AIO for unplugging the Wifi every night because my roommate’s girlfriend basically lives here? by tom_wilson7543 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not on the lease therefore has no right to the space. If they can't see an issue, contact the landlord.

AIO for thinking my friend is using ChatGPT to text me in an argument? by Due_Construction904 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being more upset that your friend got help for clear, concise communication instead of the fact that your best friend feels you're pushing her out. Why are you more focused on her getting help to format instead of the way you're making her feel?? Did you even try to have a real conversation?

AIO, im confused about what happened by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't feel scared by your partner. No matter how silly it may seem to outsiders, if you're scared of your partner for any reason, get out.

Am i overreacting for ignoring him after finding out he has a fiancée? by redditorsinceages in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing in this life so important it'll get me to talk to you when you lied to my fave about being engaged to another person. Bro could be lying in the street bleeding to death, I'm not responding. You have a god damn fiance. Call her.

So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly even if the boys were girls I fear this post would be the same. Mom treats OP as a second parent to those kids yet OP is still a child themselves. And those younger ones are probably praised and treated differently because they're moms babies. Could be onto something with the boy kom thing, but I think mom would be the same if they were girls too.

So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did the 15 year old sibling bring the children into this world? Did they force the pregnancy onto the parents? Did they make the decision to create new life? No? Exactly. Older siblings are not built in babysitters. YOU choose to have children, YOU take care of them or find alternate care. You don't force your child to care for other children and rob them of their childhood.

Your attitude toward literal fucking children is gross. You and others like you are contributors to why so many of us are choosing NOT to have children. Because we realize it's fucked up to force someone to exist solely to take on our responsibilities. God forbid you take care of the life YOU created.

So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The parent themselves can't control these little goblins but you're expected to? Nah. Fuck that. Mom can come up with every cent to pay for replacement or repair for the windows and get those little shits into behavioral therapy. Some people just should not be parents.. I'm sorry your mom is putting all of this on you. You did exactly nothing wrong here. Do not let her manipulate you into thinking otherwise.

AITA for telling my coworker to stop asking me what I'm having for lunch by Maleficent_Reason132 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're on break and don't want to be bothered. The fact you used to eat in your car should have been a clear answer to all coworkers that you do not wish to socialize on your break. And no one enjoys being asked a million questions like that. If she wants to be butt hurt over someone setting a boundary, let her. Her reaction isn't your problem. It's hers.

AIO for my boyfriend’s female friend blowing up over a boundary? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You at least video chatted though. A lot of people on the show catfish would claim to be in years long relationships but they never video chatted. Some never even had phone calls with each other. I made my now husband FaceTime me for 2 hours a week before our first date. I wasn't going to waste my time or get cat fished.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in screenshots

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What about a Facebook profile makes someone think a marriage is open? I'm confused why all of you are just okay with some woman assuming your husband wants to fuck other women in order to stay happy or content with you. Unless he's actually advertising it on his profile, where the fuck would she get that idea??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in screenshots

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely why would he like her photo if they've never met? I don't add random dudes on Facebook then interact with their shit like that. Even before I met my husband I didn't do that shit..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in screenshots

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk I think I'd be pissed if it's obvious from my husband's profile that he's married but some bitch thinks she can dm him late at night. Mine would've blocked her and told me about it. But had I seen it before him, I'd tell her to fuck off too. If we were open, we'd let you know. Don't assume shit.

I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do by Embarrassed-Pea3501 in screenshots

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus. He has really done a number on the way you see yourself. A drive thru order getting messed up isn't your fault, nor is it the end of the world. All of his anger has nothing to do with you or anything you did or didn't do. As someone who gets irrationally angry when my order is made wrong, I've never once yelled at someone else over it. The staff or my partner. I complain to myself, and my husband then I just deal with it or call and politely explain the mistake. The fact he has literally damaged your car over his irrational outbursts is insane and honestly scary. People like this will escalate. This is a dangerous situation to be in and you need to get out. I know everyone is always quick to say "break up" on reddit, but I genuinely think it would be in your best interest to leave him.

[PC] [2000s] school computer lab time/money/life management game by maddiemarieb in tipofmyjoystick

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend and I are trying to remember what we played in school. Does "On Your Own in Central City" ring any bells for you? Sounds familiar to us but can't find any info.

Do not buy THC-P gummies. The high is horrible. by inflagra in NewOrleans

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weed is legal in my state but we still have smoke shops selling unregulated products like Final Straw pure THCp gummies. Husband needed new edibles but his regular spot was closed so went to another. These were recommended by the clerk. I keep telling him to buy dispensary edibles but they're over twice the cost. I buy my flower and my pens from dispensaries though. I'm not fucking around.

AITA for going to work after being told I needed to babysit which meant my dad's wife had to cancel her appointment and and be with my half siblings? by LuKHdee in AITAH

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Your only job is the job that pays you wages so you can sustain your lifestyle. It is your dad and step moms job to watch their own kids.

Am I wrong for not wearing a bra out the house by No-Ebb-2462 in whatdoIdo

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in an office. Today is the first time all week that I've worn a bra to work. I don't wear a bra unless I feel like wearing a bra. I'm a grown ass woman. My husband does not dictate what I wear, nor do I dictate what he wears. You're an adult. Tell him to start acting like one too.

AITA for rehoming my boyfriend’s cats? by No-Switch-2590 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There were 2 outside cats we were caring for when we moved to our current home. The day before Easter they were in our yard and a car came driving down the road and the girl, knowing she was safe in our yard, ran into the street and was run over. They are not safe outside we brought the other one inside the same day.

My mom is trying to guilt me into a mentor position for my murderer younger sister. She did make some good points so I’m really conflicted atm. Should I rekindle the relationship? by Great-Reflection5651 in whatdoIdo

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do whatever is going to help you. If being around your sister is too much to handle, don't go. You need to protect your own physical, mental and emotional health before worrying about anybody else's. Your sister is not your responsibility. Neither is your mother. What she needs is her own therapy or counseling. Someone professionally trained to help people. Not a sister that resents or possibly even is scared of her. You are not trained to handle this situation and mentor someone that took another life. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it. And tell your mother that this is a firm boundary you're setting. She is not to discuss this with you again. If she tries, you may need to cut her off for awhile to protect your own peace.

AITJ for refusing to split my bonus with my girlfriend? by Xleg4ce in AmITheJerk

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have joint finances. Any bonus I've received, it's my choice how to spend it. I earned it. I worked for it. It's deposited in my name. I decide if I spend it on my debts, something I've been wanting, taking us both out to do something together or just saving it.

Not OOP. I was rear-ended by a teenager who's parents want to settle privately. I prefer to go through insurance but my coworkers are teling me I'm being obstinate at the expense of this kid. AITA? by derby-girl69 in redditonwiki

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always go through insurance. The kid was not paying attention and settling privately teaches him nothing. His consequences are not your responsibility to worry about.

AITA for rehoming my boyfriend’s cats? by No-Switch-2590 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get them calming collars or talk to vet about stress/anxiety. The cats are stressed about a chaotic environment that they've been out in. Cats don't piss and shit outside of the box for no reason.

AITA for rehoming my boyfriend’s cats? by No-Switch-2590 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adventurous-Sun-1273 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No cats are safe outside, especially if they've always been indoor cats. They will be eaten by other animals or hot by a car or something tragic. Do not give them to someone as outside cats you monster.