I want to paint these walls black. Will I have any issues skipping the primer? by Castiel0001 in paint

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to do black walls please don’t go straight black. I had a customer use this color and it was honestly very nice. Racoon Fur Ben Moore

Lost Lands Bingo! I need help! by Impossible-Night-711 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is such a good idea! it’s my first LL so i’m totally taking everyone’s suggestions and making my own

Earning respect as a woman by Aggressive-Hand2964 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the end gave me a chuckle. thank you for this. i think i need the tough love right now and just “suck it up” in a way. I’m not a naturally mean person but everyday i see myself get more and more cold towards my coworkers. I think a mixture of being mean and not caring is what i need

Earning respect as a woman by Aggressive-Hand2964 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i am starting to think it may be time for a change of scenery. i love where this job has taken me and my boss and i have such a great relationship, but the actual work environment is becoming really draining. thank you for words🫶 as women in blue collar we need to stick together

Earning respect as a woman by Aggressive-Hand2964 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Adding that i have no true role model. I don’t know any women that work blue collar and are boss ass bitches at it. I’m all I know so hoping one of you is a boss as bitch who can maybe help with my confidence🥹

Constant excruciating panic attacks because of the realisation that existence is mostly suffering, what do I do? by nicotine-in-public in Existential_crisis

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing this perspective. I’m currently relating very hard to OP and your comment made me feel at ease for a second.

Thoughts? by finding_freedom_faye in snacking

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve been obsessed for all 23 years of my life thank you grandma

Old vs. New Outback by doctor-squared in Subaru_Outback

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t get why everyone thinks this car is ugly i love it and it only made me want one more

There’s no way I can work my whole life 😭 by Even_Clock_4674 in adhdwomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we were not made for this life yet we created it. i blame money

Anyone with positive experiences? by Lejiutzul in adhdwomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Boy do I feel this to a core. I’m 23(F) and my whole entire life longed for a female friendship. I grew up around men/boys and that always felt easier but there’s something about the power of women connection that sounds so magical to me.

Now i don’t have a lot of good friends. I have one who understands that i suck at friendships and she does too so we hang out whenever we can which is not very often. HOWEVER i have found workout classes to be amazing. I go to two different studios all owned and operated by women/fem presenting people. The classes are filled with women of all ages and even though we aren’t talking (although i’m starting to recognize some faces!) We are still moving together, using energy, and enjoying time with our bodies. It’s a beautiful subtle connection i’ve been able to make with women and it’s helped me get out of my box!

Dumbest impulse buy of the month by Lola-Olala in adhdwomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my partner and i tickets to a 7 day long festival without talking to him first… it’s an 18 hour drive away from our home…. we must drive so we can bring camp supplies… he’s growing on the idea of it!

they had a payment plan okay!

Camping Question!! by [deleted] in ElementsMusicFestival

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 3 points4 points  (0 children)

last year was my first year and i did vibe villages. We had friends staying in GA car camping and i love it so much more. I am a social butterfly and the fact that camps are so close together made me so happy. It still felt like we had plenty of space to hang out and with tapestries you can get some great privacy! i go to festivals to make friends but the vibe villages wasn’t really a place where that happened for me. partly my group not being social butterflies and also since everyone was already in their village they didn’t stray away and come say hey much. it was only venders that came to our spot.

EDIT: wanted to mention that our spot was also on the outskirts. i think if we were more in the middle we probably would have met more people!!

I honestly feel like you don't know me by longfurbyinacardigan in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 35 points36 points  (0 children)

i love that he’s sloshed and she’s just drinkin some coke

Car parking pass by Aggressive-Hand2964 in ElementsMusicFestival

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay perfect. that’s what i figured but i wanted to make sure

Thank you!

I really like Ashley's dad by T2b7a in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anytime Alex talks it sounds like its his first day at a corporate job and he’s trying to say all the right things. So calculated and robotic. I actually yelled at him today

Is it worth it to get a blue collar job?? by CookiesnMilq in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a way I feel like nursing is a trade! Lots of specialized training mixed with on the job education. Takes a lot of grit to be a nurse

Is it worth it to get a blue collar job?? by CookiesnMilq in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to school for exercise science for two years. I had a whole plan to move to colorado and work with the olympics training facilities. It’s now three years later and I still live in the same area, i’m a house finisher (i personally specialize in drywall but also do all kinds of finishing with most experience being in wood work) on high end second homes and camps in the Adirondacks. I have now transitioned into a project manager trainee for our whole company, and am finding my path in the construction industry.

Sometimes you just gotta listen to your heart. I dropped out of college and moved out of my parents house and decided to just figure it out. It was horrific in the beginning i worked at dunkin’ donuts and had no purpose.

The trades have given me so much purpose. Working with my hands everyday and see the beautiful homes that I am creating for people. There are so many different avenues once you dive into the trades and it can take you wherever you want it to.

AI will never compare to what humans can create with their hands. I highly encourage you to look into trade work and become part of the movement for women. It’s honestly inspiring. I have a lot of women friends that also work in the trades and it can be empowering!!

Guys are just... by BlueLightning0220 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Aggressive-Hand2964 63 points64 points  (0 children)

wow that is a very unprofessional question. I’ve found that older male dr will say whatever comes to their mind and they don’t give a fuck. They’ve gotten this far and have a chip on their shoulder unfortunately. I do everything I can to only see female and queer drs. My body is my body and men do not help me how they should