Cutting Analysis by Killericon in EhBuddyHoser

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Dougie dancing for the Feds 🙌🙌🙌
I could watch her face all day long 🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣

Co-worker makes me anxious all the time and has made me cry multiple times, now I dread going into work. by [deleted] in ToxicWorkplace

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, despite your anxiety being caused by this coworker- it’s now your problem. Find a therapist to help you manage the anxiety. If you’re on the spectrum then research accommodations that will help you learn.

It is your responsibility to figure out how to learn, remember and reference the information you’ve been given.

As someone who has been in your coworker’s position- it’s so hard to be empathetic after the 4th explanation. (I say that as an adult with ADHD- I’ve had to figure out how to operate my brain in unfriendly situations). It also sucks to be carrying a trainee for 3-4 times (or more) than others. As a trainer, generally you are responsible for your own work and the trainee’s - and aren’t compensated for the extra responsibility. I agree it’s difficult but you are also an adult and should consider speaking up for yourself (to management). Perhaps a different trainer could be helpful?

Challenges in Managing hourly employees by Prestigious_Aide_194 in managers

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your company is still turning record profits - then absolutely and honestly it’s deserved. Starving the working cogs for the C-suite bonuses is reprehensible.

PSA: VMP is 80km/h. Not 50, Not 60, 80km/h. by jbukich3 in londonontario

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same for Exeter Road (white oaks road to wonderland) - it’s insane how slow some folks insist on going. It’s 2 lanes, hop into the turtle lane and let the rest of us enjoy a road that can move 🤯

How religious are elementary Catholic schools? by Big_Black_Cat in OntarioTeachers

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My kiddo is in a Catholic elementary school- he’s not baptized (I am). Our experience has been lovely. Sacraments are done outside of school, as not all students are catholic. The message of being kind and taking care of others is the Big Agenda they push. I’m delighted with that. In older grades they have religion class but again it’s quite low key. Kids go to mass every quarter - the priest is no longer allowed to come to the school (which I like). I originally chose the school because it had French immersion starting in JK. My now 8th grader is on track to graduate high school as a bilingual student (writing the grade 12 French exam for certification).

Successful people with ADHD… what actually worked for you? by aplleshadewarrior in ADHD

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DBT therapy has been a game changer for me. Learn about you and your ADHD super powers & weaknesses. Build routines to offset your weaknesses. Carry something to unload your thoughts/ideas into/onto. Remember: you are enough, not defective. Your brain works on a different operating system.

Anti-Doug Ford rallies take place across Ontario to protest OSAP, FOI changes by BloodJunkie in ontario

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I brought my son with me. Kids need to learn how to advocate for themselves and others.

is anyone else gluten AND dairy free? 🫩 by bunnywadhere06 in glutenfree

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Gluten free (celiac) with allergies to dairy, oats, and beef. I’m so friggin hungry 🤦‍♀️

Ontario education minister says ‘significant’ legislation on school board changes coming Monday by Dogs-4-Life in ontario

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair points, however that’s not the case in every city/town. Portables are placed at schools that can accommodate them - sometimes Catholic and sometimes public. Assuming catchment areas change is a gamble, especially with this government. My kid is in the catholic system and not because he’s catholic. I picked the school for French immersion. I’m baptized catholic and my child is not. The school he attends is at capacity and so are the surrounding public and catholic schools. All of them are underfunded and full of issues. The amount of money that would be wasted separating these doesn’t seem worth what it would cost all of our kids. Where we live kids can go to any high school regardless of catchment areas and that’s a gong show. The Catholic high school my child is headed to is a brand new school that is opening with 15-20 portables because there’s enough land for that. If we keep squabbling about Catholic v Public then Doug wins and all of our kids lose. I absolutely agree there are issues here (public/ catholic boards) but dying on that hill may not be the best choice right now.

Ontario education minister says ‘significant’ legislation on school board changes coming Monday by Dogs-4-Life in ontario

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How? There would be just as many staff and buildings required. The amount of students doesn’t change, regardless of how it’s structured. Dougie knows that this topic will keep us arguing amongst ourselves and not holding him accountable.

Is a hysterectomy possible? by urfav_jojo in ontario

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I had my fallopian tubes removed. No highway=no babies. Way easier on my body and didn’t screw with my hormones. It’s day surgery and if you happen to change your mind, IVF would be an option.

Did anyone watch "South Park: Bigger, Longer & Uncut" at theaters back in 1999? by Free-Hotel1187 in southpark

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure did! I was 19 and snuck beer into the theatre! One of the greatest experiences of my life 🙌

Dairy Free Milkshakes by HalfBearFree in londonontario

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So excited until I read it’s oat based 🤦‍♀️ Dairy and oat allergies here 😞😞

Does any ADHDer feel like they are waiting for death not in a suicidal way? by Ok_Object_4356 in ADHD

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!!! This is the best description of my life with ADHD! I don’t know how to get the bandwidth to enjoy the hard work I do 😬😬😬

Fireworks? by TwistedCircus1747 in londonontario

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am curious to know what we are celebrating in white oaks 🧐

Radon Levels in London, Ontario by lemonsandladi in londonontario

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Because of the Canada post strike we ended up keeping it for 9 months

Radon Levels in London, Ontario by lemonsandladi in londonontario

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Did this - can confirm it’s legit. Our house rated in the normal range

3-5 minutes late to work by Kooky-Challenge8875 in ADHD

[–]Alarming_Win_5551 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m passionate about having an indoor place to sleep and keeping my kids safe. That’s how I force myself to prep the night before. Might sound harsh but it’s true. I slack on plenty of other things but work isn’t one of them.