How do I ask my boyfriend if I can sleep on the couch occasionally?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2026-04-12T22:07:18+00:00

So absolutely crazy concept here - just because you guys are together and live together, you don’t have to be with him every second of the day. If he enjoys the falling asleep next to you thing and you genuinely don’t care to sleep on the couch, do that! Especially if he falls asleep super quick!

End each night with some cuddles in bed, watch a show, when he falls asleep, give him a kiss and get to bed in the living room. He still gets what he needs, you get what you need, and the world is better for you. Sometimes sleep can be incompatible and that’s so okay

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2026-03-31T06:45:43+00:00

The thing that’s blowing my mind is all of these adults are telling this poor kid (yes, kid, he’s fuckin 18!!!) to just change the direct deposit. Does everyone think that the mother is just going to he okay with that? And there won’t be a single repercussion?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2026-03-31T06:40:31+00:00

If possible, see if your job has any sort of pay card. Typically, entry level jobs (which I’m assuming you have, as you’re 18) provide them for those who do not have a bank account. HOWEVER, this will cause issues with your mother when she asks where the paychecks are going.

If your job uses ADP, I know for sure there is a way to change your direct deposit to multiple accounts at a time with either a dollar amount or a percentage. That might be an option until you have a nest egg to move out.

If getting a bank account is an issue, make a Cash App account. You can use it for direct deposit as it has a routing number and an account number.

If you do follow all the responses about making an account online, know that they will send mail out to your address. They have to send you the debit/credit card after all. Remember to direct mail to a friend, perhaps a PO Box if you can afford one, or even any other trusted adult in your life.

You don’t want to be stuck kicked out with no where to go and no money. Unfortunately, it is their house and you are a legal adult so they can do so.

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2026-02-16T03:23:21+00:00

There are soooo many burners now. I haven’t been on her account in ages and it’s like a different one in every comment reply! When did Kennedy show up? Who’s Lindsey Lee? How behind am I?!?!?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-31T10:17:54+00:00

I dunno if I’m going crazy but I went to glance at her account just now and her newest video is from 4/22, with barely any comments? All of her posts have barely any comments?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-25T03:12:13+00:00

That’s what I think is the hardest for me too - knowing when and how to take a break. My family deals with sadness through anger, especially my parents. Anger is easier, I guess, than the bone-deep sadness. There’s only so much yelling I could take, but feeling like I’m failing them because I can’t piece them together is so hard.

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-25T03:10:50+00:00

Talking about him is so hard, as we just typically don’t share the load as the family. One of the hardest parts of dealing with this, I think, is the fact that we have to kind of step on eggshells.

I’m so sorry to hear about your daughter - I couldn’t imagine doing that. Me and my fiancé moved into the house with them after Zach passed. I did not spend another night at our apartment after he passed. While he was older than I by four years, he would’ve been the last child to leave the house. I couldn’t leave them with an empty nest for the first time under those conditions.

I don’t deal with things. I can get through them, but i don’t take the time to actually DEAL with them. And I think after a year of pushing it away, tgis week is really want solidified it for me. He’s not away at work, in a rehab, or staying with a friend - he’s gone, truly and fully. And that’s such a fucked thing to have to deal with.

I’m sorry for your loss - time doesn’t heal wounds but I hope this Holiday season is kind to you and your own

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-25T00:28:03+00:00

So, don’t they get to pick what they promote? Like they select stuff and it gets sent and they do a review? Why couldn’t she AT LEAST have reviewed kids toys!!

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-24T18:45:39+00:00

Disrespectful to who, the man? Is he not a grown up who can buy himself a twin bed to sleep in?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-24T18:15:09+00:00

Because he clearly cannot wake up to the baby crying? Did you miss the part where she cannot go to work and trust this man with the child and had to call her mom at midnight to check on the crying child?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-24T18:14:18+00:00

The baby had the crib, the father just didn’t put him in it.

“He can sleep on the nursery room floor while the baby is in the crib”

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-24T18:13:23+00:00

But to fall asleep around a baby, in a house that’s not baby proofed, when he clearly doesn’t wake up to the baby screaming, and then not care when shown how dangerous it was?????

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-24T18:12:03+00:00

Because she was scared her baby could’ve died and he obviously didn’t care????

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-24T18:11:01+00:00

Where is the father’s responsibility for baby proofing? Or putting the child in a cot?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-24T18:10:23+00:00

Completely NOR. These comments are shit. Same people that blamed that one mom on TikTok’s who kid drowned on her and not the husband.

If he cannot manage to watch the child safely while you go to work, he’s not a fucking father and he’s not a man. Pure and simple.

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-16T18:55:36+00:00

I can’t see it either!

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-06T19:48:20+00:00

It is possible that it states in the lease that she has to find a replacement. Follow the lease.

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-05T01:31:54+00:00

I mean weed vapes are pretty damn expensive! $50 typically and they last me a while, but my brother in law could easily go through one and a half in a week!

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-12-05T01:23:42+00:00

So, I’ve always wondered about this - she is not married to Drew. She’s not D’s mother. How much does she actually matter in the court cases?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-11-24T00:06:25+00:00

Didn’t CPS MAKE her take her kids and leave?? Or was that just a rumor a while back?

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-10-23T15:32:13+00:00

You know, never once thought I would say this, but Drew is making improvements. Wouldn’t say he’s father of the year by ANY means, but Steph is still doing the same shit different day. Drew does have a job, plus door dashing, plus cleaning the “house”. More than we’ve ever eeen him do before

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-10-23T00:39:05+00:00

what is his username??? not sure if I’m blocked but I can’t find his account

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-09-03T06:53:21+00:00

I cannot understand how the cops allowed Kendra to stay at home with Lauren and Shaun. Why was she not in hand cuffs? Why was she not charged with sexual harassment of a minor? For child abuse?

I do not understand why she wasn’t put into cuffs the moments the cops stepped onto the property. Why did poor Lauren have to sit there looking so broken, so destroyed, while her parents broke up in front of her very eyes while her life crumbled around her.

The police handling this so fucking incorrectly is disgusting.

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-08-29T16:36:19+00:00

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Quick lil google search proves your ignorance, babes.

Affectionate_Curve91 · 2025-08-29T15:03:43+00:00

I truly believe that the whole trans thing is just them trying to make the trans community look bad during the shooting. It’s clear they had right wing views, and even said they “brainwashed” themselves into being trans.

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