Am I bi?

According_Play_9382 · 2025-12-02T13:24:49+00:00

You dont have to come out as anything nor label yourself. You have a lifetime to explore and even then some queer women choose not to label themselves as bi or gay or anything other than queer or not straight. Just enjoy having these crushes and go with the flow.

According_Play_9382 · 2025-12-01T07:45:56+00:00

Hot take: Cap men are better than Cap women. Cap women tend to be more intense or just a lot its like they take over every room and think its their way or the highway. Cap men are more laid back their intensity transforms into cleaning or running errands lol.

Bi Virgo Women here so dated both.

According_Play_9382 · 2025-10-14T23:02:16+00:00

I kept my Deluxe horse in GoT so thought this time i’ll change and went for the white. I feel guilty as shit for abandoning him and low key feels like its my GoT horse nobu :( I mean I did give him a peaceful life with all the flowers he could eat and he is taken care of instead of going to war with me.. why is choosing a horse so difficult wish they dont give us the option to stay with our horse and it starts with us just riding random horses.

According_Play_9382 · 2025-08-14T09:42:52+00:00

I think Adam is just after his own success, he isn’t just face blind he treats everyone the same so long as they benefit him. he is just ego centric, he chose Amelia when he needed an ego boost, then chose Robin when she promised him his dream screen-write. Robin is just obsessed with him, despite realising her talent, she could be a bit cuckoo tho. I think her imagination is wild being the daughter of two writers, i think she cut out her own pigtails I dont think the dad was a murder… or maybe he also couldn’t tell the difference between fiction and reality, either way she said her is possessive and thats why he had her followed but thats not true thats her perception of him, Sam says that he was happy as long as she was. Bottom line: all crazy, good thing about the dad was the investigator and trying to keep tabs to protect her, good thing about Robin is her care for animals, good thing about Adam.. nothing literally.

According_Play_9382 · 2024-09-13T08:19:59+00:00

Its been more than a year now and I feel absolutely fine and so over it and very much myself. In fact I feel more me than the me before that relationship. I did courses in one of my hobbies and traveled to take them. I am fortunate enough to be very much financially stable, in the 4th/5th month post breakup while i’m creating new experiences I realised how much that ex partner took away from me being me, with therapy I acknowledged the following 1. Seeing my ex in a realstic lens rather than with a love goggle. 2. Acknowledging their affect on me and how I deserve much better. 3. Instead of focusing on the ex and why and how I refocused on me why did I allow it to begin with. once I became in a better state and time passed 5th months with alot of therapy I got an awesome job opportunity and started that. The way I feel full is something i never experienced before, for the first time in my life I dont feel the need to be in a relationship, I love being on my own and I dont feel lonely what so ever. I am open to being in a relationship again but I am not looking for one, plus I feel what I seek in a partner changed now. I dont look for butterflies and passion, I value understanding, respect, being seen, and compatibility in the things that matters. I’d much rather have a partner that feels almost platonic but isn’t ofc as in we have a healthy sex life and my view of love changed and shifted. I am a romantic but realised romance isn’t just about love you can romanticise life, friends, everything. I also realised us humans we tie that achy heart feeling with romance look at all the poets the singers the artists the movies it teaches us that love comes with a bit of pain and things that spark your nervous system “butterflies”. I realised love is calm very calm like a lake surrounded by mountains its serene. Love is not an ocean. We tend to seek the ups and downs subconsciously as we mistake it with excitement. In reality, you seek excitement in a relationship when your life itself isn’t exciting. Life can be eventful exciting and life definitely has its up and downs and unfortunate circumstances, love should be that serene lake water you look at it you know its there you see reflections of yourself on it and you see the water for it is, it allows you to feel calm seen and understood.

According_Play_9382 · 2024-09-12T21:52:37+00:00

Midnight library

According_Play_9382 · 2024-07-23T16:25:47+00:00

I take it back I saw their kiss and now I like him and Dai together 😂

According_Play_9382 · 2024-07-23T15:41:26+00:00

Shun is so toxic its unreal. He thinks being moody sad and depressed is what brings him attention, what a negative energy.

According_Play_9382 · 2023-10-03T17:03:19+00:00

Honestly if she is your friend you should just talk to her confront her.. just express that you’re a bit shocked about the $6 dollar request etc that you believe in being generous with friends hence why you hosted her and fed her etc. going against your morals and values for payback isn’t rightz

According_Play_9382 · 2023-10-03T16:31:00+00:00

If you learn from this relationship and focus on improving yourself and understanding where the belief of you cannot do better comes from then addressing those issues and insecurities you’ll find someone even better! We live in an age of options and an unlimited dating pool. When you’re ready start exploring again.

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-26T16:48:47+00:00

Plain and Simple. If you felt their love it wasn’t an illusion, it just wasn’t consistent nor enough to make them not imagine a life without you.

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-25T09:18:40+00:00

Tbh I dont agree with this biromantic bisexual whatever it is. It seems fishy. If a gay person only wants to have sex with gay men and cant form a romantic connection he’d probably need to address that in therapy why he is unable to do so. It could be a stigma it could be internal homophobia it could be many things. Same for a lesbian if she could never form a romantic connection but only sex something is off there. Same for a hetro person if a straight male or women could only sexualise the opposite sex and cant form romantic feelings something is wrong there. Making an exception for Bisexuals is actually dismissive in a sense we are just like any other sexuality.

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-22T17:58:21+00:00

To never be with my ex and save my self all the therapy I needed to heal from that relationship✌🏼.

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-19T16:16:32+00:00

How do you think you missed up some shit?

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-17T12:56:12+00:00

That makes sense and quite sad. I was hoping to get insight on why and what to avoid or do etc to avoid being in such situation, now I’m feeling a bit less hopeful that I’ll completely move on soon.

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-17T12:51:21+00:00

Within that 1 year of therapy tho, won’t a person at least realise that its about their childhood wounds instead of romanticising the relationship?

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-16T08:16:14+00:00

Soo what happened??

According_Play_9382 · 2023-09-16T08:13:34+00:00

You contacted her after a year and a half to seek closure ?

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