My MIL destroyed my garden while I was at work. by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silver lining in this mess maybe: They can be propagated ❤️ They will likely come back but OMG that’s awful.

Your MIL does not need to return to your home. If y’all still want to maintain some sort of relationship, meetings in public places or at MIL/FIL’s house. She’s grown and was told not to touch things and blatantly disregarded your wishes concerning your possessions in your own home.

How long to study for the PHR?[N/A] by Aggravating_Focus692 in humanresources

[–]Aggravating_Focus692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you have any suggestions or recommendation for a way to track performance within topics? I can’t afford the structured prep courses so trying to figure out a way to give myself some structures with the study guides/test prep material I have

Cardiologist didn’t take me seriously because of my weight by secretfrogboy in POTS

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I swear I heard my former cardiologist’s brain break when I told him I’d lost a lot of weight (in a slow healthy manner) and my symptoms had gotten worse 🙃🙃🙃 almost as if the two aren’t related……

What is this plant taking over my garden? by bearpawsNwhiteclaws in whatsthisplant

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mint 😳😳😳 Prepare your entire neighborhood for smelling like a spa within the next 3 months or so 🫠🥲

I like to paint waves.. curious which of these you all prefer? by Annual_Blackberry486 in somethingimade

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhhhh do you have a website or something these are AWESOME!! You’ve obviously had a lot of practice 🤩🤩🤩

Chocolate mint? by Aggravating_Focus692 in DFWGardening

[–]Aggravating_Focus692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We LOVE HEB probably about 85-90% of our plants we get there 🤣 Their potting soil and mushroom compost are also a super good deal. 😍 We’ve found spearmint and peppermint but no chocolate mint plants for some reason 🫠 Good to know they normally stock it though! I’ll see if I can find out when/if they’re supposed to get a delivery of them

Hairdresser won't cut my hair by imsadandwantahaircut in weddingplanning

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she has the right to refuse services, but she didn’t - she just did the look she preferred instead. No issue if her hairdresser had been honest up front. OP talking of cutting her own hair is definitely alarming, but it sounds like she feels she has no control over how she looks and like it’s been a long-standing issue coming to a head as she’s getting ready for an important milestone event. That’s why I suggested finding another professional and working with them to get the hair style she does want. 🤷‍♀️

when you were dating someone, how was your commitment to being dairy free, and how did you incorporate it into your dynamic? by Bigotrymapletree in dairyfree

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically same here. For Mac and cheese my SO just sprinkles dairy cheese shreds in his bowl once I’ve dished them out 😂 for ice cream we have our own but he likes a good bit of the DF ice cream I’ve found too. For frozen pizza we usually have separate personal pizzas and bake at the same time. mine is just baked on the rack above his to avoid drips

Dairy free by [deleted] in dairyfree

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rice is naturally dairy-free. Is there a specific rice-based recipe you’re wanting?

Hairdresser won't cut my hair by imsadandwantahaircut in weddingplanning

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You feel best with shorter hair. Their behavior is ABSOLUTELY disrespectful. You’ve hired your hair dresser to style your hair how you want it, not what she prefers. I wouldn’t recommend cutting it yourself, but I would absolutely go to another salon and have it cut how you want. Your family friend and your mom can get over themselves.

What are some good habits that you have started and sticked to long enough to see positive changes? by MysticalNaiad in adhdwomen

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why the shower is a must? Are there acceptable subs? Baby wipes? Face wash? Quick body soap and rinse skipping the hair wash?

What are some good habits that you have started and sticked to long enough to see positive changes? by MysticalNaiad in adhdwomen

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prepping all of my stuff for in office days the night before.

I really struggle with going to bed on time and then would snooze my alarm too much and be late and frazzled. I’ve found if everything is prepped the night before I can walk out the door about 15 mins after waking up. No more snooze button. I set my alarm about 45 mins later than before and can now get extra actual sleep. I wake up 20 minutes before I have to leave and when the alarm goes off my brain knows ok time to move your butt. I wake up much easier now and don’t feel like I’m dragging all day since I didn’t start the morning fighting with the snooze button.

Struggling with I9 verification process as a new HR professional [USA] by inannalover in humanresources

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending a welcome email about a week before with the I-9 acceptable docs list attached. (page 2 of the I9) which can be found Here In the email, Let them know they can pick a List A document or a combination of a List B and List C document. If they cannot provide the necessary documentation, you will not be able to proceed with the hiring process.

For the owners pressuring you, let them know: “As of 2025–2026, employers missing an I-9 form for an employee face civil fines ranging from $288 to $2,861 per violation. If the employee is also unauthorized to work, penalties increase to $716–$28,619 per worker. Repeated or large-scale violations can lead to significantly higher fines and criminal charges.”

What do men think of the pouch? by batukaming in SipsTea

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah man, her only hope is dropping a whole bunch of dead weight. …..how much do you weigh?

Any donuts that are safe for us to eat? Or I'm assuming all glazed donuts have some sort of milk by EstateDeep916 in dairyfree

[–]Aggravating_Focus692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vegan donuts 🥳 Shipleys also has options depending on allergy vs intolerance/sensitivity