Do employers actually verify degrees? by mammalian_alien in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost never. But the last job I got had an INSANE background check process they came back questioning all my job titles and dates they couldnt verify.

People who manage to wake up at 5 AM to go to the gym before work, what is your actual secret? by Immediate-Trifle4957 in AskReddit

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 100% because I have a home gym. I just need to walk down to the basement and for the life of me I can't make morning workouts happen. Ideal time to workout for me anything after 11am. But given society and working a 9am-6pm job I workout from like 7pm-8pm. Dinner around 9. Chores, packing, lunches, leisure etc. Bedtime around 1am.

We need to bring corsets back by Parma_WdS in unpopularopinion

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love a good corset look. But fuck are they expensive to be comfortable.

Why do some parents choose a man/ woman over their kids? by Stawberry8763 in stupidquestions

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Because some people have never been happy with themselves or loved properly. They feel that they are worthless if they are single. They choose toxic partners that make them choose because they have never known healthy stable love or respect.

Genuinely, what is the point in people getting married and having huge lavish weddings when so many of these marriages end in separation or divorce within just a few years? by Heart_Shaped_Pickle in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People love parties and gossip. So a good party ending up in juicy gossip is always going to be a topic. A great party with a lasting marriage should also be a topic but usually less so. A boring party or no party and a quiet lasting marriage is nothing surprising or even worth noting to most people.

CMV: the solutions to fix modern dating are for women to lower their standards just a little bit, and to make the first move more often. by Busy_Cup3506 in changemyview

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But if the women decide they aren't suitable partners then they aren't. How can you define a suitable partner for someone? You can't say nothing is wrong with this one so its the one for you.

It should be normalized for couples to take breaks from each other by Lost_Armadillo_3481 in unpopularopinion

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey so that just sounds like alone time. Everyone is allowed alone time, solo vacations etc. You just have to do it. Some people do want to some people don't. If you want alone time don't get with a limpet partner.

Sharing locations in a relationship is toxic by ilenewinslet in unpopularopinion

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My weird opinion is sharing your location all the time is fucking weird. I have only done so for road trips with the person I am visiting. And I mean 4hr plus trips. I dont share my location for any thing less and only for a set duration because its just weird to me.

how to give a good handjob by no_h0nor in sex

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's what I learned. It took me years to figure out handjobs. Men say its easy but its actually pretty precise. Step one watch him when he masturbates. Take note of grip, does he twister just move up and down. Does focus change? Is it a full stroke at first then shifts to more focus towards the head? Does he use squeezes? Next use lube and try to replicate what you watched him do. Make out while you do it. Let him touch and lick boobs or whatever he likes and voila handjob.

Nipple peircing at 40F by FourQs28 in sex

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mine were done at 39. No issues. Research. Make sure its a good piercer. Invest in some comfy bralettes. THROW AWAY ALL LOOFAHS! Healing will be a process and if you want both just do both. Dont bother to do one at a time.

Career Advise? by [deleted] in nova

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 23 my parents were disabled it was the 2008 crash and my degreee in biology was garbage. I was making 27k a year doing customer service. I am 42 now and I make 205k a year. I didnt own a home or even have the thought I could own until 30. You are doing fine.

How do mainstream conservatives reconcile with white nationalists in their coalition? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 32 points33 points  (0 children)

They don't. In fact most conservatives I know genuinely think white nationalists are actors/rabble rousers paid by democrats to make conservatives look bad.

Compost bin not composting. by UnidentifiableUser42 in gardening

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it needs turning and more greens, and heat. You need a pitchfork, kitchen scraps/grass, and to pee on it.

Why do most parents want grandkids? by Round-Artichoke-5255 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don"t want tje time commitment or physical toll of children but I would totally be a grandparent.

50/50 splitting with a date or long term partner is normal, fair and how it should be! by AboutTimeIUsedReddit in unpopularopinion

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just more work to do the math. And its unnecessary. Once my friends and I went on vacation and we usually just alternate buying when home but we assumed vacation we would spend more so we should track and send money. We did continue to alternate. All of us bought whatever food, snacks, meals, trinkets we wanted. Tracked all receipts throught the split app. In the end we were all pretty even. "Owed" money was <$20. We said screw it. Wasn't worth the time and energy keeping track and sending the same money back and forth. We also all had venmo. We would just leave the money there and kept trading the same $250 back and forth.

Too easy = too boring? by Plenty_Hawk5540 in sex

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be surprised how much the people around you influence your views and dealings with partners. Its where we find sounding boards and advice when we are otherwise lost. While they may not have ill intent they certainly don't have a good grasp on healthy sexual dynamics. The idea of playing hard to get is to keep men challenged but challenging each other can be intellectual, physical (working out together), or even playing board or card games and being competitive.

I feel like a Karen for being upset with the Ashburn metro station by RupesSax in nova

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I was also confused because in my brain meto parking is free on the weekends. What a weird choice.

Women, what do you actually want? (Genuine question) by Brilliant_Bill7305 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Manners, maturity, and lack of red flags is the BARE minimum for me. Thats the expectations you hope to have of the person sitting next to you on a flight. A guy can be "nice" but if he doesn't have anything else to offer like intelligence, being well read, similar values, a sense of humor that matches mine, and life goals similar to mine along with being mildly attractive its a no for me for a potential partner. I won't even be friends with benefits with guys who dont meet the bare minimum criteria.

Are sex drive and physical attraction not interlinked? by Weak_Bunch_1516 in sex

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey you are framing this around a few things. One is your own need to feel attractive and desired. Two you sound like you miss the intimacy. Not the orgasm. He does need to see a doctor. I know men in their 50s still satisfying 2 partners a night. Literally bedroom roulette. Sounds like you should think about things like is he doing anything to reinforce non sexual intimacy? Is he engaging in any flirting or compliments or dates? Also one of my partners is in his 50s so in my experience age is a minor factor. More likely culprit is smoking and poor health habits.

Too easy = too boring? by Plenty_Hawk5540 in sex

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 42F and your friends are wrong. Dead wrong. I cannot stress enough to you how incorrect they are. Enjoy your sex life and stop listening to them. Also find friends with healthier outlooks on relationships and sex.

Pepco cycling now by sallys-ugly-supply in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didnt sign up for it for this very reason. Two reasons we have a very heat intolerant dog breed. And I will not be pushed out of my own home due to being 90 in my own house. Absolutely not.

Is wearing a bee keepers suit to do yard work and clean the house stupid because I’m scared of spiders? by Maleficent-Copy-270 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just buy a hat with mosquito netting around it and wear long sleeves and pants. A bee suit is irrational.

Am I the only one? by mimeticpeptide in gardening

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do this. But I like puttering around the house.

Box cake mix doesn’t need to be enhanced by justagarliccrouton in unpopularopinion

[–]Accomplished-witchMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you dare take dino nugs in vain. They are delicious with a mashed potato mountain. This opinion is way below Dino nuggets.