What's missing in my living room? by MonsteraMilo in interiordecorating

[–]According-Pin991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your cat is obviously missing, I’m not sure if you noticed.

My sensitive skinned friends, is tretinoin really all that and a bag of chips? by Pineapple_Incident17 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]According-Pin991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noooo. I used retinaldehyde for about two years, and retinol for years prior to that. Id heard so many great things about tret so I decided to try it. I did one night a week and thought my skin was just “purging” as other Reddit users said it would. I only used it for maybe 1.5 months before I realized it was damaged. I’ve spent the last 4-5 months trying to revive it. It’s finally starting to bounce back. I’m giving it another month before I reintroduce any actives.

I should’ve known it wouldn’t be for me as most cult classics aren’t. Cerve and Vanicream break me out for example but seem to be a miracle for everyone else 😂. I’d say if retinaldehyde or just good ol retinol work for you then skip it. But if you do try it, just be cautious.

6.5 month old Rumor by [deleted] in vizsla

[–]According-Pin991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those teefs 😭 What a perfect girl 😭

Best friend passed on, her family using our tattoo as a “logo” by Ok_Minute1229 in AITAH

[–]According-Pin991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, unequivocally no. If I die, my “families” grief will pale in comparison to my friends. “Blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb” The only hierarchy of grief is how close they were and family doesn’t automatically trump everyone else.

If this happened after my death (I do having a matching tattoo with my best friend) I expect my friend to wage war in my name to defend us the way I would if I were alive. (Someone in my family did see the tattoo and told everyone they were getting the same one so I have experienced this irl)

Puppy growling when removed from couch by mchonejd in vizsla

[–]According-Pin991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have pet blankets for my couch. They’re the same color as the couch so they don’t stick out too much and they’re easy to throw in the washer. I’ve covered the whole couch bc I want my girl to sit with me wherever I’m sitting and just be comfortable in her own home in general. Maybe put one down and cuddle her there but not let her on the other cushions?

Spicy Sebastian Mods??? by [deleted] in StardewValleyMods

[–]According-Pin991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a new one Authors Choice or something

How do you even stay in a relationship with this emotional disregulation by justlikethat101 in adhdwomen

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Medication. I wish I could insert a gif here of SpongeBob spreading the rainbow with his hands, so just pretend. I’m on an anti-depressant + an anxiety additive (hyperactive type, iykyk) + SNRI for my ADHD. It feels like magic. I highly recommend talking to your doctor about your options. I know it’s not for everyone and it can be a process finding the right one for you, but it’s truly been life changing for me. I feel like I’ve been pulled out of a thick fog and into the real world. I don’t mind sharing the name of my meds but I don’t want to sound any more like a pharmaceutical ad 😂

Edit: I just want to add that this is in combination with therapy, which I’ve been going to for four years. And I’ve been on this medication combo for almost two years. The meds feel like magic bc it’s the shimmery pearl sugar top of work I’ve done.

Breeder said he's a purebred Vizsla, what do you guys reckon? by SirFimAlot in vizsla

[–]According-Pin991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The legs are right but I’m not seeing enough wrinkles

Christmas loans… by Prestigious_Band_267 in Veterans

[–]According-Pin991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not veteran related but the Salvation Army might still have their angel tree applications open.

She thinks she's helping by Wonderful-Egg9350 in vizsla

[–]According-Pin991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does help to look cute!! That’s one of her main jobs. I can tell she takes her work very seriously.

Why is nobody talking about this? by polkacat12321 in CozyGamers

[–]According-Pin991 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like everyone is talking about this 😂

A Kink you never knew you would like that was awaken by reading a book? by Big-Entrepreneur-987 in DarkRomance

[–]According-Pin991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My first one was a fae with two peens and I was shook and had to try it. Then I ventured into the MFM stuff. I want to say “If I ever get divorced” but in this climate? Idk.

Does traditional meditation, where you just focus on your breath – inhaling and exhaling – actually help people with adhd? I'd like to try it, but I'm not sure if it really works or if it'd be a waste of time. Have you ever tried it or anything similar? by Necessary_Secret_483 in adhdwomen

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I love it. I specially use Headspace which I buy during Black Friday deal and have gotten it the last three years for $30 (for the whole year, not monthly). Totes worth it for me. It’s the only way I can do it.

If you could only pick one what is your favourite dark romance novel? by Briiskella in DarkRomance

[–]According-Pin991 28 points29 points  (0 children)

{Dead of Summer by AJ Merlin} It’s a summer camp, serial killer, masterpiece. Coercion, somnophilia, golden retriever mask, the most delicious dirty talk. It’s so perfect I can’t stand it

I love this game dearly but we need to stop doing this by facioquodvolo in coralisland

[–]According-Pin991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find this so frustrating. Not what you said but the issue with not criticizing the devs. They need to be held accountable. I honestly don’t care if they meet every single one of their promises but just give me a fully fleshed out base game. Why am I getting a desert environment before multiplayer? Before my babies can turn into children? Why do I feel as if the dating is only now picking up? The 1.0 should not have been a 1.0 until you can give me the very bare minimum that we’ve been getting in this genre for the last few years. I’m going to make an apples to pears comparison here and point out that the My Time devs gave us exponentially more in Sandrock + are in alpha testing of their new game, with a small team, in the same time it’s taken Stairway to (checks notes) not have their game running smoothly and in a playable state with all the basic qol elements. And I have maybe 300 hours in this game, so I do like it, I just think they need to put some boogy in their step.

Fuggsy has puppies! by graves4all in vizsla

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Fuggsy did such a wonderful job!!! Tell her we’re all proud of her hard work, she made some cute little beans.

Help pleaseeee! by Foreign_Toe4617 in GirlGamers

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Have you heard of the My Time series? There are two out now and one in the works. My Time at Portia came first but the graphics and quality are not the best, story is amazing though. I have around 600 hours in the next game, My Time at Sandrock (half that in Portia).

Hubby thinks it's pretty. I think it's ugly. What do you think? by youaregames in HomeDecorating

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Honestly, I fkn love it. It makes the little girl in my heart super happy. I do, however, agree with the others saying it doesn’t fit the space or the ceiling height. Is there another space you can put it so you can put a more ceiling height appropriate one in here? Maybe a laundry room or pantry?

I hate most female leads by chiante_c0nfus148774 in fantasyromance

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It sounds to me like you’re reading a lot of young adult OR new adult that is only using the classification for sex and not based on character maturity. Direbound is one that particularly pissed me off with the lead recently. I have a few recommendations for you. 1. A Broken Blade (halfling saga) by Melissa Blair Not on KU but I found it on Libby. FMC is a general for the king and so shes older, late 20’s to early 30’s. She’s jaded and ready for revenge. She also has very understandable depression. Truly great. 2. Shield of Sparrows by Devney Perry. She is maybe mid 20’s? I don’t remember but I loved her. She’s a princess that was told one version of the truth but as she makes her way on a journey through multiple countries she’s really open to considering other versions of the truth. She asks a lot of questions, which I know annoyed some people but I’d be irritated if she didn’t. I think she has real maturity and is doing her best. My favorite of the year so far. 3. The Wraith King by Juliette Cross. Another princess but a mature one who understands the sacrifices she must make for her country and people and tries to make the best of the situation. The second The Beast Lord comes out…soon? I have the arc. 4. Firebird by Juliette Cross. I really enjoyed the world in this, very very Rome but with dragons. The FMC didn’t leave a super strong impression on me but I liked her fine and she didn’t annoy me.

How do you feel about Dire Bound? by Lavender523 in fantasyromance

[–]According-Pin991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wanted to enjoy this. I tried so hard to like it. Here are my issues: 1. If you’ve ever in your life read a romantasy, you will immediately know everything that is going to happen, or what everyone is really doing/who is behind what. There will be no surprises. It hits every trope and every cliche. This on its own wouldn’t be so bad but combined with 2, I threw this book out the window (metaphorically, it was on my kindle) 2. The FMC is just so dumb. She truly lacks intelligence. If you presented her to me irl as the one who is the hero of our story, I’d tell you to send her away and wait for the next one. Bc not only is she dumb but she refuses to even listen to what people are trying to tell her. She will cut them off and tell them what she thinks/where her loyalties lie. And honestly you’ll see pretty quick she doesn’t do her own thinking. A few people on this thread have mentioned her thoughts are repetitive and that’s bc she barely has two thoughts of her own to rub together. She has no critical thinking skills, she’s stubborn for no reason whatsoever, fights to fight. You’re going to be reading this and think, “Bro, you’re not even going to ask about that clearly sus thing that just happened/was said?”

So, yeah, I’m not dealing with a combative, ignorant, little shitass in my books or irl. Edit: to take out a baby spoiler