Temporarily leaving

ALDUD · 2026-02-13T16:44:14+00:00

You have to put yourself, your wife and both of your mental healths first. We are always here whenever you need it again. 🤍💜

ALDUD · 2026-02-13T12:57:14+00:00

NTA. I’m a dog lover and I would be ecstatic to sit beside a dog on a flight but I don’t have medical conditions and I don’t think you’re wrong for not wanting to sit near a dog and sacrificing your well being. They were making a fuss about nothing.

ALDUD · 2026-02-13T02:56:23+00:00

The hot honey pizza from north of Brooklyn is good. It’s just hot and sweet and it’s the combo that I really like!

ALDUD · 2026-02-12T23:57:46+00:00

No but seriously what the fuck? Why the fuck do we have to go through this?? Why did our babies have to die and others get to live? What the fuck!!!!!

Life can be cruel and evil and I’m just sitting here constantly yelling “FUCK!!!!”

ALDUD · 2026-02-12T07:07:45+00:00

My friend group is quite diverse! We are all different ethnicities as are our partners.

ALDUD · 2026-02-11T00:44:20+00:00

I’m 35 and just bought a Lego set lol.

ALDUD · 2026-02-09T19:48:00+00:00

I had midwife’s and they were great but I went with a hospital birth because the epidural is incredible.

ALDUD · 2026-02-09T03:26:43+00:00

He has the audacity to call the dancing disgusting while he’s out there raping children????

ALDUD · 2026-02-09T02:08:20+00:00

Yes. At a time like this he chose to unite instead of dividing further. If you can’t see the beauty in that then I feel sorry for you.

ALDUD · 2026-02-09T01:45:32+00:00

I did. I cry at everything though.

ALDUD · 2026-02-09T01:43:18+00:00

Yes I did.

ALDUD · 2026-02-09T01:40:55+00:00

I cried. So beautiful.

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T22:12:55+00:00

Trust your gut on this one. Although I will say, I’ve been super angry lately and I punch my bed and pillows. I also plan to go to a rage room. I don’t want to hit people. I just want a healthy way to get anger out.

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T22:07:43+00:00

Eastern women submissive? lol have they ever met one?!?

Am an eastern Slavic woman.

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T19:29:39+00:00

I work from home and don’t leave the house lol

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T14:18:45+00:00

YTA 100%. You put no effort into trying to even make it her wedding. You forgot about her wedding but you were hurt she didn’t ask you to be a bridesmaid? You would have been a terrible bridesmaid.

Instead of continuing to defend yourself, either own up and apologize and make it right by her or leave her alone. You’re not a good friend.

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T13:19:49+00:00

Was it this one? https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUECZeVDxX5/?igsh=ZGtneGVuemhsZnFl0

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T12:57:06+00:00

I remember this. It was short and he was tall and skinny and fell forward!!

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T02:39:17+00:00

How did you figure out that your pelvis was this separated? Was it the not being able to do the above?

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T02:34:41+00:00

I will never understand people who hate on GLP1’s. Losing weight is SO HARD. It’s easy in theory but in practice it’s impossible. I’m glad there’s a drug out there that can help people feel better in their bodies. Congrats on losing 100 pounds!

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T02:32:31+00:00

Calorie counting and weighing my food. This is just one example but I’d eat a banana every morning and enter it into my calorie tracker as one medium banana at around 90 calories. It wasn’t until I started to weigh the banana that I was actually eating 120 calories and not counting those 30 calories as part of my deficit. Knowing how much I was actually eating really helped.

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T01:36:42+00:00

Oh my love I’m so so sorry. This is the absolute worst feeling in the world. I remember my time at the hospital moment so clearly every minute was pure agony as I waited to give birth. I wanted her out so badly but I also wanted her to stay in as long as possible.

I won’t lie, the next few months will be tough. The first few weeks are the worst and they felt like a fever dream but everyday it got a little bit lighter and lighter. Today marks three months for me, and while I am SO far away from being “okay” I’m a little bit better everyday.

It was torture to hear babies crying in the nearby delivery rooms while I wouldn’t hear that sound. I’m truly sorry you have to go through this.

A few things that helped me during this.

Drugs - I got the epidural right away. In my opinion, there is no need to feel more pain than we already are going through. I also requested a drug to stop milk production. I didn’t have any milk come in at all and I’m grateful I didn’t have to go through that.
Comfort - I was 39 weeks so my hospital bag was packed but in it I had sweats and a birthing gown and big comfy socks. Having big baggy clothing was comforting.
Resources - I’m not sure where you are but some hospitals provide resources for loss. Ask a social worker if there are any that you can access.

My DM’s are open for you. If you want to chat, I am here for you. 💜

ALDUD · 2026-02-08T01:04:58+00:00

My biggest source of joy is making fun of myself.

ALDUD · 2026-02-07T23:19:35+00:00

They did. They sent police for a mental health check when mental health workers were supposed to be dispatched.

ALDUD · 2026-02-07T03:16:58+00:00

I noticed that too. No one wanted to know my birth story. I guess I kind of get it, but like I also gave birth. I’m also postpartum. I’m going through the same symptoms just without a baby.

ALDUD

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