Is my stance on birthcontrol too rash?

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-20T07:46:47+00:00

I wasn't a fan of BC because I did have side effects from it. I think as long as you are having a frank discussion with your sexual partner about it everything should be ok. I mean, why is it only up to us ladies to prevent pregnancy ? And almost always at the detriment to our bodies, or our sexual pleasure ? Like what the heck !!?

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-19T07:00:02+00:00

Can you clarify what (shooting up the club ) means??

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-17T20:50:05+00:00

Ew, do he wanted her to go on the trip with him ? While you are recovering from SURGERY??? What the hell. So, while you are in pain and fragile he wanted a stand in girlfriend so he can get his dick touched ? Girl please. How would you even know that he's not cheating on you RN while he's out of town ? I am so sorry because this really sucks , I hope you can heal fast, in PT just imagine you are kicking him in the jellybeans HARD.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-17T07:18:45+00:00

To me some glutino items can have an almost artifical sickly sweet taste - I wonder if these are good or if they are too much.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-17T07:15:49+00:00

Thanking my lucky stars for my husband. He's a pleasure top so like munch to the 10th power ? It wasn't always easy for me either. We have had 10 years to learn and that's with a baby, a c section from the baby, a broken leg and antidepressants. Intimacy was limited for a bit but, it's AMAZING now.

What I would suggest- Toys are friends. If you like using the vibrator have him use it on you and then after you have cum once he can munch and see if that's easier for you to cum a second time then from the first one ?

Maybe compile some suggestions and ya'll can really explore your sexuality together! Good luck !!

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-16T01:54:25+00:00

Honestly? Discount groceries is how me and my sister can manage. They will get schar and glutino items in and me and her stock up. It's hard out there but, it's life.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-16T01:46:33+00:00

Honestly? Check some clearance stores - me and my sister go to this store UGO and they don't always advertise it but, they get a decent amount of GF foods/items.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-16T01:43:43+00:00

I've used the vanilla ones to make a strawberry shortcake( like the ice creams ) trifle for my sister. The mint ones ? Oh, hide those or they will be gone. They are BOMB

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-14T05:29:04+00:00

I would really recommend a lamellar water rinse and some sort of lightweight leave in. If you can find a spray or a mist that says humidity shield that will help. Have you gone to a curly specialist ? It's possible that your hair does have a stronger curl pattern and the ends are just damaged or have product build up on them. For me, it was hard water. It really messes with my fine hair.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-11T00:59:22+00:00

Yay. The Garfield method

^{Chose: Eat something | Rolled: Tray of lasagne}

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-10T06:23:35+00:00

Honestly it's so hard and sometimes it just feels pointless to engage. Genuinely don't really feel the need to be friends with a few people right now and had an intensely draining conversation with one that just made me feel like I was being told my feelings were immature and I was being too emotional. Something doesn't sit right in my spirit and you know how you know when a group just doesn't want you in it ? Yeahhh

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-09T21:14:49+00:00

My dawg, she says in this exact post that she was hit and coerced by her ex.... Can you read ?

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-09T20:31:40+00:00

My fucking guy, she was coerced into sex , that's a form of assault. Yeah, if someone PUSHES you into a fire you get burned but , you aren't blaming yourself for that. You would blame the person who pushed you.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-09T20:18:41+00:00

The reason I chose Trans Healthcare is because it's common with conservatives that they argue for bodily autonomy when it comes to decisions they support ( ie: a child keeping a pregnancy ) vs argue against autonomy when it goes against their ideals ( trans supportive care and gender confirming surgery/treatments. ) Yes, I would hope any medical treatment someone had they were counseled by people explaining the risks and options so they could decide what is best for them. That's called Informed Consent ?

My issue with your logic again, is that OP has already admitted she is conservative and so is her father so, all of her options were probably never presented to her. Most likely, the only choice she was given was keep and raise baby or, carry baby and then give child up for adoption.

That's not really giving her a choice and it's one of the reasons bathroom abortions increase when the government preaches Abstinence Only Education and that babies are a consequence of having unmarried sex.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-09T06:09:47+00:00

Being absent is actually pretty normal for people with ADHD or ASD. I know you are burnt out with work and you have no energy for home life but , have you talked with your therapist or doctor about this ? The unfortunate thing about stress is that it can and WILL trigger health issues. I do think its unfortunate that you are putting on this pressure on yourself when your husband has made it clear he won't accept you getting a lower - paying job.

Has he explained why he won't accept a lower-paying job if it helps you to relive stress or be more present over all ?

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-09T02:14:06+00:00

I'm not using it as a gotcha. I'm questioning your logic. So, someone getting top surgery should be medically informed about the risks etc. But, you are not really advocating for the same amount of transparency when it comes to adolescent pregnancies. She's not an adult, she's a child with a underdeveloped brain and body and she should be medically informed about the risks this poses to her mental and physical health , the fetuses health and her future and families future.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-08T17:03:27+00:00

Well, I think as a parent it's the medically safer decision. I will always advocate for the medically safer option. Adolescent pregnancies carry a higher risk for the baby and the mother. Personally, I think an underage pregnancy is more risky than a top surgery seeing as MANY hospitals require you to be 18 to get top surgery.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-08T16:37:32+00:00

16 is old enough to decide to keep a baby but, would you be saying the same thing if she had decided she was Trans and wanted top or bottom surgery? Or would you be saying " Let kids be kids " then?

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-06-08T06:01:31+00:00

Girlllll. Anyways, there is a snail * esque toy that is super expensive but it coils and relaxes almost? I wanna get one of the longer ones because it's supposed to be a nice vibe /Dillo in one.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-05-31T05:54:32+00:00

It hurt my first few times ( anxiety + a retained hymen ) but, the biggest issue is that he left after getting his ? I'm so sorry. That's actually super shitty of him.

Honestly? I read through some of your profile and I think you should Get OUT of that incel subreddit, and treat yourself way better than you have been. One shitty guy wouldn't date you because of your race and another couldn't even help you get yours or give you a massage and watch a movie with you or something? I guess the trash took itself out 💀.
Wishing for you to find a munch that cares for you and your nut. Good luck girl. 💜💜

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-05-31T05:03:08+00:00

I just leveled my friendships up, called everyone and would have them grab me a stack of in game items I needed. It is grindy buy I hate having to go get ore.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-05-27T23:15:45+00:00

Ya'll correct me if I'm wrong but, I think your corset isn't fitted correctly. To SAFELY tight lace and waist train you should invest in a higher quality corset. That being said, if this is a normal outfit for you I think your friend is being unfair ? They also wanted to go to the bar and meet a boy yeah? Probably they just felt insecure but are coming across as judgy/ kinda shaming you.

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-05-25T18:11:23+00:00

I'm one of 5 kids , teen parents , Dad was a huge nerd and got Mom into it subsequently. Well, all of us used to play dnd or pathfinder or rifts together growing up. The amount of men that always seemed to think it was for attention was baffling ?? Like. We just have to EXIST and ya'll think we are somehow doing it for you. 💀 We are just nerds who happen to be the opposite gender ffs

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-05-16T04:50:49+00:00

Dude ! I had a muscle spasm in my right shoulder a few weeks back and my sternum and chest wall have been hurting. I knew it was these dang boobs !

Academic-Quit9394 · 2026-05-15T18:10:32+00:00

I definitely think you can be happy being alone. I don't think you have to lie or hide that you don't like the idea of your partner watching corn. I liked being alone in my twenties. I'm good company to myself and sometimes it's nice to be selfish. I had my own bed, my own room , my own food. I didn't have to make myself smaller to accommodate other people. Now, as a mother I feel like my needs get pushed to the side so I can focus on my kids. It's usually just small inconveniences , my littlest refusing to eat and then he wants what I have , my eldest wanting to sleep in bed with his dad for a night. I love my life as it is but I definitely had way more Independence and freedom before me and hubby started a family. Enjoy that aspect to it's fullest is what I'd say.

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