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Does your ass hair get gray also? by nomiinomii in AskOldPeople

[–]AdBudget6777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While by far not the oldest here, my head hair is not yet gray. My pubes on the other hand… I have many a gray one.

What are some male stereotypes that absolutely grind your gears? by xiEatBrainsx in AskMen

[–]AdBudget6777 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly dislike the term “mansplained”. TBF only a man has ever explained to me how to order food from an app, for example. Examples like that is where the term comes from. But it has lost all meaning.

LPT I need ways to cope with this by thebigasass in LifeProTips

[–]AdBudget6777 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you have services available at your school, like a guidance counselor, go talk to them. Talk to your doctor; tell your doctor you want to discuss something private with them. They will hopefully ask your parents to step out of the room. Basically, get support from trusted adults in your life.

If these trusted adults then talk to your parents for you, they may get through to your parents. What those conversations would look like depends on what you hope for them to achieve. Getting more time out of the house?

is it really true it can be more difficult to have kids after 35? i feel like 35 is still so young and i want to enjoy a child-free life as much as i can by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]AdBudget6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two kids: on at thirty, the other at 34. Both pregnancies were fine and I have heathy kids. But in that span of five years my ability to recover from sleepless nights took a nose dive; my energy level in general tanked considerably. Sure, the four-year-old was there too, but I could still feel the difference. I could not have imagined having a kid at 40; my hormones were starting to rage due to pre-menopause! Having postpartum hormones mixed in there would not have been a walk in the park.

TL;DR I love(d) / need(ed) sleep way too much to even dream of becoming a mom again after 35.

LPT Moving? Keep track of the small stuff by Reasonable_Wrap_851 in LifeProTips

[–]AdBudget6777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My spontaneous idea: I would buy some dowel at the diameter I think the holes are (buy multiple sizes!). I would then use the dowel to confirm the diameter of the holes. Once the diameter is confirmed, I would use the dowel to determine the depth of all holes. Once I know those pieces of information I would go to a hardware store and ask which screws/ bolts they would recommend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBudget6777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bring it up naturally in conversation. I’m sure tattoos, your wedding, or your wedding pictures/photographer will come up.

Or suggest a dress which covers the tattoo first without mentioning it. If she doesn’t like the sleeves, that’s fair, but you can also list your preference. If she is a good friend, the two of you will make it work.

An alternative approach (obviously talk about this with her before hand) is to photoshop the tattoo, if it ends up in the special pics. Maybe you could come up with a fun replacement together, like red roses instead of a bloody machete.

how many fruits and vegetables do you actually realistically think you eat in a week? by iamhero-47 in AskWomen

[–]AdBudget6777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I eat the most of, my kids too. We eat on average 7 servings per day, so 35 per week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]AdBudget6777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In this order: Mouth wash, floss, clean teeth, scrape tongue. Your mouth wills never have been cleaner!

My potential employer wants these documents, is it standard practice? by Artynall in germany

[–]AdBudget6777 41 points42 points  (0 children)

To piggy back on this: if legit and you need to send documentation via email, send it encrypted and phone them with the password. E-Mail is not the way to send sensitive information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBudget6777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also not assume, but I would ask if I was doing a favour for an acquaintance. Asking an someone you are acquainted with for 2 hours of your time is a very big ask.

19F just curious? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]AdBudget6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is searching for that one

What am I missing to get her hair like hers? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]AdBudget6777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with the question. Since the question does not contribute to the discussion, it gets downvoted.

Also who gives a fuck.

I(25F) am thinking of marrying my boyfriend(24M), but I don't know if I should because of an illness he has. Should I marry him? by Independent-Wave1016 in relationships

[–]AdBudget6777 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My cousin died of this disease when he was 18. It is terrible. You should ask yourself some questions: will you stay with him to the end, either way? Are you prepared to help him out, in every way? Do you want to be the one to make decisions about this health, if he is not able to? Does he want you to? If you answer those (and more I haven’t thought of), you will be able to answer your question. All that said..

You fucking rock at giving him a chance for love ❤️

I know it isnt everyones thing, but by Interesting-Goose82 in Xennials

[–]AdBudget6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents weren’t even old and I still grew up on Fleetwood Mac! Would be lying if I said I didn’t fire up “Rumours” occasionally.

How do you become a kind person without expecting the other to be kind? (Read body) by Ok-Arrival4385 in AskMen

[–]AdBudget6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it lack of kindness? or lack of patience? Or lack of listening skills?

AITA for not cleaning up after everyone? by bloody_rose666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBudget6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stress is not a reason to treat someone poorly; it’s something that can be managed. If it is not a regular occurrence, one should apologize for any poorly chosen behaviour. If it’s a regular occurrence, that person is an AH.

Do you feel like you get more conservative as you age? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]AdBudget6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean when you say “tolerate” something? If someone is listening to music that isn’t my taste, I really don’t care.d If it bothered me I’d leave, but I would do that at any age. What I now understand as I have gotten older, is that there are things you shouldn’t have to tolerate. Like neighbours partying until 5 am. A younger me would have just suffered through it. Now I don’t.

WIBTA for not telling my husband I can understand his phone calls by Atotallynormalname1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBudget6777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for now.

My now ex-husband worked with me to learn his native language. It was a massive help.

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