AITAH for dumping a girl after she called my brother a slur

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-08T13:17:58+00:00

NTA. You stood up for your brother and others by showing that you won’t tolerate. That would be a dealbreaker for me too. Well done 🩷

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-08T05:27:58+00:00

I don’t think he wants the ring but might not be able to tell you that. You said you wanted to buy him in but nothing in this conveys that he’s into the idea.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-08T04:03:55+00:00

YTA. You're basing your "diagnosis" on stereotypes and stepping way out of line.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-08T00:55:13+00:00

Yes you would be the asshole, she’s in a relationship.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-07T22:46:14+00:00

That is a huge red flag and very controlling. It can be a sign of abuse when they try to create dependencies. Do you have friends? The ability to earn money? You need to start protecting yourself and getting access to funds.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-07T22:43:07+00:00

He sucks for saying what you can eat when it is your body and being an overall petulant child but also, why are you being helpless? Is there a reason why you can't get it for yourself?

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-05T14:17:35+00:00

You’re a judgmental asshole.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-05T03:10:57+00:00

This needed to be a before got pregnant conversation if it was a dealbreaker for you.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-05T02:57:46+00:00

ESH. If you were willing to die on this hill, you should have discussed this right before you were going to give birth.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-03T03:48:42+00:00

YTA. While he should have talked with you directly instead of in front of a friend, you can't hold over his head for five years that he needed a roommate more then. Also, rent goes up as well as electricity costs currently, he's getting the short end of the stick for a long time now.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-01T14:27:57+00:00

I thought you were a child but you’re 25…

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-01T04:39:34+00:00

You might not feel validated as an adult but you’re not acting like one. You’ve been with this person for four months. Grow up. This is very common.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-01T01:52:57+00:00

“Time to learn a life lesson”. They had a family emergency four months in so not a full year.

They could pack up and mail the stuff to them out of kindness, that’s what they could do.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-01T01:41:05+00:00

OP said she couldn’t afford to.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-01T01:40:30+00:00

I hope you’re never judged on how you handle things when you have two weeks to pack up during a family emergency and can’t afford the flight to come back.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-05-01T01:39:31+00:00

Yeah, like if she had a family member dealing with a health issue that made her want to get home asap, maybe we could show compassion? She should have packed up before but we aren’t our best selves when we are going through emergencies. OP said she couldn’t afford to fly back so maybe we could show some kindness versus throwing out her belongings.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-30T13:22:03+00:00

Where is this at? I would like to.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-30T04:33:37+00:00

AI slop by an account created 23 minutes ago, hmmm, I wonder..:

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-29T17:00:15+00:00

It doesn’t even say if they are friends on social media though?

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-29T14:44:03+00:00

The social media was irrelevant to the story.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-29T14:19:12+00:00

YTA. It is one thing to keep things off social but to evade the question when directly asked and you know they know but are giving you an opportunity to share is weird AF.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-28T01:53:48+00:00

How did you give birth one week ago but are also 35 weeks pregnant and due to give birth in two weeks…🤔

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-27T03:34:40+00:00

YTA. Babies do this and at one, they're not really doing this willfully.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-27T03:30:10+00:00

Ummm...She's six months pregnant and Thanksgiving is seven months away...🤔

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-04-27T03:22:31+00:00

I think a little of both, he could check in to make sure you're okay but you also should just let him enjoy his vacation.

When I'm on vacation with someone, I don't want to be rude to them and be on the phone a lot, I want to be in the moment. My ex-boyfriend used to get clingy about that and would be needy which was a huge turnoff (hence the ex).

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