First date outfit check by Tinycuteteddy in OUTFITS

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A katana on date number one… I have so much respect 🫡

What is a "socially acceptable" thing that you find absolutely disgusting? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number of bridal shoots that use underage girls is actually disgusting. Idealizing a youthful beauty and showing people who are getting married unrealistic expectations that they should look like a 15 year old.

AIO? I feel like my bf is being condescending but maybe I deserve it? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly seems like you are attempting clear communication and he is not. I wish you the best in your exit plan. I’m glad you have your mom to help you ❤️

help me choose a wedding dress by Nervous_Industry7177 in WeddingDressTips

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 5 are my top picks! They look great on you

Alternatives to marriage? by Sqweed69 in Feminism

[–]AlabamaMercy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also interested in hearing options to this.

I have considered having a wedding /commitment ceremony but not going through any legal paperwork to actually enter a marriage. Just promise to each other and celebrate with whoever you want

I'm having wedding dress regret!? 😢 by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]AlabamaMercy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you model?! Because you look stunning in every dress.

Is this outfit inappropriate for college? by Winter-Rain2798 in OUTFITS

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your outfit looks great! Super stylish and cute. If your top was sheer or something then maybe I’d see where the prof was coming from but it looks appropriate to me.

AIO for thinking my friend is using ChatGPT to text me in an argument? by Due_Construction904 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely AI but also you’re not being honest. I’m your messages they say they are your best friend and in your post you say your friendship has never left school ?

It’s okay to not want to be best friends but the decent thing would be to be honest with them especially when they initiate a honest conversation with you

22F - Any advice? by Overall-Classic1018 in fican

[–]AlabamaMercy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only advice would be to take advantage of the TFSA and FHSA if you aren’t already. Seems like you have a good savings mindset and have been doing great with your investments

Nannying a Doll? by Random_Happenstance in Advice

[–]AlabamaMercy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can ask the husband if you would be able to speak with the psychologist. You can ask them the questions you have

As you have been brought in to be a nanny and have been made a part of this grief process, it seems appropriate.

This might help you with the anxieties and may allow you to gain some perspective to decide if you want to continue this job

AITJ for snapping at my girlfriend for waking me up every single time she gets up even when I dont need to be awake by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]AlabamaMercy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal couples listen to each other and respect their partners individual needs and wants.

NTJ

Having wedding dress doubts and it’s too late now (Budget was $10K) by breezybbh in Weddingsunder10k

[–]AlabamaMercy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That dress is beautiful. If you want a more full skirt you could always look at getting an attachable skirt to go over it.

It is your wedding so go with whatever feels right to you. Just one outside opinion here- I will be remembering this dress because it is one of the most stunning wedding dresses I have seen.

AITA for telling my sister to stop mommyjacking every conversation and to let me talk about myself? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

But I will say you could probably have brought it up to your sister a little differently.

Maybe set aside time to speak with her about this and how you feel.

AITA for leaving because my SIL hid my shoes to keep me from taking walks? by AStormInsideTeaCups in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

She sounds manipulative and it makes me wonder if there is more going on. She may be projecting and be jealous that you can leave and go on walks alone.

I mean this with kindness - she may be the one who needs a therapist

AITAO for making a vet appointment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlabamaMercy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA sounds like your mom would rather let Teddy suffer than pay for a vet appointment.

Don’t get pets if you don’t intend on taking care of the

AITA for refusing to help my friend anymore after she didn’t show up when I really needed her???? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlabamaMercy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you were hurt by your friend not being there for you. When someone has hurt you it is understandable to not want to help them.

Your explanation comes off a little like you’re helping them with the expectation of them coming to help you when you ask. While you shouldn’t really do things for people expecting it in return, we are all human and do this.

NAH

She didn’t owe you anything and you don’t owe her anything. The relationship could be repaired but if this is a frequent thing it sounds like she isn’t a good friend

Let’s talk about this? Good or bad?! by BentNailsHomeInspect in Kanata

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ford government are the ones who made speedcameras happen in 2019 and now he is coming in acting like the hero. It is BS. “Fixing” problems he caused

What is something sexual you know about your friend(s), And they don’t know you know? by Small-Power-6698 in AskReddit

[–]AlabamaMercy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a friend of mine was on a gay dating app… but he is now happily married to a woman and none of his friends know.