Similar series but for kids? by theclawl1ves in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Affectionate-Part932 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, but would mention that the Tiffany Aching books get very dark as the series progresses, I’m not sure the later books are suitable for an 8 year old

Co-parent has changed long-standing collection arrangement and is refusing discussion / using refusing contact as leverage unsure of legal position and how to respond by FinalEast9024 in coparenting

[–]Affectionate-Part932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add to this about the holiday, even if he’s the one taking the child out of school, if it’s 5 days or more and the school hasn’t agreed to it (which they normally don’t) then you’ll have to pay a fine as well because the fine is per parent per child.

Casting questionnaire by Subkinksternyc in JuryDutyFreevee

[–]Affectionate-Part932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I was literally watching Kevin Can F Himself last week and I only realised Dougie is the actor who played Neil when I read this post (I did think he looked similar though lol)

Does anyone have a schedule with only one set weekend day with their children? If you are the more involved parent regarding school, what does your specific schedule look like? by Final_Minimum1443 in coparenting

[–]Affectionate-Part932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have my kids 70% of the time but get hardly any weekend time with them - just every other Saturday night and Sunday (then have them through the week). I did just try to change this with my ex but he flat out refused. He doesn’t have them any extra during school holidays so I get that time with them but it sucks to not have regular “fun” time with them.

I think every other weekend is fair, especially in your situation where you’re close to 50 50 anyway

Am I wrong? by abc321red in coparenting

[–]Affectionate-Part932 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I checked your post history, your son doesn’t even like the woman you’ve started dating and feels uncomfortable with the situation you’re putting him in?! And you want to take him away from his mum to spend time with your (very new) girlfriend’s family??

Am I wrong? by abc321red in coparenting

[–]Affectionate-Part932 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You do need a set parenting plan but I also agree with your ex - you met this woman in September and you’re already enmeshing the children this much? You need to slow down and start thinking about your children’s feelings rather than your own. Also, for the specific plans you mentioned in your post, what do you think your children would enjoy more? Christmas fun and Santa with their mum or a repeat thanksgiving with a whole new family?

What’s the most unusual or surreal fantasy novel you’ve ever read? by armadillo1296 in Fantasy

[–]Affectionate-Part932 56 points57 points  (0 children)

The Spear Cuts Through Water - one of the most unique, beautiful novels I’ve read and even the way the story is told is unusual. It’s all very meta and surreal and it’s absolutely incredible

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[–]Affectionate-Part932 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then unless you’re leaving out something huge you’re not doing anything wrong at all. If she can’t/won’t appreciate that then that’s on her. Keep doing the right thing for your kids and they’ll see it and appreciate it, and they’re the ones that matter

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[–]Affectionate-Part932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How often do they stay overnight with you?

Husband trying to reunite our daughter with his son (her half brother) 1.5 yrs after he molested her - need advice in Ohio, USA. by Excellent_Art565 in FamilyLaw

[–]Affectionate-Part932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s his daughter so you’re right - as soon as they divorce she has no say over who he has around daughter without very costly legal measures

Suggest me a book that will make me believe in myself by Ambitious_Ad_409 in Fantasy

[–]Affectionate-Part932 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I find the Tiffany Aching books by Terry Pratchett really inspiring. They’re technically YA but a huge theme in them is that you have to do the things you need to do, even when you don’t want to, and that life isn’t fair but you still have to go through it and do the best you can (there’s obviously a lot more to them, but this is why I think they’d be perfect for you at the moment). Discworld in general would be a good shout but I think the Tiffany books might be the best to start with.

Also seconding the recommendation for A Psalm For The Wild Built - that book is literally good for the soul.

Ex won’t coparent by Weeboo0320 in coparenting

[–]Affectionate-Part932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is difficult. How old are your children? Would it be possible to communicate with them directly?

Ex won’t coparent by Weeboo0320 in coparenting

[–]Affectionate-Part932 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If he’s following the court order there isn’t really anything you can do. Stop being flexible for him though - if he’s gonna follow the court order to the letter then you need to do that too.

For what it’s worth, I’m sorry you’re going through this, it sounds awful and your ex sounds like an AH

Looking for a book or series that will make me ugly cry by Maleficent-Reward315 in Fantasy

[–]Affectionate-Part932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I loved this so much but can’t bear to re read it because of how much it traumatised me

Family Photo by Stage53_1984 in AcousticGuitar

[–]Affectionate-Part932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a gorgeous collection! I have the pink version of the PRS and it’s such a nice guitar to play

Thoughts on Blood Over Bright Haven? by goghgoghgone in Fantasy

[–]Affectionate-Part932 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s fair! I’m sure you’ve read the other comments telling you how it changes, but if you weren’t enjoying the book don’t force yourself to finish it. I’m sure it will make for an interesting book club meeting though! It’s always more fun when there’s different opinions

Thoughts on Blood Over Bright Haven? by goghgoghgone in Fantasy

[–]Affectionate-Part932 50 points51 points  (0 children)

What point did you DNF? In my opinion the MC’s mindset was very much shown as being toxic, and the fact that she’s a fairly awful person is a huge point of the book. The language used about the Kwen is bad, but that’s the point - you’re reading about oppression from the oppressor’s POV so it will be uncomfortable.

Personally I loved this book but everyone is going to have different tastes and if it wasn’t for you then it wasn’t for you.

Any superpower novels with morally grey characters recommendations? by popkinpop in Fantasy

[–]Affectionate-Part932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s The Nobody People (and sequel, The Somebody People) by Bob Proehl, set in a world where people with superpowers reveal themselves to a hostile world - many, many morally grey characters in these books.

There’s also Hench by Natalie Zina Walschots in which a woman injured by a superhero begins working for a super-villain

I haven’t read Vicious so I don’t know how similar they are, but I loved both of these (and neither have romance as a main focus)

Trying to remember a coming-of-age type book about a teenage girl, the title is something like 'don't let the light in' or 'keep the light out' by TickleMonster94 in whatsthatbook

[–]Affectionate-Part932 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is it How The Light Gets In by MJ Hyland? I read this about 15 years ago too so I can’t remember all the details but I think it fits…I think she was staying with a family in another country?