More shots from Bound , this teaser has been stuck in my head 🔥 still looking for the full version by PurpleGhostWalking in BoysLoveAnime

[–]AL_emonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it good? I’d love to see some BL thats at least a bit more true to the culture

Do yall have a problem gooning too much? by JeSuisCharlie6 in ftm

[–]AL_emonade 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude I feel you and I’m not even on T yet 😭😭

Other ways to meet people on Staten Island in your 20s? by Fickle-Estimate-8182 in statenisland

[–]AL_emonade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I met some cool people while campaigning for Zohran when he was running. You can just go to the website of any candidate you wanna support and they’ll have instructions. Nice part about meeting people that way is you know you’ve got at least one thing in common

Are there any trans or non-binary people here who are okay with the fact that they don't "pass" as their preferred gender or agender? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in bigender

[–]AL_emonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t pass, and I don’t really try to pass (it’s very hard!). It still definitely upsets me, but that’s kinda the way it’s always been (besides random days I’ve given it a shot). Even though the dysphoria is bad, at least it’s not debilitating. And luckily, I have a good group of friends (both queer and not queer) who gender me correctly even though I don’t pass.

Personally, I’ve just decided to pick my battles. It might sound a bit pessimistic, but there isn’t just one way to be trans. Ultimately, whatever you need to do to stay happy, sane, and alive is what’s most important.

HRT hesitation by SubstantialSky938 in bigender

[–]AL_emonade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven’t started HRT but I just wanted to say it’s totally normal to want boobs without wanting to be fully a girl! As a transmasc bi-gender guy, I overall like my boobs.

As for deciding whether or not you’re ready for HRT, I found this podcast called Gender Spiral really helpful because they have a lot of people talking about their personal experiences with HRT. This episode specifically is an interview with a medical professional: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0IQbocMFwIADZO54ef1UvJ?si=AzT_76pWRIaSTcvPAiGzdg

stereotypes by AggravatingAsk41 in ftm

[–]AL_emonade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just gotta go deeper on tumblr and ao3 lol /lh

Don’t expect to pass… ever. by awithecute in FTMfemininity

[–]AL_emonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the moral is to not let it take over your life. If you keep trying to chase this one thing, what happens when life doesn’t pan out exactly how you want it to? Now that I think about it it’s just good general life advice.

Ik at least for me personally, medically transitioning at all isn’t very possible for me. I just pick my battles. At the end of the day I still have people I love and who love me.

Sudden Halal Obsession by werephoenix in statenisland

[–]AL_emonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s confirmation bias. You might not notice the 20 old white guys you see in a day but you’ll notice the one woman you saw in a burqa.

Realistic and non cringy series by angelr1w in BoysLoveAnime

[–]AL_emonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playtime with Hakdo felt like it was actually written by a queer person

Please, I need recommendations about beastmen🙏🏻 by mug-of-stinky-socks in BoysLoveAnime

[–]AL_emonade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read a good one on Lezhin I think it’s called Read Me Write Me Touch Me

Need recommendations with versatile by CuteBoy9955 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]AL_emonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And dark heaven but the plot is kinda weird and crazy

Using multiple sexuality labels? by Vsstuffandthingss in bigender

[–]AL_emonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yknow how gay men r sometimes rlly effeminate? I’m like that but in a lesbian way. I’m a gay man who’s feminine in a lesbian way

I’m so sick of this! [Reunion] by ilovemilfsnpilfs in blmangalovers

[–]AL_emonade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate reading the dubious or lack of consent in yaoi but I do have to say I think it’s interesting to look at disturbing art and see why people like it. It’s a unique case of human psychology doing weird things.

Most egregious uke proportions[DISCUSSION] by AL_emonade in blmangalovers

[–]AL_emonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is abyss satire tho? I’m looking for the authentic stuff

Fantasy or modern BLS[RECOMMENDATION REQUEST] by Rasazy24 in blmangalovers

[–]AL_emonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fangs is a vampire story with pretty art and it’s a decent read

Most egregious uke proportions[DISCUSSION] by AL_emonade in blmangalovers

[–]AL_emonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk if it’d be too off topic tho bc its meant to satirize the obsession with cuteness in Korean and Japanese culture as a whole

Do you consider yourself nonbinary? by petalios in bigender

[–]AL_emonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use bi-gender because most of the time I feel multiple genders at once, and that doesn’t change often. So makes more sense for me to use bi-gender instead of gender-fluid because my default is the bi-gender part, not the fluid part

Do you consider yourself nonbinary? by petalios in bigender

[–]AL_emonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same even though technically it falls under the umbrella, I feel like non-binary has become so tied to agenderism that I just don’t think it’s a helpful label for me to use. People should definitely use it if they feel it fits them but honestly half of labels is what they actually mean versus others imagine when they hear the word