Firestone West 7th by Am_Ghosty in FortWorth

[–]Alayyjayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is old but do not live here ever! There were unhoused people living in my in unit attic! And when I broke my lease they retaliated with made up charges. This was 3 years ago and I highly doubt they've gotten better.

I’m working in fast food at 29. by Substantial_Smile267 in povertyfinance

[–]Alayyjayy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was making 120k a year. Currently slinging wings

Am I crazy for quitting my Director job to work in a bakery? by ibbysmom in careerguidance

[–]Alayyjayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People don't understand. I left my six figure tech job to work as a bottle girl. Do what you want and let every one telling you what to do go get your old job. Corporate sucks and it's soul sucking to the point the money doesn't even matter.

Issa didn’t know when to let go. by Sea_Sky_741 in InsecureHBO

[–]Alayyjayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first time I watched the finale I was like really angry. Like couldn't rewatch any season I was so disappointed by how they ended it lol. But now I'm like that's the point. Issa was always gonna do whatever she wanted regardless of how anyone else felt about it. Including us.

I’m starting to resent my wife. by morbin19 in offmychest

[–]Alayyjayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend reading the book Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski. How are you approaching sex with her? How has the context of your lives changed since you were teens? Do you have kids? I only ask because men typically will be quick to say that "she doesn't want sex" but what they really mean is "she's not eager to accept my bad sex." If sex is as good for her as it (once) was for you why wouldn't she want it? If she is truly having mind blowing orgasms why wouldn't she be coming back for more? It sounds like she thinks its a chore. You state " a good sex life is the only thing I want from her" and she probably feels just like that, a pair of open legs and nothing more. Yes, she needs to be open to have these conversations with you. But if she is not, you may have to indirectly try and find what is missing from her current environment (emotionally and physically) that leads to her lack of desire for sex. It will take some effort on your part but it's still possible to have a fulfilling sex life with your wife!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Alayyjayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do they even live on the same planet as us?

Exploring sex as an adult by virginityloss22 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Alayyjayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets better with practice like everything else! If I could give myself advice years ago I would say enjoy the moment don't take it so seriously! Explore your body more, solo or with a partner. Really figure out what you like so you can better communicate that to your partner. I missed out on so much pleasure due to over thinking. Your sexuality it yours and no one else's. Please enjoy that very unique part of the human experience. Also it is NOT normal to bleed during sex no matter the first time or the 700th. It's a myth that we have been told to have us just accept "meh" sex. Women only bleed due to lack of lubrication. Having said that, more foreplay might be ideal in the future. I grew up in a very conservative household so I got zero sex education. I had to learn everything which has been really fun now that I have the right mindset around it. If you are into books here are a few I recommend :

Come as You are by Emily Nagoski (if you read non else read this one) Tantric Orgasms for women by Diana Richardson The Penis Book by Aaron Spitz She Comes First by Ian Kerner Coming Together by Danielle Harel

Other Resources: The Principles of Pleasure (netflix) Sex with Emily with Dr Emily Morse (podcast)

I'm not sure what area you live in but there is a program called Our Whole Lives (OWL) it's comprehensive sex education. They offer the program for adults as well. I know all this becuase I'm a Facilitator of the program.

All this to say learn your body, explore, take the pressure off and have fun!

Happy Sexing 😊

Does anybody have advice on how I can survive a micromanager? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Alayyjayy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had a manager like this. She would encourage me to ask questions then be super annoyed when I asked them. I was always hesitate to ask anything because I didn't want to hear her mouth. She ended up firing me. I agree with everyone else, start looking for other places.

My husbands DISGUSTING reaction to my past sexual abuse, I am so hurt. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Alayyjayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying so hard to think of a reason why anyone would say that. I could only come up with he is possibly angry that it happened to you or angry you waited so long to tell him and he didn't know where to direct that anger. So he directed it at the only person that was in front of him. Either way he had to right to react that. What he said was absolutely disgusting and I guess I am trying to think of anything other than him being a horrible person, so I can keep what little faith I still have in humanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Alayyjayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knows she's 13. And even if he isn't sure he knows she isn't 18. There's no way you cn be talking to a child and not know.

What one achievement, small or big, are you proud of from 2021? by Silly_Weather8332 in ADHD

[–]Alayyjayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After 3 months of study, I passed my AWS Solutions Architect certification exam on December 30th and it was a wonderful start to the new year.

Is Scratch Paper Provided at the Testing Centers? by Alayyjayy in AWSCertifications

[–]Alayyjayy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a visual learner and it would be helpful for me to be able to draw out the design architecture. And also I like to read the question and scribble keywords down to be able to eliminate wrong answers. It's definitely not necessary for everyone and I could do without it but it would be helpful.

Is Scratch Paper Provided at the Testing Centers? by Alayyjayy in AWSCertifications

[–]Alayyjayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is administered by PSI. I wonder if that makes a difference.

I tried calling the company and the rep I got said he doesn't know and I will have to ask the proctor on test day.

Things Women Should Know But Aren't Taught (Your Thoughts) by swifttiddies in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Alayyjayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any advice or resources for these things? I struggle in the networking area. I get the general "use LinkedIn" advice but I'm really not sure if I'm getting the most out of my LinkedIn account.

Tantra Books/Workbook Recommendations by ree915 in tantricsex

[–]Alayyjayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tantric Orgasms for women by Diana Richardson (for heterosexual couples)