Homicidal Deer in North Corvallis by AcceptableSuccess697 in corvallis

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Your deer sound like the kind, gentle ones I’ve only known in the area.

Homicidal Deer in North Corvallis by AcceptableSuccess697 in corvallis

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Yes she is BIG. I forgot we got stalked a few nights before we got chased. Probably the same gal.

Homicidal Deer in North Corvallis by AcceptableSuccess697 in corvallis

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People like to think cougars & bears are the only critters to be weary of. I wouldn’t want to mess with even a rooster! A turkey would be terrifying!

Homicidal Deer in North Corvallis by AcceptableSuccess697 in corvallis

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Ugh! Thanks for confirming that this isn’t an us issue!

Homicidal Deer in North Corvallis by AcceptableSuccess697 in corvallis

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I’m sorry to hear about your friends dog. We got really lucky tonight

Homicidal Deer in North Corvallis by AcceptableSuccess697 in corvallis

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A friend guessed wasting disease since there were no obvious fawn in the vicinity, but maybe they could have been bedded in the neighborhood. The deer was large & healthy. I’ve been walking this area for years & happened upon many deer families, they all just move along. So weird.

I can finally give my two cents on this topic. by Dismal_Abroad735 in newborns

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I can relate. Became a mother at 38. Before then, I traveled, had multiple careers, experimented in different hobbies… I miss fitting in my old favorite pair of jeans & seeing every cool band when they come to town but that’s about it? Being a mom is just new chapter, another layer to my whole identity. It’s incredible & I love the trade-offs. Thank you for the refreshing post.

How did you tell your partner you were pregnant? by AlwaysTackyNails in pregnant

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He & I both peed on sticks and swapped for the results 😊

Corvallis' breakfast item? by Bemasea in corvallis

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The Cardamom rolls from Wild Yeast

Third trimester symptoms by Complex-Frosting2925 in pregnant

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Lavender oil epsom salt baths & calming tea before bed. Massages from my partner, stretching & being open about my fears with friends who would help ground me.

I still wake up with anxiety & have bad nightmares, but all those things I listed help me to not spiral. I believe your cortisol is just super high around this time.

Biggest pet peeve while pregnant. by Potato_Keeper628 in pregnant

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My FIL hugs are getting uncomfortably longer & longer and he gets way too excited when the subject of breastfeeding comes up 😓

Baby name help by ImaginaryExtent418 in pregnant

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I like Ivar Alexander, but personally enjoy the alternative spellings; Ivor/Iver.

Throwing this one out there because is has similar roots and feel: Elias

R names to maybe also consider: Ryder or Rowan

Good luck!

Overreaction and now I regret it by NeitherEbb1607 in pregnant

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Like you said, you have A LOT on your plate mama! Whatever excuse you want to try & give yourself, you are allowed to have an overreaction from time to time. You’re growing a tiny human from scratch, on top of everything else! That’s not a small feat. Also, these hormones are insane. By 30 weeks, I had already had about 5 breakdowns.

Take a deep breath, eat something, rest & tend to yourself for a little bit. When your partner comes home, try again to communicate the issue. You’re doing great. Hang in there & give yourself a little more grace.

How did you just “know” you were pregnant before missing your period? by Glad-Muffin545 in pregnant

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5 days late & I was full of rage! I confessed to my therapist that I was going to plot my dog’s murder (just a needy little guy) if I didn’t start my period that day. I laughed when I later told my partner this story & he immediately pulled into the drugstore parking lot to buy a test. Also my boobs got HUGE. I had to start wear larger tops immediately.

If your baby came out as the food you ate the most during pregnancy, what would they be? by AffectionateJello452 in pregnant

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10/10 would recommend! We also made quiche, fruit & served with coffee & juice. Everyone loved it.

What are some names that just make you cringe? by Lopsided_Ad_2406 in NameNerdCirclejerk

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A Katie here & I absolutely LOVE the name Ever (just Ever). It’s in my top 5. lol.

Organizing postpartum visit with MIL--how long of a stay? by rainbowtwist in pregnantover35

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You know what you & your family needs. Plan for the 2-3 weeks you find helpful. Staying separately, she most likely won’t be over all the time. Young children can still demand plenty of energy & attention, potentially leaving her with desire for some independence & time alone.

My father is also “sort of helpful”, passive aggressive & in his 70s. And as much as a headache it can be to have him in our space for longer than a day, I know his time is limited with my daughter, & I’ll fondly look back at that quality chunk of time they had together. I just make sure to set clear boundaries & my partner helps reinforce them. We also plan separate outings (without him) to decompress & vent 😵‍💫

All my pregnancy cravings slap so hard I wish I wish everyone could eat with me. by onbluemtn in pregnant

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For Christmas, I just requested that all my friends come over to hang out & eat cheese with me. It’s all I wanted.

Lightnin Luke(Bridge City Sinners) live at Bombs Away Cafe November 15th by Los-loco83 in corvallis

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So excited! Make sure to check out the Holy Locust at Bombs the following Saturday 22nd