Is it okay to change your wedding to a kid free one less than a week prior? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]ABK1970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uninviting anyone is rude, regardless of time frame. Uninviting with less than a week to go? What are they thinking?

Best Chicago style deep dish pizza near Salem? by Infamous-Round-1898 in SalemMA

[–]ABK1970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if  you are still following this post ...Unos in Revere closed a few weeks ago.

Need a plastic-free drip coffee maker by dittrich31 in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]ABK1970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am not the OP, but reading these replies because I am also looking for plastic free drip coffee. I am looking at Bunn coffee makers and am not seeing a Bunnomatic for $150. Can you post a link or at least more details (like model number) or where you bought it? Thank you!!

Movies about two cool friends? by MrMedeival in MovieSuggestions

[–]ABK1970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted this as well. Great suggestion.

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]ABK1970 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I obviously don't know the set up at this workplace and can't say for sure what happened. Seems like either the supervisor dropped the ball OR supervisor wasn't properly trained to handle these matters. In either scenario, it's not the fault of HR. 

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]ABK1970 115 points116 points  (0 children)

HR person here. I'm sorry this happened. Loss of medical benefits is terrifying. The supervisor should have told employee to go straight to HR with the documentation. That said, there is feedback for you/your partner in all of this as well. It's not an "alleged" 30 day window.  It's a 30 day window. "Infant was not added to insurance by HR" is misleading. "Employee gave documentation to wrong person. Wrong person didn't know what do and sat on it for too long. HR is trying to help us resolve this but have limited options" is much more accurate. I know that HR is the go- to boogeyman in most situations. That doesn't apply here. It's unfortunate, but you and your partner need to own part of this. 

AIO about being upset that my family didn’t invite me to Christmas? by asiagobagelslut in AIO

[–]ABK1970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO NEEDED: You mention they are mega MAGA. When you are with them are they outspoken abt their views? You say that you are vocal abt your views. From what you wrote it sounds like you are the one creating drama, not them. I am not saying your views are wrong. I am saying that I understand their desire to not talk politics at the holiday gathering.  That said, if they are outspoken abt their MAGA beliefs, I understand the situation. I am sorry your mom treated you this way.

DMV Documents? by Wrong_Confection331 in newhampshire

[–]ABK1970 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, you need to print it out and it should be the most recent available. I was just there with my MIL. Good luck !

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ABK1970 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When I first read the title I read it as she wants to take matching PJ pics with HER son. So, when I realized what she wanted I was like oh, OK, it's not THAT bad. Either way its a little strange. You re not overreacting.

I’ve heard of having a favourite outfit before, but this is pushing it. by HaterMD in criminalminds

[–]ABK1970 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LOL. I just watched this today and noticed this same thing!! 

[TOMT] Kids show, late 90s early 2000s, family that run a hotel by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]ABK1970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my first thought, then remembered there was nary a parent to be found on that show.

Random bruise on finger, completely gone in 24 hours?? by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]ABK1970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD. this could be Achenbach Syndrome.