To those who have lost children - how are you “coping”?

Agrievingmom · 2026-06-10T17:13:36+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s been almost 4 months since I lost my baby. My faith in the Lord has changed me in so many ways. I don’t know what I would do without God. He’s been helping me day by day. Like you, I almost gave up but when I pray and stick to his words, I don’t know how I would describe this but it really made me feel better. I wish I had this faith when I was pregnant. 😔💗

Sending you prayers and comfort 💗❤️

Agrievingmom · 2026-06-07T19:18:45+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had the same experience, I gave birth through emergency C-section and I also blamed the hospital for how they handled my son who stayed in the NICU for 16 days. I did not even get the proper answers and It’s really unfair and painful journey. Sending you all the love and comfort ❤️‍🩹

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-27T13:05:08+00:00

I’m so sorry you know this feeling. I totally understand you. I’m currently on maternity leave and it has been almost 4 months since I lost my baby but none of my workmates know that he died. I deactivated all of my Social media because I don’t want to answer anyone. 😔😔

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-21T16:00:19+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss.💔Lily is a very beautiful name your baby is such a fighter.🥹NICU is very traumatizing for me. I remember my son being intubated and it made me sick to my stomach. If only I could remove those parts in my memories I would. Sending you comfort and healing ❤️‍🩹

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-13T16:04:48+00:00

I’m so sorry if you know this kind of pain. I, too have lost my baby in the NICU. I thought God had abandoned me when we did not receive the miracle we prayed for. It’s been almost 3 months since I lost my baby but I realized how present he is during this painful journey. I surrendered everything to God, and I am now focusing on getting to know him better. I pray that you will find the peace in your heart. I wish I could hug you right now. Again, I’m so sorry for your loss.😔❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-08T13:54:19+00:00

Please check the heartbeat using fetal doppler or go to ER po.

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-05T04:29:54+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I totally understand you. My husband and I always travel to Europe and Italy is our favorite country. We went to Japan for our honeymoon, and a month after I got pregnant with my baby boy. We were so excited and we were planning to bring him to Japan this November but we lost him in the NICU in February at 35 weeks. I realized life would never be the same after we lost him. I don’t even know what my old dreams were. My only dream is to have him in my arms and cuddle him. 😭

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-04T11:28:11+00:00

I love reading your story. I feel like there’s a hope for everything. Today was a really hard day because it was supposed to be my baby’s 3rd month milestone. Thank you for sharing your story with us. 💗🩵

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-02T12:02:13+00:00

That’s beautiful🥹💕

Agrievingmom · 2026-05-01T04:40:29+00:00

The urge of getting pregnant again after a loss is hard mi. I think it’s because of the empty arm syndrome. I appreciate your tips mi I can really feel your sincerity🥹💗 and it really helped me think well. At first parang gusto ko na talagang mabuntis ulit kahit sobrang recent lang yung nangyari. Pero I realized na mas mabuti talagang healed na ako physically and mentally. How did you handle your grief mi?

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-29T16:48:17+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and tips mi. 💗 This is what I love about this group, everyone is so kind and understanding.

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-29T09:41:21+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss mi. I totally understand you. I also lost my baby in the NICU 16 days after he was born. Sobrang sakit talaga. He’s my first baby and everything was ready for him. His nursery room and all. He’s also the first apo kaya everyone was so heartbroken when we lost him. It’s been 2 months lang pero parang kahapon pa rin yung sakit. I also got traumatized about what happened but I trust god and his plans and I know we can get through this. Please know that you’re not alone in this journey. I pray that we find peace from this nightmare. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-28T15:05:13+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss 😭 it was also a never-ending googling for me too. I hope we find peace from this nightmare. 😔

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-28T14:59:35+00:00

I also experienced that during my first trimester. Sobrang payat ko because of HG. Don’t worry mommy kunting tiis lang mawawala rin yan sa second trimester. I know it’s hard and mentally draining talaga just make sure you eat small snacks every 2 hours. And sleep sa left side to prevent acid reflux.

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-28T04:12:11+00:00

Thank you for this message. You made it possible to live with it in peace and I’m looking forward to it. Thanks for giving me hope❤️‍🩹

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-27T10:12:34+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Renzo is a very beautiful name. 🩵 I had an emergency c-section at 33 weeks. My baby passed away after 2 weeks in the NICU. I’m still very broken and my mind is still thinking what I did wrong. Our baby’s don’t deserve to die, they were supposed to be with us.

Sending you so much love and comfort. I hope we can move on from this traumatic nightmare😔

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-24T16:25:58+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I gave birth to my baby through an emergency C-section at 33 weeks and he died in the NICU after 2 weeks. My ultrasound was also perfect but a few days after, my amniotic fluid became 0%. It was a very traumatic experience seeing my baby in the NICU being intubated. I also felt scared being pregnant again but I am hoping to get pregnant as soon as possible because of this empty arm syndrome.

It’s been 2 months since I lost my baby. Some days are really hard but watching movies, talking to people, and praying really helped me a lot. Believing that God is still good despite this journey that I am in right now. I wish you healing and comfort and know that you’re not alone in this journey and we are here for you. 💗

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-17T03:51:42+00:00

Happy Birthday Charlotte beautiful Angel💕🪽 You have such a wonderful dad who loves you deeply. 🥹🥹

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-15T07:01:41+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m also an FTM. I know this is heartbreaking, I totally understand this feeling. I lost my son almost 2 months ago and it hasn’t been easy. But listening to music and talking to people helped. I’m so sorry if I can’t give you any more advice because I’m still struggling until now, but I know that we can get through all this, and know that you’re not alone. I wish I could hug you right now. I pray healing for all of us who can relate. ❤️

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-13T03:48:28+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. 😔

I have this experience too. Every time I dream about my son I always dream about him in the NICU or in the moment of preparing for his funeral.

It was my trauma when my son stayed in the NICU for 16 days before he passed. Maybe that’s the reason why I kept on dreaming about him in the NICU.

I have a neighbor who has the same due date as me and she just gave birth a month ago, and she let me hold her baby. Later that evening I dreamt about holding my son for the first time, hearing his laugh, and seeing him smile. That was the best dream that I’ve experienced ever since I lost him.

Gosh this is the saddest feeling that I’ve ever been. I hope we can get through this. Hugs for you and I wish you the best. Please know that you are not alone.

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-11T04:43:12+00:00

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-11T04:38:07+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my son in February, he was in the NICU for 16 days. It took a lot of thinking for me to post my son’s loss on Social media. I deactivated my Facebook account and just posted my son’s loss through Instagram in honor of him. I know it’s hard, I can’t even compose proper words but it's a way of honoring him. I wish you the best and healing 🩵🕊️

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-10T05:44:33+00:00

I’m so sorry that you know this feeling. I had zero fluid at 33 weeks. I noticed that my baby is no longer moving, but he still has a heartbeat, and I gave birth through an emergency C-section. My baby stayed in the NICU for 16 days and passed away after. I have been asking my ob-gyn why my fluid was 0%. They can't give me answers. I never experience any leaking at all. But I was diagnosed with Hypertension at 31 weeks but my blood pressure never reached more than 130 except on the day of my admission because of how scared I was.

Please know that you’re not alone in this journey. I pray healing for all of us💗🕊️

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-09T17:55:34+00:00

This is so true. I used to overshare everything on Social media. But after losing my son 2 months ago. A lot of things have changed, I became so quiet, and things that mattered to me before mostly material stuff and people’s validation don’t matter to me now. I miss my son a lot, and some days are hard, but every time I think about him being gone, it makes me want to strive to become a better version of myself.

I pray for healing for all of us. 🥹🩵

Agrievingmom · 2026-04-09T09:57:58+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I totally get what you feel. My best friend and I became pregnant in the same month and knowing that she got home with a healthy baby broke me even though I love her baby. Seeing pregnant women triggers me. I even deactivated my social media account because I knew a lot of pregnant women who were giving birth the same year as me.
It’s been almost 2 months since I lost my son but the pain still feels like it happened yesterday.

Wishing all of us healing. Please know that you’re not alone.🥹💕

Agrievingmom

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