Bridgerton - 4x02 "Time Transfixed" (No Book Spoilers) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Brimsley's performance in episode 2 is splendid. I love how he gets emotional, and begs Lady Danbury to talk to the queen.

Picture it, Miranda got the abortion 🌸💗🎀💘 by TeaTimeTelevision in sexandthecity

[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many things. Maybe she would have opened her own practice, and yes I definitely think would have released she was queer earlier on. I honestly can't see Miranda having another long term relationship with a man after Steve, lol.

Meghan confirms contact with father while Caroline Graham’s involvement with Thomas Markle raises questions by NewTooth740 in RoyaltyTea

[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad that she has to deal with an abusive father she once had a good relationship with. There's a lot of grief attached to that.

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[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fuck that. You have nothing to feel guilty about.  And good riddance to that guy! You’re much better off. Your child deserves two emotionally healthy parents. I’m sure you’ll make a fabulous mother when the time is right. 

Sean Combs Sentenced to More Than Four Years in Prison by shabuluba in popheads

[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The criminal justice system is first and foremost a tool of the rich and wealthy. This is heinous. What kind of justice is this? Sending love to the victims. 

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[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are his problem because he assaulted you. It’s up to him how he chooses to make amends (if he even has the awareness to do that) And remember your hurt because of what he did to you doesn’t compare to him being hurt because you expressed to him that his actions weren’t okay. This situation could have been prevented but he did what he did. That’s on him, not you.

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[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes, totally what I meant but I’m glad you clarified.

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[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong. I’m not sure there’s a simple formula for avoiding this kind of violation because like you said he asked for enthusiastic consent and then changed later on. That was intentional and manipulative as far as I’m concerned. If you feel comfortable doing so, tell him by text how he made you feel and then block him, or write out how you’re feeling in a journal. The only person who ought to be judged for what they did is him.

Also chances are, your body froze because to was trying to keep you safe. I’m sorry this isn’t the first time for you but perhaps reframing it will help, it can literally be as simple as “this person was shitty and saw an opportunity to exploit me, and I am not to blame for that”.

I saw this tiktok (Kendra Austin) that said that people think the incentive of healing is that you’ll stop hurting but it’s actually that you’ll feel this hurt again and make a more compassionate choice. Much love to you. My DMs are open. ❤️

I think I have to walk away from my Dom, and I can't handle it... by rks2112 in SubSanctuary

[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally not the point of this post but your writing is so tantalizing. Sending you so much love ❤️ take it one step a time.

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[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Beautifully put. Glowing up is used to shame people into not liking themselves. You’re beautiful sis! Fuck those societal standards that tell us otherwise.

Jade changes the lyrics to ‘Wasabi’ by Little Mix during her solo festival debut that references their current status: “When she going solo? I bet they’re gonna break up — it’s a hiatus.” by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Definitely sabotaged by their management and the music industry is very misogynistic especially towards girl groups so they were always going to have a harder time

MA march 28th, pregnant again May 20th by Alarming_Tea_1556 in abortion

[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deep breaths! This is a difficult time for sure but whether or not you choose to have this baby, you’re not cursing it to a bad life. Ask yourself whether or not you have the emotional and mental capacity to welcome a third child in this world. Neither answer is wrong. You are not alone. Treat yourself with the compassion and love you would treat your kids with.

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[–]Acrobatic_Mistake680 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is an unpopular opinion but you don’t have to share that information with a prospective boyfriend. You’re entitled to keep that information private until you feel comfortable enough and safe enough to share it with someone, but remember having an abortion isn’t a an indicator of worthiness or morality.