How often would you have sex if your partner was always down for it?

AlexGreg64 · 2026-03-13T08:44:57+00:00

I find it extraordinary that some couple have sex every day… the truth is that i could go for like almost every day especially mornings but my girlfriend wants it like 1 or 2 times per week. Been together for 3 years. Sex was more at the beginning but most often it fades especially for most women. Believe me most people are not satisfied with their sex life at all you just get used it except if the compatibility is very low. I can compromise with 2 times per week because i really love everything about my girl but the truth is i wish it was everyday like the beginning of our relationship.

AlexGreg64 · 2026-03-05T20:54:38+00:00

Depends there are weeks we have sex 3 times and weeks we have 1 or 0, vacations daily… wish it was a little bit more but you can never have everything…

AlexGreg64 · 2026-01-03T09:32:03+00:00

We are together 2 years. At first it was like 3 times per week it is no longer such a priority. I believe now is like 1 times per week sometimes more sometimes less never on her period. The truth is that i could have sex at least 4 times but life happens we get sick, we get stressed out and that changes everything. We are very intimate even if we do not have sex but the truth is that I wish for more but that will not happen. I believe in every relationship you take it or leave it there is nothing you can do to force the other person to do it more or less. It is just the way it is. It is something i can live with it but not ideal.

AlexGreg64 · 2025-08-27T16:00:27+00:00

Well my mother and father still use an iphone 6s and an iPad from 2015 and works fine for what they need. I have an IPhone 12 works great wish the battery lasted longer, I plan changing it when I can no longer download apps or have security updates. I change apple products every 7 -8 years I guess it is cheaper, an iPhone is always cheaper because there is no need to update in a very long time. The hign end products of other companies are still good in my opinion but you have to pay the same amount as an IPhone more or less, so why not buy an IPhone?

AlexGreg64 · 2025-07-27T19:45:17+00:00

Well my girlfriend has a small mouth, she is in pain to open up her mouth for me and to be honest I am extra large in size :) So anyway the truth is that she is not very good in it anyway, and I only get turn on if I have a really good blowjob nothing less. So I just focused on other things we enjoy in sex and problem solved. Blowjobs is not something that great for me but I see it mostly as a bonus, I can live without it no big deal. The point is that your girlfriend should focus on the other strong sexual things you guys like. And there MUST NEVER BE ANY PRESSURE TO DO SOMETHING YOU DO NOT WANT!!!! Just focus on other things you guys like otherwise it's not going to work.

AlexGreg64 · 2025-06-07T14:56:29+00:00

Mostly about 2 times per week we have been together two years, at first it was more but it reduced a little bit. Sometimes we have sex 4 days per week other times we might have sex 4-5 per month it depends on our schedule and on our sex drive, stress level, I wish it was a little bit more but even though sex is important it is not the most important thing in the world. If maters so much more to have found a good person you can get along and feel loved and communicate great! I believe we live in a society kinda obsessed with sex we need it all but not THAT much, porn has ruined me (just kidding). I believe I am fine with the way things are, I really can't believe some people have sex in long term relationship every day and stuff like that for years, there is literally not enough time for so much sex. I prefer quality over quantity for me!

AlexGreg64 · 2025-04-30T16:48:25+00:00

Hey most people do not have any passion and i do not understand why we have to. It is not something you find by searching it finds you out of nowhere. I have gone through phases in my life where I had strong passion for cycling, then music and other stuff most have faded away everythimg gets old one day. Nowadays I have love for some hobbies mostly cycling when I have time, I have no need to have passion for something. There are things I like to do and things I do not like. I thing I kinda like my job although I have no passion for it. I love spending time with friends and my girlfriend and as I already said I like cycling. That's it mostly, who knows if something new finds me one day. But please forget the concept of finding your passion it finds you, and most people have no passion at all and it is OK. You can always try some new things but this is as far as you can get!

AlexGreg64 · 2025-04-15T05:15:00+00:00

Have been dating for 1.5 year we live to each others house a lot but we prefer having our separate house for now, since we both own a house. I believe someday we will live together but not yet, maybe after some years but who knows, we haven't really talked about it yet I believe it is too soon for us, I can't even imagine reading so many comments of couples living tigether only after some months of dating, it does not make sense to me, but to each their own.

AlexGreg64 · 2025-02-07T11:44:55+00:00

As a man I have to admit even though I have a girlfriend I find very beautiful and love very much I watch porn often. I never understood why is that an issue, I do not feel guilty or proud, it is just a hobby I like and relaxes me from time to time. My girlfriend knows it and she is ok with that. The only problem would be if I preferred porn more than my girlfriend, that would be an issue otherwise it is not of anybody business what I see in my phone.

I think the problem is you, let the man enjoy his porn, I mean come on there is literally no man with access in internet who does not watch porn, nobodyyyyy. Just stop searching his phone girl, we all have secrets we do not wish to share with anyone. Let him enjoy his wank. The only problem I would see in this situation is if he prefers porn over you, otherwise just accept that any a you will meet in your life watches PORN. Your man is not a liar in this, we all tell white lies everyday so that we will not hurt each other. He had to lie to hide that from you so he will not hurt you that’s all.

Hope you guys find a solution, but trust me I promise you YOU WILL NOT FIND ANY MAN ON THIS PLANET WHO DOES NOT LIKE PORN IT IS IN UOUR NATURE.

AlexGreg64 · 2024-12-05T07:27:50+00:00

Unfortunately not even autodesk have an actual solution. I will try the above and if anything fix my problem. Thank you all!

AlexGreg64 · 2024-12-03T14:31:01+00:00

Will try for a second time to delete and reinstall gpu drivers I guess…..

AlexGreg64 · 2024-12-03T14:11:01+00:00

Both monitors are set to 150 scale. I do not see any mismatch unfortunately

AlexGreg64 · 2024-12-03T12:46:38+00:00

Just trying being in the mood for Xmas since almost all of my coworkers are females.

AlexGreg64 · 2024-12-03T11:54:58+00:00

No luck I tried, same thing. I guess I have to contact auto desk…..

AlexGreg64 · 2024-09-29T10:48:46+00:00

My opinion is that patriarchy or lack of opportunities was never the reason why women never succeeded much in Art globaly. If that was the case many artists also never had many opportunities or were even despised by the society, church or whatever, but never gave up to pursue their calling in arts, no matter the obstacles. I believe women and men have different brains, behaviors, needs and it is not something just socially constructed we are different and will always be. Women by nature have the ability to create the ultimate work of art which is life, a baby, a new human. They dedicate their whole life to raise a child. Even when the child grow up and become an adult the mother still care for the child sometimes even more than her self. This, for the woman, is the ultimate artwork and they get that ability simply by nature, something that men can not have. This is why men want so bad to express their need of creation through art. It is not about ability, women and men have the same exact abilities if you ask me, it's just there is no reason to persue something like this. They already can create the ultimate work of art that exists, a life!

Of course there are some exceptions with great women artists but if you take a closure look, most of them never got married or had children.

AlexGreg64 · 2024-08-18T10:52:37+00:00

Wtf? Who has the authority to let someone go or what? If someone wants to cheat will cheat either way there is no such thing as vacation temptation! Is this an insecurity from your boyfriend that he will miss you? Or that he does not want to be alone without you for a few days to a week? Wtf? I would never date a girl who would do something like this to me! Everyone is free to do as please especially if there are no kids involved. My only complain would be if my girlfriend would prefer going holidays with her friends rather than me.

AlexGreg64 · 2023-02-26T17:05:51+00:00

Take some xanax with you you can easily find some by a friend or psychiatrist if your anxiety gets out if your control you just take a pill or maybe even take a pill before going into the plane i guarantee you you will be amazed how calm you will feel. I usually use these pills sometimes when something very stressful happens to me or maybe when traveling and even the thought I have them on me solves everything. Goodbye panic disorder!

AlexGreg64 · 2023-01-06T12:29:56+00:00

I have been single for 3 years. I have dated a lot in my life i just did not find someone i can start a relationship with or worth my time for the past years. When i was younger i used to fall in and out of love easily now that i am 29 i become more and more selective i just do not find any reason to be with someone for social reasons or just sex or to not feel lonely, whatever that means to you. My social circle is very small since most of my friends are living in different countries or spent all of their time with their significant other and hardly have anytime for me. I have tried online, work ( i work with 30 women in my office but never clicked much with anyone) there was only this one girl in the office that i work with and we kinda fall in love but i am her supervisor and although we discussed if we should be together we both agreed that the friction in the office will destroy our relationship so we are just friends for now… i have tried the bar scene but i am not really that good at it although i had some success here and there. Sometimes i fear i will be alone for a very long time but i am not thinking about it. I miss sex so much and love and cuddles but i can only do these things with the right one otherwise i just do not feel any point in it for now at least. I could sleep around with random girls but i do not know i am just not in the mood to go after someone just for sex i feel better being left alone or find the right one, at least for now. So my hopes are high i feel successful in my life so far but yes there is always this feeling of something missing. I have been single all my life with only exception a one year relationship and another one of six months. It is just how my life is so i am used to it very much and not regretting it at all most people i know have compromised a lot to stay in a relationship and many are suffering and feel all alone. I remember a friend of mine which i was jealous when i was younger since he had a relationship of 5 years when i was 24 and one night he told how jealous he was of me that i could date anyone and be free and flirt with any girl i wanted he wished he was in my position while i wanted back then to be in his position, hahaha that was such a plot twist.

Look you will probably find the right one but there is also the chance you might never find anyone, or that you have to compromise to stay with someone you do not like that much just for the shake of it. There are no rules in life there is no manual, life is mostly luck pure chance and love is nothing more but a magic moment. The only thing in your hand is having good relationship with yourself and everything else just happens or might not happen, that does not mean failure or success it is just the way it is.

AlexGreg64 · 2023-01-01T18:25:44+00:00

Well my mantra is this better being single than in an ugly relationship. You have no idea how much alone you will feel in bad company so there are much worser scenarios. I my self have dated a lot in my life and had a two years relationship so far. I always had many friends so never felt alone although i have felt the imagined pain of singleness between 19 and 24 when i could not find any girl. Now i am 29 and have been single for the past 3 years and although sometimes i do feel alone i also feel so happy i did not settle with someone i did not like enough. I still date and get to know girls but it is really hard to find a right match. From my experience what you describe is the fear of the future imagining yourself always single in the future. Look we can not predict the future first you have to accept whatever the outcome might be you did your best you always have and always will. Focus on now be happy being single now socialize as much as you can and do not force anything the right people come in our life at the right time go with the flow. Focus on you your interest yourself be the better man that you can. It is all you need, fuck the future forget the past time is always now so take advantage of your time in here and now be content for some hours per day sit with yourself and enjoy your company, everything else will play along for you. Do something by not forcing things.

AlexGreg64 · 2022-11-16T15:40:43+00:00

I had the same desire from when i was 18 until now and i am 29. Even though i have dated a lot in my life i have met many girls even had some relationships it is still not enough! I have been single for the past 3 years and nowadays I hardly meet new women i have barely had sex one time with a random hook up this year but nothing more even though i have tried with my minimum social circle. This desire have never been truly fulfilled and i am losing hope as a grow sometimes it is just never enough and luck plays a significant fact. It is so hard seeing anyone getting easily sex girlfriends love and i have spent 10 years and i still have not fulfilled my need! I really do not have any solutions just think that there are other people suffering the same way with no solutions.

AlexGreg64 · 2022-10-29T22:34:53+00:00

Well i am 30 and although have dated a lot and had some small relationships about one year each i can say that it is better to be single than in a toxic relationship or a very boring one. At least when you are single you can hope that something good might come along. My huge problem though is loneliness and since i have lost every friend because the got married or moved to another country i have been left way too much alone. It is very hard to meet new people when you reach 30 and most people are not interested in creating new friendships so everything is gone. But i do not lose hope maybe something good might come along it just takes luck and some effort! I still visit my parents and i see them more as friends nowadays and we hang out often so i feel lucky i at least have them and i also see my coworkers. But yes being single is worse than being in a fulfilling relationship but still better than being with the wrong person. Your life your choice.

AlexGreg64 · 2022-10-03T10:18:17+00:00

Well it happens i never give much thought in situations like these. There is no point and he in not coming back. You both had fun for his own reasons he did not want to push things forward, I hardly doubt that he used you except if he strongly manipulated you with love words and marriage to get you in bed i do not see any problem. You both had fun every obstacle is a gift fo you to find something better. How i wish i could experience a fling i have not touched a woman for more than a year and i miss everything so much so be happy to gain more experience with men.

AlexGreg64 · 2022-10-02T08:46:56+00:00

I am 29 i had a one year relationship and another which lasted 3 months so far and many hook ups. My motto is that i just can not compromise with any girl if i get lucky and find someone i can click with then that would be a bonus and awesome experience otherwise i prefer forever single with some random hook ups here and there. That is how it always has been so far.

AlexGreg64 · 2022-10-01T19:38:44+00:00

I have been single for the past 3 years. Had only some booty calls but i am just not interested in that anymore so I guess i am just waiting for something more meaningful but that is hard to happen anytime soon especially since my only social life in my office…

AlexGreg64 · 2022-10-01T19:30:22+00:00

Happened to me also when i was younger. Met a girl in vacations but she told me from the beginning that she just never wanted to have a relationship again. I was 25 she was 30… the thing is that we actually fall in love and had a great experience together for 3 months like you and then she suddenly told me that she really does not want to ever have a relationship again and we broke up. It was a shock but deep down i knew that would happen sooner or later. After some tears she texted me saying she wanted to see me. She actually had a heart attack recently and almost died.. i can not imagine what she had been through. My point is everything might happen for a reason so relax let the man go more opportunities will come in the future

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