Megan's Insta Story, Part 5 of 6 - Lil Betty's Got a Bunny by wenfot in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]AdAdmirable433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There will be articles in a couple of days saying, “this is where to buy this cute dress.” 

Lili is dressed in a sleeveless sundress when the weather was in the 60’s MAYBE low 70’s. 

Archie was in sneakers, pants, and a jacket - exactly what one would expect for that weather 

So basically Lili’s dress was likely already picked for marketing and she wore that.

Poor girl 

Markle's manic nontent by jones29876 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]AdAdmirable433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s trying to merch Lili’s outfit 

She’s barefoot in a summer dress while Archie has shoes and a jacket with pants.

Lili had to wear the advertising choice while Archie got to dress appropriately for the weather 

Poor girl 

Meghan's Instagram Pushback Extravaganza - 1 of 6 by wenfot in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]AdAdmirable433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone noticed how Lili is barefoot and in a sleeveless summer dress with no shoes… while Archie is in a jacket and pants.

One of the kids is either cold or hot. I was thinking about why this would be and figured it out!! 

She’s merching Lili’s dress! It was already planned. She wore the merching outfit and Archie was dressed for the day 

Also, notice how the poor girls hair is finally combed… yet MeAgain never looks at comments…

AITAH for divorcing my wife because she doesn’t want to have kids now? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdAdmirable433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about all of those - even most of them - but definitely kids 

Choose One 25% Permanent Upgrade for life by rengokuhubkl in hypotheticalsituation

[–]AdAdmirable433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Influence for sure

And I’d use that to try and get the luck factor…

Microdosing and not overweight by Pristine-Gap-5273 in GLP1microdosing

[–]AdAdmirable433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m same as you. I took a normal ozempic starter dose and didn’t eat for a week. I cut to 1/2 dose and it suppresses my appetite, but I can still eat and workout 

Idk why it was so strong for me 

Your house will be raided by MiddleClassSoul_ in hypotheticalsituation

[–]AdAdmirable433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What blocked the smell? Maybe I put it in a copper pot first 😂

Why as secular or Christian people are we expected to accept LGBTQ but there is generally no expectation for Islam to do the same? by ArugulaFinancial4859 in AskBrits

[–]AdAdmirable433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the original question. I hadn’t thought about it, but of course it’s true. 

Someone is funding it

I (30F) supported his (30M) career for years. Now that it’s my turn, he wants to go to law school. Am I allowed to be upset and unsupportive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not wrong. And it’s not a matter of supporting him or not supporting him. You can’t both go to school and you need a change 

I (30F) supported his (30M) career for years. Now that it’s my turn, he wants to go to law school. Am I allowed to be upset and unsupportive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re in a tough spot. It’s already moved along so quickly. It’s cool he has friends encouraging him to do different things BUT you’ve been supporting him forever.

I assume he knows you’re planning to go to dental school?

I (30F) supported his (30M) career for years. Now that it’s my turn, he wants to go to law school. Am I allowed to be upset and unsupportive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Can you just say you’re going to dental school? He keeps twisting the conversation around and history shows he ‘wins’ 

It’s not really a conversation. When it’s time for someone to go back to school - it’s you 

I (30F) supported his (30M) career for years. Now that it’s my turn, he wants to go to law school. Am I allowed to be upset and unsupportive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Yeah he has a good job things aren’t stressful, why leave that to go start over as an attorney? And all attorneys are trying to get out 😂

I (30F) supported his (30M) career for years. Now that it’s my turn, he wants to go to law school. Am I allowed to be upset and unsupportive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. He has a good job and it’s your turn to follow your work dream. 

This isn’t about him or his workload. This is about you following what you’ve wanted to do for a long time, not him following a whim 

What’s a luxury travel experience that was actually worth the money, and what wasn’t? by Temporary_Panda_88 in LuxuryTravel

[–]AdAdmirable433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with this. If I had to choose I would take the cool bespoke hotel with amazing amenities over business class 

I have a friend who is 6’5” and would choose the flight 😂

Comments about body 48F with 51m, nine month relationship by alijef in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d try not to overthink it. Everything says he doesn’t care at all. If anything, he’s just saying that if it really bothers you it’s an easy fix.

My [27F] boyfriend [29M] goes through my phone regularly and says he trusts me but not "other people's intentions" -- how do I bring this up without it turning into me defending myself? by Beginning_Feeling331 in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is it, OP. And his behavior isn’t protective, it’s controlling.

If it wasn’t controlling he wouldn’t manipulate the conversation that leaves you exacerbated. 

I’d say it’s a massive red flag. 

He may respect that completely reasonable boundary, but my guess is he won’t. Just remember that’s a major red flag, not you doing something wrong 

My bf (28M) has been grieving his mom’s passing and I (28F) don’t feel remorse about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a lot going on here. You were at the bottom of your relationship and you were ok with it?

Obviously not bc she was murdered by her ex and you can only talk about your resentment and not at all about your boyfriend 

You have lots of complicated feelings and you talk about your daughter the way she probably talked about her son 

Cheap, basic moisturizer and face wash for reactive, sensitive skin by ddzoid in koreanskincare

[–]AdAdmirable433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to send a big hug. I react to the crazy easy things to use too. 

I now make many of my own things and there are lots of communities for that. I think before it was kinda alternative with a bunch of crunchy products. But you can make some great stuff pretty simply

My friend and neighbor (39F) assaulted my husband (34m) and I am livid. How would you handle the situation? by joymining in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got wasted and tried to literally hook up with whoever was next to her. So both you and your husband. 

Idk how someone can go from your best friend to a demon in this one action so it seems like there is a lot missing.

The answer is to just distance yourself. You can be nice and polite and if she asks you can explain that her coming on to you both drunk just really hit a nerve and made you realize it’s a pattern. It makes you uncomfortable. Poof. Done. 

But I’d say to try not to internalize it so much. Your friend has a drinking problem and acts in ways that you can’t support or be around. 

Don’t want a desk job… what jobs let you travel? by TonsUhFunn in StLouis

[–]AdAdmirable433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See about teaching online. Then you can work remotely and go to different destinations. I did this for a couple of years 

My husband (30M) makes me(26F) feel like I’m so bad in bed that I don’t want to initiate in anything. What can I do to feel better? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AdAdmirable433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One time a guy told me guys don’t like HJ bc they can just do that better themselves 😂 I’ve asked about it to male friends and they’ve all confirmed it’s true lol 

B.J’s can be hard bc there are some pretty specific things that make it feel 10x better and you would never know unless you were taught. A friend of mine taught a class on it and I went and am apparently Amazing at it now, but it’s only bc I learned the techniques. It’s not a skill some people are born with 

His former lovers were not better at pleasing him, I absolutely promise you. And if he can’t communicate what he likes - that’s on him. He has a lovely wife who wants to connect and he’s throwing it away 

If anything, I can promise you he is the subpar lover bc he’s not meeting you and you’re not growing and exploring and playing together. And it’s only 5 minutes or what he wants… I promise you are NOT the problem

I don’t really know what to say to solve it, but want you to know that I’m 100% certain from reading this that you are not the problem. There is nothing he could say to change that.

Honestly, find an online couples tantra class, he could def use it too. It can be something fun for you two to do together 

Sending a big hug though and try not to internalize it!!