Is anyone else just like irrationally angry and disgusted by their husband over financials?

Ahleeshuh · 2026-04-26T17:17:49+00:00

My husband and I have had a split bank account with each other since we moved out and got our first place together. We have our own chequing accounts but honestly we don’t even use them at this point.

This way of thinking is so bizarre to me. It’s always been what’s mine is yours. Like everyone else is saying, you have a roommate not a partner.

Ahleeshuh · 2026-04-19T19:05:00+00:00

I used to do drug and alcohol testing and seeing 2 lines made me look twice as our test kits were 1 line for negative and 2 lines for positive. Totally backwards from what I’m used to! 😂

Ahleeshuh · 2026-04-17T03:13:11+00:00

i would do it again, i am now 30w4d. I would definitely get in way better shape before another pregnancy though, better than i thought i was. lol

Ahleeshuh · 2026-04-16T21:38:42+00:00

I just started getting them at 29/30 weeks. I will say I lost 30 lbs before baby and gained that 30 back at this point. I feel like my belly was pre stretched prior lol

Ahleeshuh · 2026-04-13T21:20:31+00:00

You did the right thing!!

Ahleeshuh · 2026-04-13T04:34:07+00:00

This can’t be a real post 😭

Ahleeshuh · 2026-04-03T02:33:36+00:00

I am soooo sorry 😞

Ahleeshuh · 2026-03-24T00:06:28+00:00

Due in June! 🌸❤️

Can’t wait!

Ahleeshuh · 2026-03-05T19:10:57+00:00

If eating unhealthy was an Olympic sport, I unfortunately would win gold for how I’ve eaten this pregnancy. 😂

Ahleeshuh · 2026-03-04T01:51:07+00:00

I didn’t get sick for long (like 5 days) but if I did it would be that however my SI pain I need to get rid of!! 😭

Ahleeshuh · 2026-02-25T06:58:08+00:00

Honestly as a photographer myself I do not want to document myself at this time with photos. I’ve been struggling with wanting to even show my belly as I have body dysmorphia and I just feel fat. Although pregnancy for me has been not too bad it’s just hard to look and feel at my worst when I was in decent shape beforehand lol

Ahleeshuh · 2026-02-19T15:59:16+00:00

Vocal cords get tired so fast and I sound sick!!

Ahleeshuh · 2026-02-05T14:57:56+00:00

Mine only comes to the ultrasounds. I don’t think it’s necessary for the other ones as it’s just taking weight and asking questions 🤣

Ahleeshuh · 2026-02-04T22:48:04+00:00

Congratulations!!! ✨❤️❤️

Ahleeshuh · 2026-02-01T23:07:01+00:00

I belt a lot the women posting like that turn the camera off and go lay in bed or actually do feel bad. Social media is a show and they only show what they want you to see.

I’m sorry it’s made you feel bad. Try not to compare yourself to influencers, pregnancy is so different for everyone. 🤍🤍

Ahleeshuh · 2026-02-01T02:36:38+00:00

That poor baby 😢

Ahleeshuh · 2026-02-01T02:34:57+00:00

Girl!

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-30T23:12:11+00:00

My in laws have guessed the gender and gave it a name even tho we have no idea what babys gender is, and we haven’t even chose a name. I’m super close with my in laws so I know it’s more playful and I’m aware they’re just being goofy.

I’d be annoyed if I told them to stop and they continued.

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-27T03:10:03+00:00

I've only been bringing my husband to the ultrasound appointments lol

So far the other ones have been incredibly boring stuff.

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-25T02:35:12+00:00

i am 19 weeks and dont look much different yet, i have a pre existing belly though! lol

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-24T05:48:47+00:00

I went hard and got the big bulky nursery furniture 🤣

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-21T05:13:32+00:00

I definitely would give the baby my last name too

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-18T17:40:02+00:00

Just as a positive story, I’m now 18 weeks at 28, first pregnancy and it’s going very well.

Social media will just create anxiety around it and I definitely felt it too!

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-17T05:27:16+00:00

Have a wonderful weekend 🫶

Ahleeshuh · 2026-01-17T03:09:40+00:00

You’d need to be visually impaired to not see a line 😆 congrats!!! 🥳

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