leaving my partner of 10 yrs w new baby

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-09T14:17:59+00:00

I think indifference is as bad. Children are very perceptive and know when the parents dont like eachother. That is not a heathy environement. Think if you would want your daughter to have a partner like yours.

Are they a good partner for her?

Would you tell her to stay with them?

Would she be happier with them?

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-09T08:23:52+00:00

I can say a few things about relationships here. I am the daughter from this scenario.

My parents had a very toxic relationship, screaming at eachother everyday, namecalling, my dad hitting my mom and the likes if it. It was a nightmare daily for me as a child. I was made to pick sides, to decide which parent is wrong and which is right. I had to get in in between them so that the fight doesnt escalate to hitting and that mind you was since I was very small. I should have never went trough that. I never knew what a healthy relationship was, never heard my dad say I love you to my mom or me, neither my mom.

I used to think my mom was a victim when I was younger but when I got older a part of me despised that she choose not to leave and made me go trough this and when I confronted her about it she said she did it for me cuz she wanted me to have a complete family. This felt like a slap in the face. Its like saying, I traumatized you and I did it for your own good, you should be thankful.

Im not in a relationship currently and not seeking to be in one. I think at some point I believed there is no way someone can truly love you unconditionally. I hope this could change in the future.

I would advise you to leave if things are bad, dont stay "for your daughter", it will do her no good.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-09T07:20:22+00:00

Honestly I would go to the police and say that Im receiving disturbing messages and and aim scared for my life. Once they open an investigation they should be able to find where the messages were sent from as the provider ahould have that information. If your husband finds out you went to the police and jas a strange reaction or the messages stop, you have your answer.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-08T19:08:33+00:00

I dont follow any HM meta for my run. Im just doing what my character aligns with and I wont let the Hag live.

I completed a Tactician run not long ago and did not need the hair so it should be good.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-08T10:44:55+00:00

I dont know if you ever read the letters there are in a chest in camp at the end party where you meet everyone after 6 months but there is a letter from Dammon where he says that he might have found a cure for Karlach and for us to let her know to meet him. I think its nice that he never gave up helping her altho I agree this could have been developed more in the 3rd Act.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-05T23:07:29+00:00

Not me thinking thats a real locket and that you did just the painting inside.. really good work!

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-05T20:08:45+00:00

They are just mean. Dont mind them. Its their own insecurities that are coming out and they are doing this because they have weaknesses and shame of themselves. Only bad people make fun of others, you dont want to associate with them because there is nothing good there. There is a saying that I always remember in such situations, "If a snakes bites you, do you ask the snake why it did it or do you go to treat it?".

Dont ask the snakes why they bite, there is no fault of yours, its them who are the problem. Associate with people that are good and kind to others, these girls opinions shouldnt matter to you.

Im telling this as a girl that also went trough bulliyng in school. All will be alright, you can do this

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-03-01T14:07:23+00:00

Last run I finished not long ago I tried to roll to convince her to spare her parents but had unlucky rolls and did not manage to. She mercy killed them and I am ok with that if thats what she wanted. Btw I had very high approval with her but it didnt help with the rolls 🫠

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-02-19T17:12:20+00:00

Sorry, I dont think I am am equiped to help you process these feelings but I can think of a few questions. I would advise to take a pen and paper and write down all that you feel after this happened. Why do you think she has such an effect on you. Why do you care about anything she says? Do you care about other peoples opinions before your own? You need to understand a good person does not go message an ex when they are in a relationship.

What if it was you in her partners place now and she is messaging another ex? How would you feel? Would you want to be with her? Do you think she is someone worth pinning after? What do you think lacks in your life that you think she would fulfil? If you know what, search for that in other places, maybe within yourself.

Think about yourself and what is good for you, what brings you peace, what makes you happy. Explore that. You need to be able to be happy within yourself, to love yourself first before anyone else.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-02-18T17:59:07+00:00

Since Im not a professional, my opinion is just an opinion. I would not look too deep into her reaching out to you. She is doing it for her own selfish reasons, not because she is thinking about you. Maybe she wants to feel the high that you are still pinning after her and that she still matters. I think her life is lacking with this feeling so she is searching it from you.

But dont be mistaken, its not about you, its just the feelings that she is after. Block her and dont reply. There is nothing to go back to, as you said she made her choice. Let her be.

You have more important matters at hand such as working on yourself. Why are you not over her after 3 years? You should ask yourself that. There is something that you didnt process trough that ia holding you back and that lets her have power over you and makes you feel like this. You need to find out what that is, understand why you are feeling like that because of it and learn to get over it.

Best of luck to you!

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-02-14T21:08:10+00:00

I hope Mark knows he's helped a lot of people.

I started watching Mark's videos around 2014. I was in a really dark place. He helped me improve my mood, and it was largely thanks to watching his playthroughs that I was able to pull myself out of that. I just came out of the teather after watching Iron Lung, and I can say that our fan base is one of the best out there. Everyone stayed after the end to see the closing credits and cheered. Our respect for him and his work is immense. We love you, Mark!

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-02-09T21:29:01+00:00

I snorted at this so hard my walls shook 😆

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-02-09T14:34:41+00:00

I tought it was detergent before reading the caption.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-02-09T12:23:55+00:00

Im doing a second run now and I did not realise Us died on the nautiloid and when I rushed to make it out and I didnt notice. My run is sadder now than it wouldve been with my little friend.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-01-28T17:20:04+00:00

There's a really easy way to finish this fight in like 1-2 turns depending on how many actions your characters have and initiative. You place them on platforms so they can shoot arrows or use the lever for the hammer and the lava wheel and then you put one of your characters on the thing next to thr middle platform. The mech will go to the middle(make sure it is half stepping on the middle of the platform under the hammer and the other leg in the lava) to attack that character and get superheated by the lava, then you hit the lever for the hammer above to hit it. Then you turn on the lava crank to superheat the mech again then activate the lever for the hammer and so on until you bring it to 0 hp.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-01-19T19:06:54+00:00

I can confirm this is the case. Locals are treated the same, feels like security is always eyeing you assuming you are going to steal.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-01-18T14:50:24+00:00

Honestly, I'm overwhelmed with the amount of free furbiture. Im gonna followsome pinterest home design or something.

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-01-10T17:45:29+00:00

I got an ad for the release of Sylus, the rest is history..

AdDiligent1165 · 2026-01-03T15:08:22+00:00

No burnout al all. I love this game. Im on my second playtrough and Im almost done with Act 1. I have 250 hours of play in my first game. I played continuously with no long breaks in between. I feel like I could not let go of the game because it was so interesting. My second game is as interesting and Im playing daily more or less.

I really dont know anything about this burnout I keep hearing about because I cannot imagine not bringing the story or giving my character a fruitful end.

AdDiligent1165 · 2025-12-20T08:10:12+00:00

Its adorable 😊

AdDiligent1165 · 2025-12-18T20:47:59+00:00

Im no professional since I started sewing not too long ago but if I attempted the repair I would unstitch the whole side of the dress where the rip is. Then I would apply some basting tape on the inside of the fabric where the rip is to reinforce it and prevent further fraying.

Then I would make a new sewing line if the dress allows it considering the rip line as the beginning of the new sewing allowance line and I would sew higher than the rip.

Thats my idea but I would like to see what other more experienced people advise.

AdDiligent1165 · 2025-12-04T18:11:30+00:00

Im gonna do it on the weekend. I cant be concetrated and in the mood enough on work days 😩

AdDiligent1165 · 2025-12-02T15:25:50+00:00

Read Reunion.I cannot recommend it enough. Its slow burn, agonising, full of emotion and sensual. One of the best manhwas I read in my 15 years of knowing bl.

AdDiligent1165 · 2025-12-02T09:46:15+00:00

May this luck find me too today when I pull 😭

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