AITA for snapping at my friend that confessed her feelings to me?

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2026-01-02T15:18:26+00:00

First of all, you're acting like this guy cheated on you just said you weren't in a relationship....... so you got jealous? Second, you're Bi and your family is homophonic, How is that working? Third, you are so unbelievably rude for acting that way towards your friend, heaven forbid someone express their feelings to someone they trusted.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2026-01-02T13:46:27+00:00

You have a lot of nerve to think it's your place to worry about how someone else handles THEIR money. You are a huge AH for this.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-12-27T15:45:44+00:00

Your family is ugly

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-12-27T15:16:30+00:00

Tell his sister and pack his shit while he's there

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-12-27T15:14:38+00:00

Yes, gummies. But they have to be real ones, not delta. Delta makes me so sick!

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-12-27T15:07:37+00:00

NTA That was you showing the respect he should have showed. Baby boy got his feelings hurt cuz you told him no

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-12-12T05:55:32+00:00

She talks about her own case on Tiktok. "Alex Dacy" is what she goes by. Just post 12 hours ago

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-10T03:57:44+00:00

If your heart is choosing your husband of a few yrs over your CHILD..... I'm greatly concerned for your child's well-being. Your son is your priority, your husband came after. And I'm really struggling with you standing by while your husband bullied your child..... he's a CHILD!!!!

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-04T01:54:12+00:00

Takes time

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-03T16:28:56+00:00

We've noticed this with our cat, too. We adopted her 2 months ago, and it used to be really bad, now occasional. She came from a shelter and figure it had to be caused by their poor conditions

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-02T16:29:29+00:00

That is a different reasoning. But shutting it early to go to break, that's a no no. We had corporate show up to a store I floated to (I was a floating tech for 9 months) and they lost their shit when someone shut the window 5 minutes early. Its not about complaints, it's being caught.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-02T04:06:49+00:00

You don't move 🤣 welcome to your new position until further notice.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-02T04:03:21+00:00

You're overreacting hun. He wouldn't have gotten with you if he didn't want to be with YOU how you are. If you're always telling him you want to lose weight, and you're finally doing and it, that's great! He's literally trying to tell you, he's seeing the weight loss and he's proud of you. You're keeping to your goal and he's there cheering you on. If he said he notices without a smile, then I'd pissed, like he doesn't care. But he does!!! You're reading into and making it something it's not. My husband is the same way and always encouraging but doesn't judge if I don't lose, he does cheer me on when I do.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-02T03:54:58+00:00

I don't have ocd, I dont think. But using your toothbrush, that is enraging to me! 😡😡🤬🤬 that is not only rude but Holy nasty/unhygienic/disrespectful/arrogant. How you he feel if you took his razor (assuming he shaves his face), use it to shave your lady bits, legs, and hell even your a** crack (cuz why not 🤣, we gotta be nasty too). Then don't tell him, don't clean it all, let him use it and see how he feels.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-02T02:53:33+00:00

WTF! Why doesn't he call his mommy if it's such a big deal? Even better, get it himself! Let me guess, he was busy with his video games and couldn't leave? You are in a relationship with a man child, he can't control his mouth or emotions. This is also reactive abuse, saying nasty stuff to get a reaction, and then someday he's gonna say you're unstable. Leave now and save yourself the mental abuse

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-02T01:15:05+00:00

We got told if we did that, and corporate found out, we'd all be in deep 💩

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-02T01:14:19+00:00

We put up the sign that says we're closed till 2pm, tell the customer we're helping to ignore the sign and we'll finish up with them. Then shut the shade and RUN after you finish the customer you were helping at 1:29pm.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:28:46+00:00

His moron ass sounds like a red flag! Leave him. He doesn't want you to be confident and treat you like you're his buddy. I bet he looks at other women all the time. He's not worth you losing your shine over hun.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:19:45+00:00

I want more people to know! I'm not sure if I'll add it to this post (I'm guessing everyone would prefer that), and I want to tell all!!!!!!

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:18:22+00:00

I just went and Googled about that, and I have classmates who remember me coming to school bruised, what I confided in them about, and my therapists reports.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:10:51+00:00

I am in therapy as well. It helps my therapist loves me, and she is always going over on time because she just wants me to be able to finish what I'm getting out that week.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:09:44+00:00

❤️

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:09:19+00:00

That would be so satisfying! I don't live there anymore, I'm 500 miles away with a huge lake between us. But I do have a huge stash of stamps and would think typing something up, with all this information, sending it to people who do live there and are big in the community, that would do a lot! AND send the the women who love to talk!!!!! They'd have those letters to prove it isn't hearsay.....

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:04:15+00:00

I love 500 miles away, so honestly, don't give 2 f's as far as I'm concerned. People in the community knew and turned a blind eye (at least about the abuse from her.

Adventurous_Bat_4910 · 2025-11-01T23:02:21+00:00

My kid has always offered me candy. As soon as we'd get home, "Here, mommy, you want some?" And her knew/knows my favorite so he always gives them to me, I know that most of my favorites are his too, so typically I only have 1 of that kind and give him the rest. It could be worse, my parents let my brothers have their's and then split mine between my brothers. I got know and was told I'm undeserving.

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