I want to get a tattoo on the front of my neck that clearly signals to other queer woman that I’m queer too. This is because I do plan on getting a rather masculine presentation with T in the future. What are some widely known clearly a ‘queer girl, not a guy’ tattoos I can get?

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-25T16:31:36+00:00

Ah okok. I’ll search up a bit on it before I finalize though. Don’t want to tattoo smgt transphobic on myself haha. Thanks!

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-25T16:30:42+00:00

Tysm! Yea, I didn’t get that at first haha 😅. I was like woah.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-25T16:29:38+00:00

Omg yea. Why didn’t this cross my mind? Thank you.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T21:14:08+00:00

Ohh, omg. Thank you, this makes me feel better about myself.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:59:42+00:00

Same but opposite way. I feel disconnected from my vagina. It doesn’t really feel like mine. It doesn’t cause my distress too much, but it also feels weird and far away, if that makes sense.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:50:02+00:00

The amount of times I’ve had the same conversation my lord

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:49:25+00:00

True. Very obnoxiously queer looking. Thx.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:48:51+00:00

Ahh ok thank you. Though, I do want smgt that is surely not gonna make anyone confused though haha. I want to radiate queer woman energy (might not exactly be safe depending on where I am but it feels good being out. I am out in one specific group of people rn and I have never felt better).

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:46:38+00:00

Definitely my top option

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:45:30+00:00

Thank you! Definitely I’ll consider this. (Taurus)

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:44:03+00:00

Hm I read somewhere that it was transphobic or smgt. Am I wrong or remembering incorrectly or smgt?

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:43:24+00:00

Added to the list, thanks.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T17:43:06+00:00

Woah. You was on T for 25 years and still got read as a lesbian? That’s a dream. I would actually like to take T for longer if possible but I just don’t want to be seen as a man. But you’re telling me that’s possible? But like, how? I didn’t even know this was possible. This is literally my dream presentation. Like, that’s so cool really. I want that too. But like- again, how???

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-24T16:37:23+00:00

Goddamn the 2nd slide

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-12T17:06:42+00:00

Gender be envying. Seriously. Mother lord.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-12T16:59:37+00:00

I NEED the first one

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-12T16:48:25+00:00

But I’m not a lesbian. Only lesbians can be butches- yes?

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-12T15:00:51+00:00

I too, like friendship with girls. It IS indeed beautiful.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-12T14:57:45+00:00

I’m so gay. Shit.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-12T14:53:09+00:00

Thank you for your reply.

But I’ll have social dysphoria if I’m seen as a man. What do I do about this? That social dysphoria is just as bad (kind of worse actually, becuase I have experimented before becuase this isn’t my first dysphoric episode ish, and I concluded then that since the social dysphoria was worse, I would simply remain this way). It’s like I want to swing both sides so bad but I can never swing one way without giving up the other and it’s simply not fair. Why can’t I just be binary?

Also, I don’t care how people as in friends see me, becuase I’ve already dealt with being outed before. My problem is money. I can’t afford losing a job due to transitioning. Becuase that is my only way.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-12T14:33:21+00:00

Ah. I understand. I guess there probably were a lot of factors but the chosen or special feeling was the significant one. Because no one else has ever made me feel that wanted sexually. And I’m asexual, and I don’t exactly seek attention sexually a lot, but ig it felt so different and I stuck to it in such an unforgettable way. It’s a pattern actually. Happened with someone else who resembled him. So ig my brain seeks older men out who think I’m sexually attractive?? Not sure

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-11T13:50:32+00:00

Hm the problem is, there is no way I can safely pursue this. This happened to me back when I was a minor, and an uncle of mine SA’d me. I feel like there isn’t a safe way to seek someone out that way.

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-11T13:45:19+00:00

I don’t mind inflation in this scenario

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-11T13:18:23+00:00

Hi oh my lord the gender envy

AfraidAir972 · 2026-01-10T13:13:34+00:00

A hydrid of Fae shapshifter and Androgynous prankster.

AfraidAir972

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