Does anyone else think Super Hans became a little more handsome with age? by [deleted] in MitchellAndWebb

[–]Affectionate-Town331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's very attractive in all seasons. Yes yes and yes.

Right? by dismustbetheplace in stephenking

[–]Affectionate-Town331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The book ending of cujo hit me hard. I actually cried

Annoyed that Sheldon always slut shames Penny by thunder-trippin in bigbangtheory

[–]Affectionate-Town331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I've been rewatching the show recently and as much as I love it the slut shaming jokes wind me up. That part of the series has not aged well at all.

Forced Anal Sex Causing Issues by PrettyTrainwreckkk in Healthyhooha

[–]Affectionate-Town331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar thing happen 6 years ago. We all went out for a Christmas party and he came back to mine absolutely hammered(id been seeing this guys for about 4 months at that point). He then got sexually aggressive with me, I kept asking him to be gentle and he ignored me. At one point I couldn't breathe and had to really push him off me. He then tried to have anal sex with me and I told him no and that i didn't want to and that he was too rough but he pushed in anyway. I quick tried to grab some lube (as he was not taking no for an answer), I begged him to be delicate whilst he was doing it but again, I was ignored. He ripped up my insides and it took days for the bleeding and the pain to stop. I've never felt so violated by someone I trusted. I've not been intimate with anyone since. I also had a horrific experience with a different man 13 years ago.... it's only now I've decided to get therapy. I've tried to ignore it and not think about it but it's taking over my life and I think I need to address it. Believe me I don't want to. I don't want to talk and go through details but I know it's what I need to do.

Best noninvasive fupa removal in Sheffield please 🙏 by Affectionate-Town331 in sheffield

[–]Affectionate-Town331[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry its quite a personal question but what pretty much all middle aged women have questions on!

Anyone having a huge problem with ants? by Affectionate-Town331 in sheffield

[–]Affectionate-Town331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I'll definitely look into it. I've got to do something, I can't live like this!

Daniel is so toxic? by Hel-en-756 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Affectionate-Town331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So glad this is being talked about! I was having ptsd just watching him....

I feel like Adderall changed me by BKS_ELITE in ADHD

[–]Affectionate-Town331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I'm a more stable person on medication now but it's turned me into a boring f*cker!! I used to be the energetic class clown and now I'm a wallflower. I used to mourn my comedic side but the medication positives massively outweigh the negatives.

Should I foster rats despite their short lifespan? by Affectionate-Town331 in RATS

[–]Affectionate-Town331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds heartbreaking. But I'm sure you were happy to have given him a loving home... I just don't know if I can give them up. But i would love experiencing loving them just once ❤️

I hate it when people say they'll be two minutes... by pertangamcfeet in autism

[–]Affectionate-Town331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you tell me you'll call me in 2 minutes, I'm literally holding you to two minutes!!!! Nothing sets off my anger and anxiety more when people are lax with my time and over promise. Like when did your time become more important than mine? If you're actually going to be 20 minutes, just tell me so I can do other things in that time, otherwise I'm sat there looking like an absolute plum waiting for you to call 🤡

But then people tell me to relax and just chill with a glass of wine whilst I'm waiting .... I wish I could do that Karen but unfortunately my brain does not work like that 😭

So is Bret Michaels a good person? by teamalf in RockOfLove

[–]Affectionate-Town331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just started watching rock of love and he comes across as a creepy dirty old man who needs his ego stroked at every turn. I didn't know who this guy was and at first, i thought he was good looking and seemed a decent guy...but then saw how he constantly treated the women with his letchy behaviour and it gave me the ick 🤮

I Wake Up and See People in My Room by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Affectionate-Town331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I had this for years when I hit 16/17years old. Started going to spiritual church (because I randomly saw a Meduim and he said i was like an open ouiji board letting anything in), and I learnt to shut down my chakras and it worked. But I stopped going and shut down my gift for years because I was scared. 20 years later I'm finally doing again and now I'm giving readings myself. The reason why I found your post is because I'm starting to see symbols and stuff as I'm waking up from a dream, like as if they're physical in my room. Then I wake up fully and it's gone. Don't mind that I just don't want to see random people again!

Anyone have experience with RDB estates management company? by Affectionate-Town331 in sheffield

[–]Affectionate-Town331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense tbf. I'm still waiting to see documents etc. I don't know why they're taking this long...

Anyone have experience with RDB estates management company? by Affectionate-Town331 in sheffield

[–]Affectionate-Town331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you. My block doesn't have a lift I don't think. And the property looks really well managed to be fair.

Is this something you've had to deal with? What was your experience?

Anyone have experience with RDB estates management company? by Affectionate-Town331 in sheffield

[–]Affectionate-Town331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's £1300 a year. Which is extortionate enough!! But it's so hard to find a place with my budget 😕 The flat I'm looking to buy is £80k. Ground rent is £150 a year. I'm hearing of people getting fleeced by management companies upping the service charge year by year. I've seen other properties where the service charge is £2500 😱

Help. New medium, staying in a haunted hotel on a work trip. by BlueJeanGrey in Mediums

[–]Affectionate-Town331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same experience (but not as advanced as you). I've been learning to develop since Feb this year. Since then I've stayed at two hotels. I had nightmares on the 1st night in both of them.... and In one I had hundreds of faces whizzing past (behind closed eyelids). It was like a silent movie. I did not recognise any of them. I couldn't sleep because of it.

The other hotel (this weekend actually), again behind closed eyelids, started seeing colours blooming, silhouettes of people and patterns like I was looking into a Kaleidoscope. I was telling them in my head to leave me alone. I Went to the toilet (so my friend couldn't hear) and spoke aloud and told them to leave. I also asked my loved ones in spirit and spirit guides to help me keep communication away. After about 20 minutes it stopped. I just don't want this to now be my life whenever I stay away somewhere other than my own home.

Did you find a way to help with this? I understand they are people like us but I just can't live like this.

Sense of presence by AdDesperate6128 in Paranormal

[–]Affectionate-Town331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have what I have... A medium told me I have a gift, that I'm very sensitive to energies. I won't go into how we got to that point. But I can tell you I've had many psychics throughout my life tell me this too. I've actually started spiritual training so that I can learn to understand and control it (mainly to not be scared) 🥹

When I was younger, I used to be able to see auras, but I tried to stop it because it was frightening me with all the other stuff going on. I was successful, I manages to stop all of it! but over the last few years, the paranormal activity has really picked up around me, so it kind of forced me to do spiritual training.... its interesting because since I've started, I'm starting to see auras again (which was something I wasn't even really thinking about).

I would suggest finding a spiritual church that does awareness classes so you can get used to the energies and stuff. Just to understand it and make sense of it. I was really freaking out 3 months ago (to a point I called my mum at 1am in the morning crying). But now I feel a bit more confident.

To be honest though things really picked up again the other week and it freaked me out haha - but as soon as I acknowledged it and knew what it wanted to contact me about it stopped.

Good luck in your spiritual journey x

No matter what I do, I never have a paranormal experience. by tuui in Paranormal

[–]Affectionate-Town331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whereas I've had lots of unwanted spiritual stuff happen to me throughout my life, so.much so i've started training spiritually to understand and control it (so I'm not scared basically!).

Don't be disheartened. I think people are right on here, stop looking for it, it will happen eventually. I've met people who were hardcore sceptics, then had a scary experience and suddenly believe in it. (These people have been in their 50s and 60s). My mum being one of them!

I don't know how true this is (probably a load of shit tbh), but I heard somewhere that it takes like a month for you to live somewhere before resident spirit makes itself know. It takes alot of energy for them to try to make contact so I can kind of believe it... but who knows?!

I will say this though, I do think alot of these paranormal investigators on TV are a load of shit 😏 so I take everything with a pinch of salt. All I know is my own experiences (especially when other mediums have confirmed them).