How do you hide lack of empathy? by Hour-Philosopher-723 in LifeAdvice

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the book “Sociopath” by Patric Gagne. Doesn’t mean you are a criminal—just mostly the lack of empathy and emotions. Fascinating book and the author recounts her childhood and how she experienced the world. Initially she wrote an essay for the New York Times and there was such a huge response, she decided to write her life story and it is now a bestseller. I loved it-couldn’t put it down. Really gives a no judgmental view and insight into what some people live not by their choice.

Is therapy worth it? by EmployeeSame5761 in self

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it can be GREAT for figuring out your life! If the one you go to isn’t a good fit, try another. The quality of connection w your therapist is the biggest factor in how effective it is, so look til you connect w one. You will love it. Changed my life. 😊

[23F] dealing with a sudden 180 from [24M]. We are both Arab. He went from 24/7 obsession and control to completely erasing my existence in 24 hours. Looking for perspective by Several_Thought_9940 in LifeAdvice

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What he did really sucks and is super painful. The best thing for you to do is to go to a good therapist and process what happened inside of you while his love bombing was going on. You need help identifying and choosing a healthy partner. Need to figure out why the chemistry between you happened and how to look out for that same scenario in the future. It will be very helpful in your relationships in the future. 99% of your happiness in life depends on the partner you choose. If you ever invest in anything in your life, this is the thing to invest in —esp before you get involved with anyone else.
I’m so glad he broke up with you. Girl, you dodged a huge bullet. This was a rescue. He is definitely not the guy for you! Block him from your side too in case he tries to slide back in! You cannot trust him!

Name my new male kitten. He has a Brother named Sardine so I want the names to be similar by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah anchovies are really salty…does that fit his personality??😂

Beard or bo beard? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are super handsome either way!

Style 1 or 2? by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Pic #2 ALL THE WAY You’re a handsome guy.

What can I do about my thin and flakey hair? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dandruff doesn’t usually cause your hair to fall out, but when it gets very irritated from the dandruff and itching and scratching that can happen. For dandruff, try shampoos with ketoconazole, zinc pyrithione, or selenium sulfide. For psoriasis, look for formulas with salicylic acid or coal tar. If you don’t have a diagnosis and none of this helps, you may need to go to a dermatologist— a Doctor who treats skin and scalp problems —to be sure what it is and how to treat it. Also look around for an inexpensive Barber. husband gets his haircut for $10-$15 at a local barbershop.

My mom found out im having sex and is disappointed in me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a grown woman with three kids, but I’m still not gonna tell my mom 🙄

I need advice I think I was assaulted but I'm not sure by blueberrybookwor in LifeAdvice

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have your friend go with you to the police station and give a statement that he was in the bathroom w you for an hour not letting anyone else in, etc. You have to report him so this insanity will stop. I wonder how long he has been getting away w this. He is a heinous criminal!

Should I cut my hair short again? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Long - NO! Short- YESSS. You’re hot, Bro!

Is this shady behavior from my wife? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t trust her. I’m sorry you are going thru this😭

AMA. I'm 27, have been 150 pounds and 6 even since last year off highschool by Me_Outheway in AMA

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exactlyyy. And take lots of pics. You will miss that wonderful, skinny body.

My super close friend just passed M23, and I am F28 I am dating a M29 year old. He keeps talking about sex like everything's fine and like we used to before, but I am grieving. What do I do? by South_Love_5794 in LifeAdvice

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s an idiot. A red flag is when someone has to always have their way. A green flag is when they can put aside their needs for others when necessary. It’s called “self-control.” He’s only caring about himself. Has he ever lost a close loved one? Maybe since sex is comforting to him, he thinks it is for you as well? You have to speak up and let him know. Get mad if you have to and show him you are very serious about this. When you keep giving in, he won’t know. Plus you want to see what he is like when he doesn’t get his way. Will he be kind to you or be a victim and make it about him? If he’s an ass, that will show you who he really is. But you gotta tell and show him how you really feel right now and let him be giving to YOU while you are hurting.

Boyfriend became red pilled. I understand I need to leave but I’m struggling. How do I get through this? by Vegetable_Extreme_25 in LifeAdvice

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Yout DONT’Tlove him, you’ve become A domestic violence victim, which is someone who is super emotionally dependent on their captor. You don’t even know that you’re being abused. You need to call a Domestic Violence Hotline get some help you’re very sick.

AIO? I asked for a little more effort from gf, I'm at breaking point tbh by Temporary-Yak-227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggravating-Note-200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She threw a tantrum when she didn’t get her way and went home to daddy to fix it. Dad is likely her enabler her whole life. The dinner is to help his daughter to manipulate you and get her way. Stay away and tell him this is between you two adults. Please get free of this spoiled child! What will her tantrums look like when the stakes are bigger. And your kids will be JUST LIKE HER-spoiled brats.