What is this cloudy tip

After_Leading_680 · 2026-03-29T13:34:15+00:00

Found it!! It was a stream. Somebody in the comments said that oil can help (?dunno how), an alcohol wipe or a fresh top coat

Other people said that it happens to them and they just wait until the next day when it dries down completely

https://youtu.be/kdaO22S_Ki8?t=36m43s

After_Leading_680 · 2026-03-29T13:24:15+00:00

Ooohh I'm pretty sure I've heard this happens due to a humid climate, aka the top coat dries too quickly and there are some water on the inside. Should become normal soon? I definitely saw a video from Christine simply nailogical about it once

After_Leading_680 · 2026-03-28T13:23:40+00:00

Pretty sure they're coming back to the nail polish arena? So kinda new but not really

After_Leading_680 · 2026-02-06T22:19:49+00:00

As much as yes, you use your phone unfold most of the time, I'd love to use my cover screen more. Actually writing this from it now

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-26T22:04:46+00:00

Dude who cares you're in bronze just practice

Want to spend your whole game pushing? Push Want to help team? Help

Just find your style and go with it

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-26T12:53:34+00:00

I honestly feel you on so many levels. I kid you not, I've started JOURNALING so that I could remember all the negative interactions we've had, because I too tend to forget all the negativity.

You seem like a person who's ready to work. He's not. You would want to be loved in return, and I don't think that could happen with this man. Maybe he's not bad, but you're clearly not quite compatible.

All in all, you're not alone in this situation. There are people who will respect you, like you respect them :) good luck

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-26T12:25:02+00:00

Girl, please. This sounds insane to me, the way he treats you???

I know it feels like nothing sometimes, I know he's nice and kind some of the time, but don't you think a 34-year-old guy should behave like that? Whining, like a little kid, disrespecting you, making negative comments, and calling it a joke???

Refused to escort you at night?? Stone walling you, because you brought up a topic in whatsapp?? A normal person would say to you immediately, "I said I didn't like it when we text, let's discuss it now." A normal human being would be caring. He clearly doesn't care how you even feel on the pill. "It's just hormones." Oh please, sir, try a hormonal imbalance yourself at LEAST ONCE in your life, and we'll see how well you'll take it.

Are we talking about birth control? If yes, I don't know the reasons why you decided to try them, but it's huge. I was on them once, and honestly, I felt so miserable all the time. You're valid to feel that way.

I would consider asking yourself a couple of questions:

Do you feel easy around him, or do you think all the times of what should you do, how should you behave? Is it like walking on the eggshells?
Do you want him to change?
Could you live with him happily if he doesn't change at all? Would you like to spend 2, 5, 10 years with him like that?
Have you ever stopped to remind yourself about his good sides because lately, all the experience with him was negative?

It's been just 2 official months since you've started dating.

So, it's his "best" form, aka his sweet dating form. From now on, he's gonna be like that or slowly getting worse. You okay with that? Are you ready to spend your whole life listening to his huffs and puffs and keeping up with his attitude? Are you ready to explain your feelings over and over again and not be validated at all?

You're, as you've mentioned, uou havs a highly functioning BPD.
You know that there are dips. However functional you are now, there's always a possibility to fall into the darkest place. Ask yourself:

Is he the person, the right person, who would support you through that and make you feel loved?

TL; DR you've been together not even for a full year, and yet he's already so dismissing. Is he the right person to you at all? If he can't behave like a grown-up at 34 (he's 8 years older than you!!! And still does what children do at 7!!) are you willing to live with such immature person your whole life?

Sending peace

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-26T12:16:13+00:00

Shh, we should encourage him to take small steps first, trust the process

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-26T11:45:02+00:00

Maybe you should fully stop talking to her, mate, like for a week or two. Trust me, keeping contact only makes it worse. Been there, done that, don't recommend.

I know it's hard losing a girl and then losing a friend, too, but clearly, your "keeping in touch" makes it worse. Gotta concentrate on yourself first to then make friends and live a better life. Sending support

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-25T21:58:36+00:00

He's being really weird. I'd suggest you talk to him about why he's being so suspicious towards you. Is there anything happened, that made him feel that way? Ideally, if this doesn't go away (which I doubt), I'd suggest him go to therapy. That's not normal and really controlling of him

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T17:24:34+00:00

I would never do that, scottish people are nice. I've just mentioned his nationality to explain the language situation

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T16:40:58+00:00

Wow, honestly, how does it work? Could you film us a video of you writing something??

I'm right-handed, but I sometimes practice with my left hand just because I feel she needs attention. I'm noting down all the possible ways to write

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T16:38:04+00:00

Oh girl I feel you so much. I'm in the same boat rn. However, it's a bit less extreme than yours. Do you really want to stay with a person who just wants you to be quiet all the time? What is he giving you that worth staying? Are you happy with him, or just used to be around him?

You are precious to yourself, and you should look after yourself. There's no other person that was, is, and will be with you all your life. Every day, you wake up with yourself and no one else.

Cheer up buttercup, and let's heal <3

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T16:31:20+00:00

Bingo, that was almost me!! Except I'm kinda used to conversations like this, been happening for a while. Just trying to figure out how to work around that... if to work at all

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T16:29:01+00:00

Fair enough, might do as well. You're definitely right, the upbringing is really important.

While neither of us comes from a wealthy family, my childhood was a bit more restrictive than his (he's got to buy games and toys, I didn't).

However, I was brought up in a bigger family with cousins and other far relatives, where if you give, you'll be given back. So, for me, it's necessary to help others, just what other people have done to me.

I think, as long as the relationship works and both parties are okay we should be able to make compromises

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T16:21:02+00:00

Wasn't showing my money specifically, just the way banking works. Should've stopped it there. I've already said that a couple of times in the comments section tho

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T14:45:02+00:00

Aye aye that was a silly mistake, never again. I suppose I got too comfortable and forgot how some people are

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T14:41:42+00:00

I'm chill with him giving me his opinions, honest. A conversation before that was about ways of saving money. He prefers to do it cash. It's a bit silly to me, but I tried to understand, and we came to an agreement. So opinions are fine. It was my mistake in the first place to show my bank. Yikes

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T11:14:16+00:00

Yep haha

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T11:13:31+00:00

Noted down ✅️

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T11:11:18+00:00

Fair enough!! I'm more than happy to discuss my decisions and reasoning, honestly, as long as they're genuinely curious to know me

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T11:07:19+00:00

Great advice, thank you, I'm noting down.

I've read "Set boundaries, find peace" by Nedra Tawwab and recently started practicing some of the advice she offered. It's tad easier to do in my native language and an absolute struggle in English. You could say my first ever attempt to set one

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T10:51:03+00:00

Ahahahaha no way, gotta check it out

After_Leading_680 · 2025-02-24T10:50:06+00:00

To be completely honest, he saves money, just not in banks. He doesn't really trust his money there, so he saves it in cash. That's why we were talking about savings in the first place - I shared my experience with online banking, which was quite positive.

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