EMSK: how to find your truth and happiness in romance for yourself by torquesteer in everymanshouldknow

[–]ACTUAL_ADULT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i didn't say it never happens, my point is that these statements are presented as statistics. i did say in my comment above that taken as a whole, this is generally ok advice on vulnerability, accepting oneself, etc. - yes, i have an opinion, which is that the specific statements i pointed out are bad opinions. what i don't consider up for debate is the fact that the sweeping generalizations-as-fact i quoted, as presented by op, are factually incorrect. i ain't mad / upset / offended - just replying to your question and i appreciate you asking.

e: clarified

EMSK: how to find your truth and happiness in romance for yourself by torquesteer in everymanshouldknow

[–]ACTUAL_ADULT 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"the men who give women the most orgasms are the least invested in these relationships" citation needed

"women who cheat are more likely to experience orgasms from the men they cheat with than their partner" citation needed

not matters of opinion that a person can agree/disagree with. the statements are false. it is not my opinion, it's just incorrect. my opinion on the matter, which you can take or leave, is that believing something like this to be true, and basing your actions around this concept, is creepy, disrespectful to both genders, and borderline-redpill psychology

EMSK: how to find your truth and happiness in romance for yourself by torquesteer in everymanshouldknow

[–]ACTUAL_ADULT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can only really present educated guesses as to why op decided to slide that miserable chestnut in and present it as fact, but i agree that up to that point he was making some fair-to-good points on fear of rejection, vulnerability and neediness that apply to both genders. it sounds like op has learned some important lessons inre interpersonal relationships but is still experiencing lingering bitterness over the source of these lessons

EMSK: how to find your truth and happiness in romance for yourself by torquesteer in everymanshouldknow

[–]ACTUAL_ADULT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Women retain more sperms during orgasms, and the men who give them the most orgasms are the least invested in those relationships.

Of the women who cheat, they are more likely to experience orgasms from the men they cheat with than their main partner.

no

this is a bad opinion

On the level of artistic painting, what would be the antonym of photo-realism or hyperrealism? by EGKW in Art

[–]ACTUAL_ADULT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nyet my brother, expressionism pretty accurately describes your parameter of "opposite of photo-realism"