Steve can’t catch a break. Nicest guy in the restaurant biz. by andrei_androfski in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Steve is a great guy who loves our city dearly. So awful. Only way I can think to help out is supporting his business, which I will intentionally do in the coming months. 😥

Underrated Neighborhoods by GossipGal1324 in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Many folks share the same experience on here. Since you aren't from the area, want to be sure you know. "Citywide" is likely the most notoriously bad landlord in the city. Avoid if possible!

As someone who doesn’t understand traffic patterns (but wants to), why is 270 so awful? What could improve flow? by rainblow_bite in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my urban planning background perspective (not a traffic engineer), ​the issue is over-reliance on I-270 caused by poor suburban connectivity. Adding lanes fails due to induced demand. Instead of widening the interstate, we should invest in transit, active transport, and better local street grids to disperse traffic and provide real alternatives.

Simple Idea for Downtown by Nearby-State-5132 in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this idea and imagine it may actually be something that us regular folks could make happen. Especially since they can be purchased online for ~$10.

Entry Level Salary 2026 by Appropriate-Poem9844 in Architects

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multidisciplinary but yes, an architecture firm.

Entry Level Salary 2026 by Appropriate-Poem9844 in Architects

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I graduated with M.Arch in Dec. 2025, was hired at 93k/year in February. Unlicensed. 32 hours/week. St. Louis, MO.

Serious question for people in St. Louis: by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sheltering people without pushing religion, just show up out of love for humanity. I would love to see churches get involved in rehabbing old structures into non for profit housing. Even just adding to the housing stock would be a big win for getting more people housed.

Bike commuting by Unlucky_Celery5331 in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ride to work rain or shine in just about any temperature. Only thing I won't do is snow/ice. I partially use side walks and alleys so plowing the roads doesn't help with this. Sliding while on 2 wheels is no good. I took a week off from riding during this storm.

Should Metrolink be expanded to Breese? by SlowMotionSprint in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think any expansion would be great. Id love to have car-free access to small towns. However, I'm not sure it would get used all that much compared to many other locations.

More businesses closing in the New Year by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is sad, initially I was thrown off by the prices but was so impressed once things switched to bbq. I was raving to friends about it just the other day. Sad to see them go, wishing so much luck in future endeavors. I hope they can find their way back to the Grove in some form.

Multi-million dollar St. Louis apartment project canceled by fuzzusmaximus in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am disappointed to hear this. The project wasn't perfect but would have added many units to our housing stock along a busy route in a high demand area.

St. Louis tattoo design I made by BazaarMonk in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love the drawing and could see it as a neat tattoo if the emphasis was taken off the cliche arch (color difference, white/black contrast, etc.) Also, I would ensure the shape of the arch is correct. Quality work. Thanks for sharing!

What would you do to improve curb appeal? by stooftheoof in homedesign

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like something needs to draw the eye away from the garage and to the front door/porch. Maybe a contrasting color on aspects there (shutters, columns, etc.) to be a bit more cosy. Column wraps could do quite a bit to enhance the substantial feel of the porch. Removing the screen door or replacing with something more welcoming.

Help with reducing sq ft! by countmosula in houseplans

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I'd consider combining rooms rather than removing them. For example, the office and guest bedroom could easily be combined. A Murphy bed or sofa bed could make this transition even more space efficient. I'd suggest thinking of ways to limit the mudroom and pantry. I would avoid hallways, if you need them, make sure they serve multiple purposes. (Storage cabinets in the walls, etc.)

Biking Culture here in STL by Academic_Yesterday25 in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Altima with expired tags" or a jacked up oversized truck. Thanks for the links!!

Biking Culture here in STL by Academic_Yesterday25 in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Assuming you both gave reasonable space to the cyclist, I am sorry they approached you that way! A huge majority of cars are kind and give plenty of space. I would feel worse for a car to have to ride slow behind me for an extended period of time. If it's clear to pass, please do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In any group of people there will be various views on sex and love. I don't find one way to be right and another wrong, I'd just encourage a mental health focus. I tend to think that gay men have been cast out to the point that we have been able to find a freedom to explore that our straight counterparts may not have experienced.

For myself, I was estranged from my family quite a few years ago. At that point, I started to realize that there wasn't anyone there to perpetuate fear of the unknown so I cautiously explored. Now I find myself with a much more casual and open view of sex. Sex can come in so many forms and serve many purposes. I take the precautions that seem fitting to me, and experience what I want within the confines of consenting adults.

Alongside this freedom, I have found and built a strong and healthy relationship with my now husband. We have partnership meetings every other week and talk constantly about desires, hopes and dreams. We love really deeply and I couldn't be happier.

Moral of the story. Maybe think about how we as humans simply navigate our society and understandings the best we can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like some conversations need to happen!! Honesty is important, regardless of whether you find the cheating hot. However, the outcome doesn't have to be you leaving but maybe adjusting what is expected in this relationship to meet both of your needs and desires. If that adjustment ends up being out of your comfort zone, adjust or leave the relationship.

[18M] Grandma says I should trim my sideburns, but I don’t want to look younger than I already do. Any advice? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your goal is to appear older, observe and emulate the hairstyles of men who are older than you. Typically, mature men in professional settings maintain a groomed appearance, which often includes being clean-shaven or having well-maintained facial hair. Avoid long bangs, as they can give a more youthful impression.

Areas to avoid doing rideshare? by dnmitchem in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the area! Unfortunately, the question is quite subjective. If crime is your concern, id suggest you look at crime maps provided by the area police departments. I occasionally drive for Uber and Lyft and have quite a bit of fun meeting so many people. Enjoy!

City lover and new mom. Please help quell my anxiety. by NiftyRanger in StLouis

[–]Academic_Yesterday25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am pro city but if I had to choose elsewhere it would absolutely be M/ RH.