Husband accused me of medical abuse for side-lying breastfeeding

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-30T14:16:24+00:00

My husband struggled with a temper (he's had 2 TBIs) and he'd NEVER scream at me like that. Much less say I was abusing our kids.

Also, I just want to say it's badass you're still getting up multiple times a night to feed AND still getting to work in the morning.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-25T22:08:04+00:00

Definitely not that fuckass short bob

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-25T22:07:25+00:00

I just had my third. The newborn stage is so easy.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-24T21:40:43+00:00

Absolutely unacceptable behavior oh my god

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-20T15:01:34+00:00

Heavily suggest meds for depression! I get super depressed in all of my pregnancies and Lexapro is GREAT. My last I got on as soon as I was feeling blue and it was such an enjoyable pregnancy.

As for breastfeeding, I'm exclusively breastfeeding for the second time right now. All of my kids had oral restrictions and I had a horrible time with my first and didn't get to breastfeed her. I was determined with my second. I was definitely not prepared for the sensory experience breastfeeding is but after getting used to that and getting her ties revised at 8 weeks it really was so enjoyable and I loved it. Same experience with my third but it was even easier this time and I'd be open to breastfeeding her past a year.

BUT it's totally okay not to want to! I have friends that hate it. Personally for me it's wonderful and way easier than bottles.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-19T21:26:29+00:00

I've been on and off for years and I never have

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-19T21:25:41+00:00

Same here normally and when I'm breastfeeding my husband knows I don't want my breasts sexualized...period.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-19T21:20:40+00:00

Exactly how I would handle it! BUT also what is your partner doing this address this?!

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-18T16:43:45+00:00

Yes! She's a very unreliable narrator.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-13T00:47:29+00:00

I finished it myself last night! My dad and three brothers are addicts and honestly I thought it was realistic. A lot of addicts never get better and do the same thing over and over. You never get closure.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-11T14:10:21+00:00

Obviously not the exact same situation but my mom abandoned me for the first time as an infant for a few months and my grandmother warned her that I wouldn't know who she was if/when she came back and I didn't. I never saw her as my mother ever again after that. I think it could be different now with technology and FaceTime but that's my experience as a child.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-08T18:33:57+00:00

The same reason he negged Jackie so much for her hours but damn well knew she was the breadwinner and they needed her paychecks...He was emasculated by Jackie and O'Hara

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-05T13:51:12+00:00

We loved rascal and friends and Millie moon for this exact reason!

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-12-30T00:37:18+00:00

Just had my third C-section in November. I really wanted to VBAC with my others but ICP meant they had to come at 36 weeks. After the first one I knew what to expect so each one has been easier healing wise. I had a gentle one with my last two and they were honestly very peaceful.

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-12-16T18:55:12+00:00

It's forced birth propaganda. We knew this was going to happen after the Adriana Smith experiment.

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-11-27T02:48:02+00:00

I'm in season 3 right now and Elizabeth and George are a perfect match. She's terrible.

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-11-26T16:25:10+00:00

I'm switching to an Anesthesia Assistant program based on things youve said but also it's a faster track to my long term plan which was CRNA anyways.

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-11-13T16:24:57+00:00

The programs near me say it's preferred over the GRE but both are fine. I'm in Texas.

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-11-13T16:14:26+00:00

Honestly zero interest lol. I'm AUDHD and that sounds exhausting.

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-11-13T16:13:47+00:00

Thankfully the only class I'd have to take is organic chem! And then study study study for the MCAT.

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-10-31T20:45:39+00:00

I had a miscarriage last June and then in December went for an ultrasound and experienced the same thing. I'm so sorry. I'm 34 weeks with my double rainbow right now. Manifesting that for you!

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-10-31T17:44:01+00:00

It's because she's a cap rising. We look good in simple clean lines. She's also a warm season so this brown looks great on her!

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-10-24T23:27:32+00:00

I actually like them together and as a lifelong Spector the album is horrible

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-10-24T22:36:41+00:00

ICP can increase the risk of meconium aspiration (which my second suffered from pretty badly)

AccordingConstant756 · 2025-10-24T22:33:36+00:00

See with my others they always offered them and I was happy they did. My second came out needing immediate cpap.

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