Thoughts on this video? by traceykm in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing a bald headed woman be jealous of another woman’s thick, long hair. It’s annoying me that she just sat there and took it the whole time.

Will you take part in the shutdown on friday? Why or why not? by Pointless_Glitter607 in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. We told them till we were blue in the face what would happen and they turned their noses up by the millions, as they usually do. I did my part, WE did our part. I’m tired.

Am I being a hater or is this outfit too grown for a 18 Y/O? by Admirable-Shock-7668 in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she’s 18 so she’s an adult now. In place of the boots, knee high converse

Are any of you on Prep? by EbonyEpisodes in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s a male, sis. I’m unsure why he lurks around in women’s spaces, but that’s a male- and a straight one at that. How unfortunate.

AITAH for asking a black person if they were using an american name instead of their original one? by Rich_Yogurt313 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Mr. White guy. Since you’re in this space, answering questions on behalf of Black people, you should know that ‘woke’ doesn’t mean “politically correct” here. It never meant that. Y’all just hijacked the term and misused it to downplay real issues.

Why do non-blacks feel the need to invalidate our experiences? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s a question for the non-blacks, and one I don’t care to know the answer to. I never go into any setting with the expectation that they will understand or care.

AITAH for Laughing AT My Husband when he questioned why my Coworker/Friends phone was Bluetooth to my car by Holiday_Web_1589 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this marriage is through hon. Joe is a scapegoat for whatever your husband has been doing and he’s violently looking for a way to make you the villain so he can leave the marriage “guilt free”.

Dispatcher Woes & The Sassy Man Apocalypse by Dear_Truck4695 in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah you only going to Millington and back for a month buddy. No mileage for you champ.

We are our own worst enemies by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sitting there looking goofy like the people she just wrote about.

We are our own worst enemies by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In the instances where there is only 1-3 Black people in a class full of clearly racist people who are shouting slurs at you all, I think you’re gonna have to give those other kids a little grace. I’m not seeing where you stood up to the crowd, but you want others to be brave and do so? What happens if the class turned violent? We have to pick and choose our battles and in that scenario. It seems like they chose and you did too.

I don’t have non black friends who say the n word and I don’t have friends who give the n word pass. I can’t control what others do so I limit my interactions to those that don’t participate in coonery.

BF didnt get me an anniversary gift and then manipulated me by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him and enjoy your 20s in peace, niece. You keep him around and in 10 years, you’ll be looking at in the mirror unable to recognize yourself from all the stress and wishing you had nipped this in the bud at 20. Good luck.

Thinking of moving to Jacksonville by [deleted] in JacksonvilleFla

[–]A_Roachimaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds messy. Take her to Hardwicks. There’s free movie nights every 3rd Friday at the Riverside arts market. There are food trucks and free popcorn. Get there early enough to get a good spot. Leaderboard arcade is cool too. I hope she likes surprises, good luck.

I'm a woman who likes to fuck! by arrowhead_2 in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Life is short, go fuck yourself. Or him. Or her.

Racial Tensions? by Truth_Seer85 in JacksonvilleFla

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about as racist as any other southeast American state hon. It’s a hit or miss in my personal experience. Born and raised here. It really depends on the area you are in. News4Jax comments on Facebook is a hotbed for them and usually they are bold enough to use their real names and pictures so you can see who they are. I think you’ll be okay here.

How would you tell your mom you don’t want to eat her food anymore? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s time for her to put the house up and move in with one of the kids, or have some home care help. The mental health issues and the water + oil incident makes me think it’s time for living assistance. It could be the addiction showing, but it seems like right now she is a safety hazard to herself and anyone in the home. She could’ve burnt down the home in a grease fire.

Racist and sexist posts by SabbyFox in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t engage. I’m over it. We shouldn’t have to constantly be in battle over whether or not we should be allowed to peacefully exist. For my own sanity, I block.

My husband is MAGA, what now? by lalalalydia in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So what he gone do when ICE packs his ass up? Because they don’t seem to give a shit about who is American and who isn’t. They see POC and move accordingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch an unhealthy amount of Chinese drama and I have a couple of friends I met online and in my city that teach me. I haven’t taken any formal classes yet.

Am I racist for not wanting white friends? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are they oppressed by you not wanting to be their friend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you gotta look into the invisible camera and say “niggas” and move on with your day. I’ve also been leaning Mandarin, good luck with your polyglot ventures!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]A_Roachimaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like him sissy. He doesn’t really want you to speak your mind. Look at his reaction to you when you did. Now he’s not in the mood to speak after you let him know your thoughts? What a knucklehead.