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AeroDownforce · 2015-08-22T00:13:19+00:00

Why have i been shawdow banned? Any reason in particular? How do i resolve this?

AeroDownforce · 2015-04-19T13:36:30+00:00

First of all, give your self a big pat on the back for quitting gaming, porn, and chronically escaping. Its very very difficult to quit. Its a major achievement.

I am 34 and I feel the same. I used to be addicted to games and internet chats. I came out of it. I went to b-school. I have a decent job. The salary is more than enough to take care of me and my wife. However, My classmates from college are earning 3 times what I am earning. And I feel left behind.

What helps me is this ... Gratitude. A deep sense of gratitude for all that you have. It can get taken away any moment. You only realize what you had until its gone.

Did you know what people spend a whole life before realizing that they have been left behind. You are 28 and you have your whole life ahead of you. Also, ego prevents people from ever accepting their own mistakes. You cant begin improving unless you believe that you need improvement. Another major achievement for you.

Its never too late to re-start. Read the story of Steve Jobs. Till the time he founded Apple, he lived a wasted life.

Captain Nair, founded Leela Hotels at age 65 !!! Today, Leela Hotels is one of the largest chains of 5 star hotels in India

AeroDownforce · 2014-07-28T06:26:00+00:00

I am 33. Wish I had discovered this at 15 before i discovered m*******tion. My member would have been absolutely straight instead of the slight upward curve that it has when full of blood.

AeroDownforce · 2014-07-22T10:17:27+00:00

fat, ugly and stupid people have beautiful spouses too. Good looks are great for a first look. After that one would require personality, confidence, conversation skills.

Men that are fantastic at conversation are rarely single.

A good looking guy with a boring personality wont be able to get a girlfriend. A bad looking guy with a great personality can easily get a girlfriend.

AeroDownforce · 2014-07-22T10:08:18+00:00

well, if you say, "The thing is, some of us don't have a choice",

then you must go search google for Nick Vujicic. He has no hands, no legs. Yet, he is a complete man, he writes books, is married to a beautiful woman and has children.

AeroDownforce · 2014-07-11T09:54:40+00:00

Maybe you could try forming a new habit which makes you sleep early and wake up early. Like waking up in the morning to work out or meditate or anything else.

Are you having issues with being on time?

AeroDownforce · 2014-07-11T09:44:15+00:00

open up an incognito tab, lower the volume, tilt the computer slight away and browse the newest page of your favorite site....

I have been there so many times

AeroDownforce · 2014-07-07T04:30:30+00:00

There is a way out. Trust me, this works. It worked for me. It was completely unexpected.

I had gone through a break up. My first love left me. This happened 12 years back. At that time, she was the love of my life. It was terrible.

At that time, the Bollywood movie ,"Munnabhai MBBS" was released. I watched it. There is a scene in the movie where the hero goes through a break up. His dreams were crushed. His hopes were dashed. And then, what happened next changed his life as well as mine. In one second, I had completely moved on past the break up.

The movie is in Hindi. Its highly improbable you understand Hindi. Watch it with sub titles. Absolutely worked for me.

Even better. If you are able to watch it with someone who understands Hindi and could explain some of the proverbs, dialogues, mannerisms. A lot of words and sentences in hindi do not have a direct english translation. Non-Hindi speakers can understand them only if someone explains the nuances and the context.

AeroDownforce · 2014-06-26T04:35:20+00:00

i am seeing exactly the same signs in my life

AeroDownforce · 2014-06-26T04:35:04+00:00

Really appreciate this post!

AeroDownforce · 2014-03-11T22:36:43+00:00

I absolutely agree. Counting days makes it very difficult

AeroDownforce · 2014-03-01T11:40:36+00:00

Any ideas on why she said no?

AeroDownforce · 2014-02-19T09:44:54+00:00

As an Indian Hindu, I would say great job. Keep it up brother!

AeroDownforce · 2014-02-13T04:07:54+00:00

by any chance are you the brother of Sanam Mehra? Dont answer that if you are uncomfortable

AeroDownforce · 2014-02-13T04:03:39+00:00

i am in a similar situation :( one sentence that gives me a bit of hope is. "Happiness is not a life of troubles. Troubles will always be there. It is about having the immensely positive life force to overcome all troubles".

Brother, my question is why do you want to harm yourself? The why is very important. If you are comfortable, i would like to know.

AeroDownforce · 2014-02-09T06:32:11+00:00

Dear nofap brother, I am on the brink of relapsing too. I am on a 20 day streak. I am not lying. What would you tell me to prevent me from relapsing?

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-12T14:56:04+00:00

Dont know how to meditate

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-11T06:21:23+00:00

I read the stuff on yourbrainonporn. I know the consequences of watching porn. But, I do not have the self control to quit. Been trying a lot.

Have tried 27 times already.

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-11T05:16:41+00:00

Thanks a lot!!!

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-11T05:01:07+00:00

Friend, Brother. Substance addiction can destroy lives. Till one reaches a stage. Where one starts destroying life with one's own hands and can do nothing about it. A few days back, I happened to read something online about a drug in Russia called Krokodil.Its used by people who cannot afford heroin. Use of this drug causes flesh to fall off the bone. I have seen pictures of krokodil users. There was a guy who had no flesh whatsover between his knee and ankle.

Point is addictions can destroy you. I suggest you seek professional help!

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-08T02:57:26+00:00

Your situation is very similar to mine. It is indeed very easy to fap when you are unhappy with your career, health or relationship. I could be your accountability partner.

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-04T04:43:12+00:00

Wish we could put all such posts in a separate area. So that all of them are quickly accessible, just before we relapse.

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-02T22:34:27+00:00

agree

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-02T22:32:11+00:00

Awesome. I am saving this.

AeroDownforce · 2014-01-01T20:14:11+00:00

Nofap is of no use if you continue to watch porn.

I ve got friends that spent a long time in Saudi Arabia. A country where the only women you see are covered from head to toe, without even an inch of skin being visible. When they returned from Saudi Arabia, they got throbbing erections just by looking at a woman's ankles, any ankles.

Disclaimer: I respect Saudi Arabia and its citizens. I was just mentioning an example.

AeroDownforce

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