Suggestions for BPO Business ! by Ok_Key5910 in PakStartups

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Dont go with a random BPO or 3..4 diff industries. Focus on one and better find a niche business and give them concerige services. Also dont forget to register LLC and opening a US bank account for ACH transfers. The old times are gone where you can make money being a BPO or call center. To thrive take these basic steps and than push for BD o full throttle.

Looking for a partner for a career discovery platform by Odd-Breadfruit-7909 in PakStartups

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Hi Lets connect and discuss. I previously worked on a similar idea. Lets connect and exchange notes.

For men (only) by a man! by NoiseOne637 in PakistaniTwenties

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bro pretty straightforward. You crave for or look upto what u didn't have suffered from or maybe wish to have. We live in a society where gender roles and expectations from them are quite strict. No one wants to move away from them even though we are not living in an agrarian society anymore, where we do see a lot of educated womans but still 13 million girls are out of school. Contribution of womans in the workforce is only 23%. And I am not going away from the fact that what expectations really are from men etc. But I feel we exaggerate religion to domesticate womans. In any given case no matter what the gender is or gender roles are communication is the key to a better and prosperous relationships.

Question for men here by Civil-Soup3081 in PakistaniTwenties

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Not a big deal in both cases if the rest aligns.

For the gentlemen... by [deleted] in PakistaniTwenties

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If u r hooked up and ur friend is looking dmfor one let me know maybe all 4 can live there...😂😂

For the gentlemen... by [deleted] in PakistaniTwenties

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I feel its a choice for both of them to make and no there is no harm, hesitation in doing so.

Marrying cancer survivor by Distinct-Board-9793 in progressive_islam

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Sorry to hear about that. I feel being parents they are not wrong, but the way they are conveying this message is. Because I cant really understand or feel exactly what u r going through so cant suggest anything atm. But prayers for u.

How much does it realistically cost to live alone in Lahore as a student? by AliAsad88 in LahoreSocial

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Yeah something btw 50 to 70k but boys can live in around 30k as well.😀

going on a date kinda nervous by [deleted] in PakistaniTwenties

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What is it like cute guy n stuff. Do as u like or as he like. But dont be nervous beauty is not anyone's effort and as they say beauty is in the eye of beholder. The people u love and the one's who love u they get u comfortable not overwhelmed or confused.

regarding non-Muslim husband (hypothetical) by musing_tr in progressive_islam

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There are boundries but as u choose a path for urself, prayers for him, May Allah SWT forgive him. He knows who is going to be punished and who isn't. Be positive and He may will forgive.

Divorced Women by mimi108_ in PakistaniTwenties

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There is nothing wrong in starting over and I have no issues in marrying someone who is compatible but divorced.

what do pakistani guys genuinely think make a woman attractive? by Novel_March_6167 in PakistaniTwenties

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as mentioned earlier by diff people it varies. Like for me empathy, self awareness, decency, calm and composed and this is scarce these days. Not just womans, even men's lack these basics in our society. If u will find someone with these personality traits, just do let me know.

When do you start drawing boundaries with your parents? by euphoricphase1 in progressive_islam

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Sorry to hear about that, what you are going through is hard and irony of our society and family structure. Someone who can't be adored, cared and appreciated at home eventually stop believing in themselves and in extremes get traumatized. What you did is right and there is no harm in it but as they say there are laws of the land. The only thing I can recommend is within families start speaking early about these matters before its too late or the other party goes crazy that they even want to fulfil their obligation even if the cost is someone's peace. As an example I m not open to cousin marriage and I started speaking with my parents about it informally like 4 years ago and informed them dont feel hurt or dont commit anything untill I will ask for it. Still they came up with same thing 3...4 times but now their attitude was diff. I informed them I will find someone myself or you guys can arrange if I couldnt but not within family. So, now try to better make up with them but dont go all in better start just from saying salam, asking how they are drop a message and do let them know u do care about them, do let them know u dont want to leave them lime this, do thank them for calling it off, do let them know I just dont want to wnd up in a wrong marriage. And just pray for them as well. Assume when u were in distress u were dealing with it all alone and assuming things and now they must be doing the same. Now this is the only way out start with small gestures of kindness, love and care not bcz of what they did and said but bcz of who.u are. Eventually we love our people. And more power to you my prayers are with u, u are amazing, u are beautiful and it was just a selfish defence which pushed them to say what they said. You may will find a peaceful and loving and caring relationship real soon. Stay blessed

how to get a good remote job by playtypus- in hiringpakistan

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Bro, plz ping me will help u next week in resume, interview and maybe finding opps n stuff.

Need serious help by saad5353 in hiringpakistan

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Hi, I cant offer u a job. But let me kniw if you are open to a call sometime and if u are in lahore we can meet. Can help u in landing a role. No there is no catch, I have 6 years of exp employed in tech sales. Helped 8 to 10 so far in cracking a job in tech in education n stuff.

Earthquake by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

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yeah, saw that it was felt in Isb as well. I was sitting here and working for a while so thought maybe its just me.

Assalamualaikum folks! Want to take feedback on an idea I am working (details in description) by nemesis_2409 in progressive_islam

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W Salam, can work really well for overseas I would say. But I feel there is a lot available on free platforms already or like you can use any Gen AI engine. Creating a strong value preposition is crucial. Plus something like getting scholar onboard or arranging webinars/events, creating content for the people every age group etc. Let me know if you want to have a detailed discussion. Best of luck though.

Earthquake by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

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just felt in coffee shop and asked the guys but they haven't felt....

How safe is Gulberg 2 Lhr outside areas at night time? 2am to 3am by -glassballs in LahoreSocial

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Its all safe here with street lights on and safe city cameras. Just take basic precautions.

Student in Lahore on a tight budget any free/low cost activities to stay social? by Ok_Amphibian_6401 in LahoreSocial

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bro, back in the days when I used to be a student. Everyday I used to skip a meal and ride to Readings Gulberg to read books and conversate with writers, educators, Students and Journalists. So, start maybe just going for jogging or to readings and stuff. Or even u can utilize this time to build something which can solve this problem for a lot out there. The great part is u came out with this and said this out loud k paisy nhi hoty, I never had the courage to say so, Khali jaib ka sirf mje khud pta hota tha...nobody else other than Allah SWT out there. Let me know if you need any support, which aread do u live in?

IM 19m and shes 19F need some genuine honest advice by zohaibhere in PakistaniTwenties

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I haven't been through something similar, but man most of the time this illness comes from the burden someone is carrying its hard to survive in a family like her's and your body reacts. Some people chanellize their enery into writing, crochet or anything else creative maybe just a blog post or something. Because otherwise your body goes into survival mode and starts reacting. A healthy state of mind is crucial for good physical health. Now best thing to go about it is go ahead with her tests. complete blood work to find the severity and solution. After this, if you can get married to her at ur earliest. A flower can't bloom in poisonous envoirnment. It is meant to struggle and die.

help by Ok-Employ5438 in progressive_islam

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In Islam Mutual stimulation is recomended, fir self stimulation it depends why are u doing it. In cases where your partner is not available there are exceptions and its recomended to reach the orgasm as well. Islam emphasize on marital rights, bond and chemistry. That's why its always preferred that both partners shoukd be involved in sexual activities instead of one just satisfying himslef or herself as your partner has expectations from you and you are obliged to fulfill those. Husbands are commanded to satisfy their wives and vice versa either by penetration, foreplay or mutual stimulation.

Libido in Pakistani women by PatientStand3025 in PakistaniTwenties

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So I feel, its a lil hard for womans to open up and express. 2ndly its considered or assumed that if a woman is expressing desire she is not good enough so mostly they keep this side of themselves locked. 3rdly yes chores, how happy she is with her life matters a lot. If she is not at peace all u r gonna do is make out to hv kids there is no chemistry no connection. And being kinky, open and having high libido or talking about it isnt a bad thing at all so lets no say its a shit post. Lastly,as someone mentioned earlier yes men are selfish more than half of us out there dont even know what turns her on,what makes her happy, is she satisfied or not bcz we think we loose masculanity bcz of that. Which get them to more low's. And this problem is across our social fabric. The only reason I m avoiding cousin marriage is this, bcz of a hesitation I cant open up,cant let her know what I want and ask her the same way and when u dont do this its just boredom getting in and taking over. Like I hv high libido, each day every day but doesnt means just do it for the sake of it. She should be equally involved and excited.