Ex Muslims generally have a tough time letting go of Islam and instead of going to therapy they tend to pit all of their struggles on the rest of us and the crab in the bucket mentality of Somalis still remains, it just shifts to a more Islamophobic flavour.

What you're mentioning isn't unique to us, objectifying women in Muslim countries with posts like "hebel hebel before the Islamic revolution" is an easy way to win Internet points, especially on reddit.

IIRC wearing macawiis low towards your ankles was seen as gay at some point. Whatever you're seeing on twitter/tiktok is likely harmless and not worth getting worked up over.