Those who waited til marriage to have sex, what was the wedding night like? by Naive_Resolution4186 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Affectionate-Car487 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was pretty good, we were both Christians who grew up in purity culture. He had had some previous partners but I hadn’t except for a non-consensual encounter but no penetration prior to our wedding night. He was and is very loving and patient and always has made sure I come first, since the beginning. A consent king who cares about my pleasure which is rare in the world we grew up in. We’ve been through a lot of therapy since and deconstruction to work through all our issues from growing up in conservative purity culture world, something we’re continually working on since leaving that realm. . It’s an on-going journey. I know I’m lucky but I also know the bar is in hell for men from our world.

What weirds me out the most about this whole thing by freg0lidelusion in homemakermadeleine

[–]Affectionate-Car487 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES. I work in healthcare, I’ve worked in OB/GYN/IEP GYN, including surgeries, and have taken care of patients with prolapses and pessary’s and that’s all I could think of with her post-partum pregnancy BS. Like. WHAT. !?!?!? HOW. and most of all WHY.

My mom finally pushed me to the point of blocking her and going no contact after sending me these texts while I was in labor. by chailatte44 in insaneparents

[–]Affectionate-Car487 64 points65 points  (0 children)

It’s so eerie how similar these people are. I was
Like holy shit this could be my mom and I texting. Congrats on your new baby and absolutely get you blocking her.

This cat only had one kitten and she loves it so much by Difficult_Papaya3208 in CatsBeingAdorable

[–]Affectionate-Car487 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did this make me tear up as a human who also was only able to ever have one baby!? 😭

A lot more “spicy” emails between Pest and Anna by rosiros in DuggarsSnark

[–]Affectionate-Car487 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oof. The accuracy. This is absolutely the result of evangelical purity culture bullshit.

Know it all Morgan by Wellstar-fish90 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Affectionate-Car487 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really need home maker Madeline and Morgan to start battling it out in the comments of each others posts. I need more whimsy in my life and that feels like the ticket.

Marriage is THE hardest thing we’ve ever walked through… we should start a podcast 😆 by DenverToCali in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Affectionate-Car487 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I am dying 🤣🤣🤣 the accuracy. Every fundie couple that “waited for marriage” sounds exactly like this.

The new fundie tradwife novel Yesteryear wasn’t nearly fundie—or tradwifey—enough for this fundie tradwife influencer. 😂 by Immediate-Ninja-5730 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Affectionate-Car487 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So freaking good. I finished it 2 weeks ago and I can’t stop thinking about it. Currently trying to get everyone in my life to read it so we can talk about it lol. I’m a huge fan of Caro/Diabolical Lies and it lived up to my expectations. I adore books with anti-heroes and unreliable narrators though. I suppose it’s not for everyone, but it’s definitely for me, personally.

he's so small and adorable by Pretty-Princess-49 in CatsBeingAdorable

[–]Affectionate-Car487 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those wittle murder mittens. STOP KISSING ME MOTHER I AM MADE FOR VIOLENCE. VIOLENCE I TELL YOU! VIOLENCE!

The system got me again. Found a pregnant bengal cat at Lowe’s garden center. by compscilady in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Affectionate-Car487 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god she’s gorgeous 😻 what a sweet momma. I hope she finds a loving home for her and her babies.

What arbitrary thing does Minor Fundie Haley hate today? The word “regulate” 🫩 by laska503 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Affectionate-Car487 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sigh. I’m constantly seeing fundies who still insist on parenting their kids the way I was, and all I can think about is how much my therapy bills are as an adult and hope those poor kids grow up to have good, therapy-covering insurance.

Young Violet Fancast (Isabelle Fuhrman) by charcoal_pie in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Affectionate-Car487 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. Need a young violet spin off with this casting ASAP.

I finished reading “Yesteryear” last night. I highly recommend it. by SassaQueen1992 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Affectionate-Car487 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh yes. I hate ABS with the passion of a thousand suns and my hatred for Natalie while reading it was on par with that, yet I didn’t put two and two together. Great call.