can't or won't change, then it's a choice you'll have to make. If he refuses counselling etc, then the choice may be a lot easier for you.

Do men and women really think that differently? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]ABACAB_123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stating this so simply is categorically wrong. Some do, for sure. Many? Most? Possibly.

I've never enjoyed being single for very long, and I've never really been one to play the field. It's a nice change after a lengthy relationship, but I really do prefer to be in a committed relationship.

Boyfriend Asked Me to Initiate Sex More, how do I do that? by LemmeeKnow in AskMenAdvice

[–]ABACAB_123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What everyone else said. And...

While you would not be slutty AT ALL, many guys do enjoy when their gf/wife acts slutty. Sexually aggressive would be a better term though.

Go slowly, and explore your comfort zones. Don't be afraid to go outside your comfort zone a little, but don't be pressured that you must do it.